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Re: ask mcjagger dirty sex questions, or anything else.
« Reply #480 on: May 12, 2007, 05:29:01 AM »
Quote from: Calamity Jane on May 12, 2007, 05:26:13 AM

My ex-wife was very possessive in many ways. She was the jealous type to begin with, but I also think her phobias were complicated by the fact that she and I lost our virginities together. She owned my ass and I was pussy whipped into thinking that she was the only partner I would ever have or something. I did fine after we split up the first time and I had a different attitude when we got back together.
If you got back together, doesn't that mean you were still pussy-whipped???
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Re: ask mcjagger dirty sex questions, or anything else.
« Reply #481 on: May 12, 2007, 05:37:05 AM »
Quote from: Eclair on May 12, 2007, 05:29:01 AM
Quote from: Calamity Jane on May 12, 2007, 05:26:13 AM

My ex-wife was very possessive in many ways. She was the jealous type to begin with, but I also think her phobias were complicated by the fact that she and I lost our virginities together. She owned my ass and I was pussy whipped into thinking that she was the only partner I would ever have or something. I did fine after we split up the first time and I had a different attitude when we got back together.
If you got back together, doesn't that mean you were still pussy-whipped???

Of course I was still sunk, but by that time I had a straw above the surface and I was breathing on my own for the first time.

We spent the next three years getting together and breaking up, the whole while, both of us "growing up" a little more each time and not communicating at all ... ever.
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Re: ask mcjagger dirty sex questions, or anything else.
« Reply #482 on: May 12, 2007, 05:52:02 AM »
Quote from: Calamity Jane on May 12, 2007, 05:37:05 AM
Quote from: Eclair on May 12, 2007, 05:29:01 AM
Quote from: Calamity Jane on May 12, 2007, 05:26:13 AM

My ex-wife was very possessive in many ways. She was the jealous type to begin with, but I also think her phobias were complicated by the fact that she and I lost our virginities together. She owned my ass and I was pussy whipped into thinking that she was the only partner I would ever have or something. I did fine after we split up the first time and I had a different attitude when we got back together.
If you got back together, doesn't that mean you were still pussy-whipped???

Of course I was still sunk, but by that time I had a straw above the surface and I was breathing on my own for the first time.

We spent the next three years getting together and breaking up, the whole while, both of us "growing up" a little more each time and not communicating at all ... ever.
That's the biggest problem ever in sexual relationships..non-communication...honestly...it just never works if you never explore your thoughts together.
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Re: ask mcjagger dirty sex questions, or anything else.
« Reply #483 on: May 12, 2007, 06:11:11 AM »
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That's the biggest problem ever in sexual relationships..non-communication...honestly...it just never works if you never explore your thoughts together.

I wouldn't say it never works, there's plenty of marriages still going strong that work because they never discuss their unfulfilled wants,  but I think you have a much stronger relationship if you communicate and are honest with each other.  I couldn't imagine being in a relationship where I couldn't be completely open and honest with my partner- and I hate the idea that you can somehow 'own' a person.
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Re: ask mcjagger dirty sex questions, or anything else.
« Reply #484 on: May 12, 2007, 06:27:49 AM »
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That's the biggest problem ever in sexual relationships..non-communication...honestly...it just never works if you never explore your thoughts together.

I wouldn't say it never works, there's plenty of marriages still going strong that work because they never discuss their unfulfilled wants,  but I think you have a much stronger relationship if you communicate and are honest with each other.  I couldn't imagine being in a relationship where I couldn't be completely open and honest with my partner- and I hate the idea that you can somehow 'own' a person.

 :plus:

Totally agree. Open communication and honesty are the keystones of the relationship between my wife and I. Everything else seems to just fall into place. The Keystones actually started before we became "romantic".

The bit about each issue having its own language gets a little topheavy, but we have worked most of that out.
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Re: ask mcjagger dirty sex questions, or anything else.
« Reply #485 on: May 12, 2007, 11:49:23 AM »
Quote from: Calamity Jane on May 12, 2007, 06:27:49 AM
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That's the biggest problem ever in sexual relationships..non-communication...honestly...it just never works if you never explore your thoughts together.

I wouldn't say it never works, there's plenty of marriages still going strong that work because they never discuss their unfulfilled wants,  but I think you have a much stronger relationship if you communicate and are honest with each other.  I couldn't imagine being in a relationship where I couldn't be completely open and honest with my partner- and I hate the idea that you can somehow 'own' a person.

 :plus:

Totally agree. Open communication and honesty are the keystones of the relationship between my wife and I. Everything else seems to just fall into place. The Keystones actually started before we became "romantic".

The bit about each issue having its own language gets a little topheavy, but we have worked most of that out.

I find the fact that everyone needs you to define your relationship using a limited range of labels difficult.  Neither 'open relationship' or 'polyamorous' seem to fit quite right for us, but people seem to want you to pick a box and stay inside that box's set definitions.
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Re: ask mcjagger dirty sex questions, or anything else.
« Reply #486 on: May 12, 2007, 11:58:46 AM »
rules and labels make life so much more simple to define.

people are sheep, in general terms.
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Re: ask mcjagger dirty sex questions, or anything else.
« Reply #487 on: May 12, 2007, 12:05:17 PM »
Quote from: McJagger on May 12, 2007, 11:58:46 AM
rules and labels make life so much more simple to define.

people are sheep, in general terms.

I really wanted to believe for the longest time that there had to be a large number of people out there who could really think for themselves, that those who weren't sheep weren't in the minority, but I'm slowly coming to accept that most people are sheep.  God that's a depressing thought.
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Re: ask mcjagger dirty sex questions, or anything else.
« Reply #488 on: May 12, 2007, 12:07:37 PM »
Quote from: purposefulinsanity on May 12, 2007, 12:05:17 PM
Quote from: McJagger on May 12, 2007, 11:58:46 AM
rules and labels make life so much more simple to define.

people are sheep, in general terms.

I really wanted to believe for the longest time that there had to be a large number of people out there who could really think for themselves, that those who weren't sheep weren't in the minority, but I'm slowly coming to accept that most people are sheep.  God that's a depressing thought.
use it to your advantage.....start a sex cult.
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Re: ask mcjagger dirty sex questions, or anything else.
« Reply #489 on: May 12, 2007, 12:09:22 PM »
How do you know I don't already have one?  :eyebrows:
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Re: ask mcjagger dirty sex questions, or anything else.
« Reply #490 on: May 12, 2007, 12:11:04 PM »
Quote from: purposefulinsanity on May 12, 2007, 12:09:22 PM
How do you know I don't already have one?  :eyebrows:
i know that you have a collection that equla more than your potential inputs.
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Re: ask mcjagger dirty sex questions, or anything else.
« Reply #491 on: May 12, 2007, 12:58:12 PM »
Quote from: McJagger on May 12, 2007, 12:11:04 PM
Quote from: purposefulinsanity on May 12, 2007, 12:09:22 PM
How do you know I don't already have one?  :eyebrows:
i know that you have a collection that equla more than your potential inputs.

Collection of what? Sheep people?
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Re: ask mcjagger dirty sex questions, or anything else.
« Reply #492 on: May 12, 2007, 01:16:56 PM »
Quote from: McJagger on May 12, 2007, 11:58:46 AM
rules and labels make life so much more simple to define.

people are sheep, in general terms.

And sheep are warm soft fuzzy and willing.
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Re: ask mcjagger dirty sex questions, or anything else.
« Reply #493 on: May 12, 2007, 01:19:37 PM »
Meh- who wants warm, soft and fuzzy anyway?
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Re: ask mcjagger dirty sex questions, or anything else.
« Reply #494 on: May 12, 2007, 01:23:56 PM »
Quote from: purposefulinsanity on May 12, 2007, 01:19:37 PM
Meh- who wants warm, soft and fuzzy anyway?

My wife. She had something of a fuzz fetish.
Plucked her blankets and such not and rubbed
them under her nose. I was like a gold mine
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