And back on topic....
My advice to the lonely male aspies is to stop acting so desperate and sorry for yourself, harsh maybe, but desperation and self pity are never attractive. Look at yourself without the self pity and see the positives in your life, find reasons to like yourself. And don't just sit around in your room online all night waiting for a relationship to fall into your lap- get yourself out there, sure its hard, but surely if you really want a relationship (or even just a sex partner) so badly its worth making the effort?
Stop obsessing about it, find something else to do with your free time- at least then, when you do meet someone, you'll have something to talk about and you might even actually enjoy yourself.
As for paying for a prostitute that really depends on your own personal feelings on this, sure you might rid yourself off that virginity that you see as something hanging round your neck like a big loser sign, but that's all you will get out of the experience (unless of course you end up with an STD). Plus, is it really something thats going to do your self-esteem any good?
Please note, I am not saying that everyone should be looking for a relationship and/or someone to shag, but I don't think its helpful to tell someone who is looking for those things that they shouldn't. In fact I believe that telling someone that they shouldn't want what they do might actually provide them with another reason to beat themselves up for not being good enough.