I have actually learned quite bit about socializing from here. I used to think the "what are you XXXXXXX now" threads were pointless, but I realized that's how small talk works in social situations. You start out with something simple like the weather or what you are doing, then expand until you find something in common, and expand on that. It's really helped me in socializing with people, and helped to reduce the "oh fuck what do I say next" anxiety.