Ozy, i'm sorry if i made you feel like that, you didn't sound like any kind of twit!
No it's not you, I now realize how arrogant that must have sounded, especially to ThePeaGuy. I'm not an arrogant twit, I'm a very lucky twit. You came up with the best definition of loser. And that is what I sincerely meant! To me a loser is someone who doesn't try, yet tries to drag people down to their level. The bullies, smarmy arrogant assholes, etc. People who try and try and refuse to be beaten down are winners, no matter what! Thats what has gotten me thru years of hell.
I'll shut up now before I stick my foot in my mouth again.
But for the record, people who know me, know I will never kick anybody when they're down. My deepest code is that people never give up.