This made me laugh:
http://forums.delphiforums.com/aspartners/messages/?msg=9821.1
How to ASH proof your home. What about women with it? ![Huh ???](http://www.intensitysquared.com/Smileys/default/huh.gif)
I hate that site, haven't these idiot cunts ever heard of "look before you leap" oh wait they're insecure NT women, they always need somebody.
fucking bitches. ![Pissed Off :grrr:](http://www.intensitysquared.com/Smileys/default/pissedoff.gif)
Hmm, that Delphi site is merely the flip side of the coin from the "death to all NTs!" rhetoric so often encountered on Aspie sites. Personally, I don't mind if an aggrieved spouse needs a place to blow off steam. Who doesn't like to do that every so often? What I
do dislike is the "I must take my wild, untamed Aspie and turn him into the perfect housebroken pet" mindset. Control-freakishness is not attractive in anyone.
It does make me think I found the perfect wife though and appreciate her even more.. If I had one of them I think nobody would ever find all the pieces maybe some but not all ![omgzokool :zoinks:](http://www.intensitysquared.com/Smileys/default/grinman.gif)
LOL, parts!
Anyway, there
are a few calm voices in the midst of the screaming and yelling:
This Forum has given me a chance to look back on the last 6 years with Hubby and I have come to realise just how oddly precious a 'different' relationship is.
His behaviour has led me to:
* Ask clearly and honestly for what I want rather than play body language games
* Approach highly emotional situations with more calm and logic
* Really ask myself what the battle is and whether it is worth fighting and WHY
* Learn to value solitude and focus, and not stray from myself by getting hooked on others
* Re-evaluate my personal boundaries
* And celebrate the oddball eccentric in all of us - why should we all be the same?
As long as there are people who share these sentiments, there's hope.