chicks and their fucking emotions

[ZEGH8578]

two days ago everything's cute and charming, recieved a very sweet gms photo on my phone and stuff

today, its finished. why? not sure.
no resentment tho. cus shes nice. in fact, in this world, my best fit ever. probably aspie chick. she registered to WP to lurk. knew her from online since we were teens, but went many years without contact. re-contacted half a year ago.
theres been nothing but pure bliss every single day untill... two days ago. yesterday and day before were silent, unenthusiastic and silent, and today its finished.
out of the blue.
its not another guy either, shes not that social. i think she just got cought up into the pessimism of no-hope-for-the-future long-distance-wise. thats always something to be aware of, but i didnt expect it to cause such a sudden breakdown.

what gets me tho, is that chicks, in my experience, seem to want to prompt a guessing game. your supposed to guess that they suddenly dont like you anymore, and of course guess that its over, and guess that maybe it was over 2 days ago for that matter, and that i shoulda guessed.

still... i dont resent her. as i said, it was the best fit ive ever known. pretty much down hill from here

im gonna get stoned now.

[Al Swearegen]

 Dude this post considering the abundance of women here is the  equivalent of this

[SleepyDragon]

Aw hell Les! I've been out of the chick stage for that bloody long, I took no offence.

/old boiler

['andersom']

^ you're right.

Zegh could ask her what is going on.
Being a happy item that long, she's entitled to give him that I think.

[Al Swearegen]

Aw hell Les! I've been out of the chick stage for that bloody long, I took no offence.

/old boiler

Oh I know most of the women here are atypical females anyhow. I am thinking most places it would go down like a toenail sandwich and that is one of the many things I love about you guys/girls and this place in general. It was just fun to post that.

['andersom']

Aw hell Les! I've been out of the chick stage for that bloody long, I took no offence.

/old boiler

Oh I know most of the women here are atypical females anyhow. I am thinking most places it would go down like a toenail sandwich and that is one of the many things I love about you guys/girls and this place in general. It was just fun to post that.

You're a bad man.  And we know it.

[Celticgoddess]

That sounds more like an NT head game than anything else, Zegh. You sure she's aspie? She may just be anti-social. I don't get stuff like that and why chicks do it. But then again I'm not anything like that. I have no filter so I say exactly what's on my mind. I'd ask her what happened.

[El]

That sounds more like an NT head game than anything else, Zegh. You sure she's aspie? She may just be anti-social. I don't get stuff like that and why chicks do it. But then again I'm not anything like that. I have no filter so I say exactly what's on my mind. I'd ask her what happened.

Ouch, CG.  :/

I think it sounds like she's got her own issues.  Being that intensely into you and then being that intensely not with no identifiable trigger isn't normal.

My question is why is this in the games forum?

[jman]

My question is why is this in the games forum?

Cause the bitch be playin games 

[ZEGH8578]

That sounds more like an NT head game than anything else, Zegh. You sure she's aspie? She may just be anti-social. I don't get stuff like that and why chicks do it. But then again I'm not anything like that. I have no filter so I say exactly what's on my mind. I'd ask her what happened.

shes a total aspie
i saw it coming, but i was hoping it was under control. the logical fallacy of a long-distance relationship finally became too great. one day shes fine with it, the next she really isnt...
plus i am ABSOLUTELY sure there is an instinctive/emotional factor, that i was headed for head first: by noticing her lack of interest, i got worried, and thus i just tenfolded her lack of interest by seeming ever-so clingy. i even tried not to, but how do you ignore being ignored?? especially when its so unexpected...

she went silent for the past two days, the kind of silence that murders you ESPECIALLY when their only interactions with you are short and to the point, clear hints for you to piss off. so i asked what was up today, and she said she had basically lost interest. and there was absolutely NO sign of trouble before that 2 days of quiet. none whatsoever

its still recent and fresh in my head, ill get over it. its just that my FEW previous dumps were done by chicks who were fucked up anyway. afterwards i can think back to all the bad sides of their personalities. here is nothing. she was astonishingly perfect in my mind. she watches more movies than i do...
gah

[Callaway]

Do you think it would do any good to talk to her?

How long was the distance?

[ZEGH8578]

Do you think it would do any good to talk to her?

How long was the distance?

there was no hostility. just weirdness... it was far. stupid. it just sucks. i dont like anybody. everyone i know seems to settle, they are idiots and pick idiots themselves to be with. if i wanted an idiot chick, ive had the oportunity to have one many times before. i despise most people.
i didnt dislike a single thing about her. not a single thing

it just sucks... friendship went over into something else, and from there into nothing at all. ive known her since i was 16 or 17, and since today morning we're not talking anymore...

[Celticgoddess]

That sounds more like an NT head game than anything else, Zegh. You sure she's aspie? She may just be anti-social. I don't get stuff like that and why chicks do it. But then again I'm not anything like that. I have no filter so I say exactly what's on my mind. I'd ask her what happened.

Ouch, CG.  :/

Sorry, Elle. I didn't explain myself well with that now did I.  I was thinking of a conversation EBM and I had awhile ago about something similar and the differences between ASD women and NT women and that's where my headspace was at when I wrote it. But it didn't come across like I intended it to.

[ZEGH8578]

cg, this wasnt some mindless idea or something...
it was very abrupt and unexpected yes, but it had always been in the background of it... i guess we conciously gambled the friendship on it, knowing what was coming, but of course keeping a small hope. she just went and smashed hope  it was a small and unrealistic hope tho... i just woulda preffered to keep the illusion up a little longer

as i said, i was completely completely taken by her being and personality...

[Celticgoddess]

Bah. I'm talking myself into a hole here.  I wasn't insinuating that either, Zegh. I'm going to stay out of this thread now.