Maybe you need to see a doctor?
Doctor for us tomorrow.
My wife is incredibly sick, has not eaten anything that she could keep down since last Sunday. She has not been able to stand up and get out of bed in three days. (forget work)
I remember something like this before and she was not properly diagnosed. There was no answer to her problems. I almost lost her (I did not think she was going to die, but what ever her health issues involved affected her mentally and I feared that she would leave me - I see it alll starting up again), due to her illness.
We have an appointment at nine AM, upon the morrow. (I am scared)
Is she going to be OK?
I am going a bit crazy, actually. Being in a hospital bed, after spending three days in her own bed has turned into a burden for her. She is beside herself and yet she is still having trouble standing and making a decent argument for being released from the doctor's care, especially since the initial tests have just been released.
The next day will tell more, we all hope.
Yes, I hope that she will be OK, but the rule may be that things are about like last time we went through all this. (I await the moment when she blames me for being constrained, much like during childbirth - the father is naturally to blame during such times, but from her getting sick? I really have doubts as to how my own culpability manifests in any concept of reality) I know she suffers from hormonal tortures. I see that things are outside her control, but influencing the outcome may not be possible for me.
The kids are more troubled than I am, actually. Their need for her constant presence is higher than my own. Managing them is becoming even more of a problem than before, when this all happened.
