This made me laugh:
http://forums.delphiforums.com/aspartners/messages/?msg=9821.1
How to ASH proof your home. What about women with it? 
I hate that site, haven't these idiot cunts ever heard of "look before you leap" oh wait they're insecure NT women, they always need somebody.
fucking bitches. 
Hmm, that Delphi site is merely the flip side of the coin from the "death to all NTs!" rhetoric so often encountered on Aspie sites. Personally, I don't mind if an aggrieved spouse needs a place to blow off steam. Who doesn't like to do that every so often? What I
do dislike is the "I must take my wild, untamed Aspie and turn him into the perfect housebroken pet" mindset. Control-freakishness is not attractive in anyone.
It does make me think I found the perfect wife though and appreciate her even more.. If I had one of them I think nobody would ever find all the pieces maybe some but not all 
LOL, parts!
Anyway, there
are a few calm voices in the midst of the screaming and yelling:
This Forum has given me a chance to look back on the last 6 years with Hubby and I have come to realise just how oddly precious a 'different' relationship is.
His behaviour has led me to:
* Ask clearly and honestly for what I want rather than play body language games
* Approach highly emotional situations with more calm and logic
* Really ask myself what the battle is and whether it is worth fighting and WHY
* Learn to value solitude and focus, and not stray from myself by getting hooked on others
* Re-evaluate my personal boundaries
* And celebrate the oddball eccentric in all of us - why should we all be the same?
As long as there are people who share these sentiments, there's hope.
