YOURMUM:
I am not going to respond to your message bit by bit. I don't really see a purpose to it. You've been at your propaganda campaign for months here, and I doubt I'm going to be able to convince anyone here that you're wildly over-exaggerating and playing the victim. To be honest, I'm not even sure if you know you're lying or if you're delusional enough to think what you're saying is true. I strongly suspect it's a combination though.
Here's the thing: this "maturity high horse" is why I'm ultimately the one Daniel is with (and we are together, though you seem to think otherwise). In a situation where there's adversity, you can't handle it. You come out with insults and half truths that seem to be largely directed towards making yourself look like the victim. Sometimes you're successful. I offered you a truce, all the way back in April; I said listen, I don't like you and don't think you're a good match, but if you're willing to stop making dramatic, negative public posts, I will stop saying negative things about your privately. That was a sincere offer. Instead of responding, however, you choose to publicly attack me soon after you got the message. I gave you the opportunity to put it all to rest, and you decided that you would rather go out in a blaze of glory.
You were not a good girlfriend, and I did make lists about why. The moment you said that you hoped he would hurt himself, you lost any chance you ever had at being a good girlfriend. Then you continued to be publicly dramatic when you had the chance to have everything be peaceful. At which point was I supposed to decide that you were mature and stable enough to handle a relationship with someone who needs stability? Quite frankly, I never would have recommended you to anyone, regardless of my past with that person.
I think you are so wrapped up in yourself that you are incapable of seeing fault in your actions. I, along with everyone else involved (and that does mean everyone), have made mistakes, and I, along with everyone else involved but you, have admitted them. Were you acting even remotely sane, I would apologize for a couple things (though not everything that you've accused me of, because in some, I was in the right, and in others, I didn't actually do what you're accusing me of). You aren't taking any responsibility though. It's easier for you to believe that you've done nothing wrong rather than confront the fact that you've been out of line. I don't pity you.
I will directly address one line though:
Better stop lying about your DX status too. For how long did you lie to him about having AS? 2 years?
I do have an official diagnosis. I was diagnosed by a professional a couple years ago. Granted, she's probably not the best ever, and I've questioned it sometimes (there's some overlap with another disorder), but the next nearest psychologist is over an hour away (the joys of living in a small town), so I've never gone. That's never been a secret, but I am officially diagnosed with AS.
For everyone else: Like I said before, she's been at her campaign for months now, and I don't expect to convince you otherwise. I understand that you're just going by what you've seen, and unfortunately, that's been largely false. YOURMUM is exceptionally bitter, and unfortunately, she hasn't handled it well.
