Discuss GalileoAce

[GalileoAce]

You are who you are, regardless of what sex you happen to be.   

[odeon]

From a practical point of view, trying to change gender/sex has no real benefit for a lot of things. It only shows insecurity and selfishness, that you care so much about what you are that you have to change it, rather than accept who you are. I normally don't care for this sort of thing, but GA did it despite the risk of wrecking his marriage for his own seflish gain, which ultimately means nothing but to prove that he's very insecure. On top of that, he expects everyone to embrace that he went from man-child to slightly less male man-child when he himself cannot accept who he truly is.

That's why I told him to fuck off.

Ultimately, if you aren't happy with what you are, you won't be able to make those around you happy, either. And just as importantly, we are all selfish, first and foremost. You, me, GA, everyone.

You are one of the last persons I'd expect to attack GA from a seemingly altruistic point of view and I don't buy it. You are trying to provoke, as simple as that.

[Frolic_Fun]

Ultimately, if you aren't happy with what you are, you won't be able to make those around you happy, either. And just as importantly, we are all selfish, first and foremost. You, me, GA, everyone.

I admit that I am selfish, however I won't ruin a relationship just to get my own way. Emma loves me for who I am, changing my sex would disturb her as she's not particularly into that thing. In other words, If I change sex then I'm subtley forcing her to accept something that she doesn't want.

You are one of the last persons I'd expect to attack GA from a seemingly altruistic point of view and I don't buy it. You are trying to provoke, as simple as that.

I am only telling him what I honestly think. Trying to change yourself to become happy usually is a neverending upward spiral that to me is more difficult in the long run than accept for who you are.

In my opinion, wasting money to change your appearance is pretty much silly. That money could be spent on far more useful and functional things.

[El]

I'm still wondering how the hell GA would afford much more than GA is currently doing.

['andersom']

Your opinion is no surprise about just accepting it and getting on with your life ie; pretending to be something you're not.

But changing your sex *is* pretending to be something you're not. He was born a male and should accept who he is. Trying to be female won't make a difference for him, apart from fufill his own selfish needs. Personally I don't identify with a lot of males myself, but I feel no need to change sex because of that.

The same thing could be said for a lot of things - AS for example. A lot of us have it, but live with it - trying to fight it or change it won't do anything.

There always have been people identifying with the other sex more than their own gender.
Now there is the surgical skill and hormone knowledge to come a long way in making that identification more real.

Can't see what the problem is.

It's not like GA is going for the appearance of the most stunning female model in the world. Wanting all the attention in the world. She just wants a female body because she identifies herself with females.

You don't identify with a lot of males, so be it. You don't identify that strong with females that you think you should be one either. You find your own way and are ok with that.

Yes, it must be extremely hard for Ren. Will be hard for GA too, but, GA is the one in control here. And Ren isn't. That is theirs to deal with. And yes, it would probably have been convenient had GA realised sooner. But how is hindsight wisdom going to help. Doesn't change a thing in the present.

[TheoK]

The problem isn't that they were born as the "wrong" gender. I know a person who was pretty masculine but then "changed" gender through surgery. Now "she" is looking for girls(!)

['andersom']

The problem isn't that they were born as the "wrong" gender. I know a person who was pretty masculine but then "changed" gender through surgery. Now "she" is looking for girls(!)

Every She is allowed to be a lesbian.

[TheoK]

The problem isn't that they were born as the "wrong" gender. I know a person who was pretty masculine but then "changed" gender through surgery. Now "she" is looking for girls(!)

Every She is allowed to be a lesbian.

Of course. I just find it peculiar that a male would like to  be surgically changed into a female to become it.

['andersom']

The problem isn't that they were born as the "wrong" gender. I know a person who was pretty masculine but then "changed" gender through surgery. Now "she" is looking for girls(!)

Every She is allowed to be a lesbian.

Of course. I just find it peculiar that a male would like to  be surgically changed into a female to become it.

His wish probably was not becoming a lesbian, but becoming female.

And you´ll never know what hormones will do until you experience them.

Funny stuff, hormones.

[TheoK]

The problem isn't that they were born as the "wrong" gender. I know a person who was pretty masculine but then "changed" gender through surgery. Now "she" is looking for girls(!)

Every She is allowed to be a lesbian.

Of course. I just find it peculiar that a male would like to  be surgically changed into a female to become it.

His wish probably was not becoming a lesbian, but becoming female.

And you´ll never know what hormones will do until you experience them.

Funny stuff, hormones.

That's exactly what I find peculiar. I'm pretty sure his original wish was not to become lesbian.

['andersom']

The problem isn't that they were born as the "wrong" gender. I know a person who was pretty masculine but then "changed" gender through surgery. Now "she" is looking for girls(!)

Every She is allowed to be a lesbian.

Of course. I just find it peculiar that a male would like to  be surgically changed into a female to become it.

His wish probably was not becoming a lesbian, but becoming female.

And you´ll never know what hormones will do until you experience them.

Funny stuff, hormones.

That's exactly what I find peculiar. I'm pretty sure his original wish was not to become lesbian.

I wanted to be a boy till my hormones kicked in at age 11. Then those silly hormones kicked in, and I wanted to be female enough to get kids. Still didn't like the idea of getting breasts and all. Reallly a genderbender. After I got kids, another big hormonal shower, I became more and more female. Feeling more like a woman than I ever did before in life.

Hormones are weird stuff.

Think my sexual orientation changed more towards men than before too. Still not straight.

[TheoK]

Last year s/he fucked guys. Had some strange ideas about that too though. Only fucked with straight guys, no bisexuals or gays. They weren't "to be trusted". And this I've heard from many transvestites and transsexuals: they just want to fuck straight guys.

['andersom']

Last year s/he fucked guys. Had some strange ideas about that too though. Only fucked with straight guys, no bisexuals or gays. They weren't "to be trusted". And this I've heard from many transvestites and transsexuals: they just want to fuck straight guys.

Now, that is weird indeed.

As weird as some men only wanting to have sex with virgins.

Makes no sense at all.

[El]

Now, that is weird indeed.

As weird as some men only wanting to have sex with virgins.

Makes no sense at all.

the madonna-whore dictotymy- good girls won't know how bad their new lover is in the sack!

Last year s/he fucked guys. Had some strange ideas about that too though. Only fucked with straight guys, no bisexuals or gays. They weren't "to be trusted". And this I've heard from many transvestites and transsexuals: they just want to fuck straight guys.

GA, you mean?

[TheoK]

GA, you mean?

No, transvestite and transsexual acquantancies here in Sweden.