For one thing i have almost no money. I want to be able to buy her things, treat her to dinners and shit. I don't want to buy her exactly, but i'd like the freedom that money gives. Another thing is that I don't want to find a girl then get a job which puts me out of convenient driving distance, or have her get a job somewhere that i have to move to. And lastly, i can't even imagine finding someone outside of a working environment. I figure once i get a job, i will have the money to blow on trying to find her, because i can't think of any cheap, easy ways to find people with a certain personality, intelligence, and goal in life.