because i like girls soi want one
Orientation isn't relevant. I mean why do you want a girlfriend/partner? Just wanting something isn't enough... You need to why you want it.
it is relevant coz that's why i want one. i like it so i want it. coz i'm selfish. like i like cats so i have a cat. if i didn't have a cat i'd want one
You misunderstand. I may not have explain it properly (or at all
), orientation isn't relevant because it doesn't matter. When you say "I want a gf" that means the same as "I want a bf", at least to me, it doesn't matter the gender, the wanting is the crux.
You say you want a girlfriend cos you like it, but why? Why do you like it? When I sought relationships I did it because I was lonely, and I wanted to share my life with someone. I'm someone who likes to share what I do, I get enjoyment from others' enjoyment of what I enjoy...if that makes sense.
So why do you seek a relationship? If it's just for self-gratification (which can include sex) well that's something, and you'd be the better for the knowing what it is you seek.
They do if they don't know they're hot. Go for the ones with self-esteem as bad as yours! 
i would if i could find oen - the nice ones always know they're hot though
In my experience the one's that know they're hot rarely are nice. But my experience is limited.
Do you actually want a relationship, or do you want to hit a milestone that you think would mark you as more "normal" than you are now?
i do actually want a relationship, although i'm not gonna lie - the normal thing is also becoming more important.
I hate to be the bearer of bad news...And possible hurtful bad news. But you'll never be normal. As I understand it, you're autistic, you're trans or at least genderqueer, and from a purely physical point of view you're attracted to the same sex.
Accept your "abnormality", embrace it, make it part of who you are. You don't need to be normal to live an awesome life. You don't need to
be normal to
live a normal life.
I think the "weird" Soph is far better, far more interesting, than any "normal" Soph could be. And being interesting does tend to attract people... If even for sometimes the wrong reasons
Soph - And your answer is not allowed to be because I need someone to cook for me, do my laundry, and I wanna get laid.
that is what i want to have in 10 years time, right now i can make do without the first two
btw i do realise how dumb it seems to want a relationship - i used to think the guys who moaned about not having a gf on wp were retarded. but they seem to be the ones that just want A gf, and don't really care much as long as it's a girl. i on the other hand, am more fussy than i can afford to be lol
It's not dumb. Not at all! It's...well it's normal really. Everyone craves closeness of another. To share oneself with someone else, someone you can be close to, and equally share in them. This is normal stuff.
Fussiness is subjective.
