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[GalileoAce]

It's when people try telling you what you are that it gets irritating. And that goes for non-gender stuff too.

Agreed.

[El]

haha my meowing vid. I put that on facebook. It's about a year old I think, but I like it because you see Flo get up in the background when she hears me  

Apologies for that.

No problem - most people did the same. It doesn't bother me if people assume I'm one or the other. It's when people try telling you what you are that it gets irritating. And that goes for non-gender stuff too.

Good to know.  

I think you look very androgynous, at least based on the pics and that vid of you meowing.

I agree, but the pic Soph had in his avatar most recently was one of the most masculine pics I've seen of him.  That might have been a cognitive bias (priming), though.

[Adam]

As for transition IRL, I'm still kinda in the middle really. I haven't told my tutors or university, so that causes some awkward problems sometimes lol

It's a good job I have OCD really, as I wouldn't know what to do if I needed to pee in public otherwise. I'd get some funny looks whichever one I went in I think. And possibly a punch in the face if someone saw me coming out of a woman's toilet  :lol:

I just let people think whatever IRL really, which usually seems to be that I'm a teenage boy. Goddammit it's a pain in the ass looking young. If I told my family I was trans it would probably be a lot easier.

[Adam]

I agree, but the pic Soph had in his avatar most recently was one of the most masculine pics I've seen of him.  That might have been a cognitive bias (priming), though.

I can't remember which pic that was. I don't remember having one of me as my avatar actually, my memory is shit for stuff like that.

There's not much I do to change how I look really, except trying not to be too masculine around family.

I've noticed people think I look more like a dude when my hair is wet too for some reason. Maybe because I have thick hair? Fuck knows.

[Christopher McCandless]

As for transition IRL, I'm still kinda in the middle really. I haven't told my tutors or university, so that causes some awkward problems sometimes lol

It's a good job I have OCD really, as I wouldn't know what to do if I needed to pee in public otherwise. I'd get some funny looks whichever one I went in I think. And possibly a punch in the face if someone saw me coming out of a woman's toilet  :lol:

I just let people think whatever IRL really, which usually seems to be that I'm a teenage boy. Goddammit it's a pain in the ass looking young. If I told my family I was trans it would probably be a lot easier.

Are you responsible for the renaming of the toilets in Manchester to "toilets with urinals" and "toilets without urinals"?

[Blasted]

I go to men's loos when I can't be arsed to wait in line for the ladies.  No men have minded so far  :lol:

[Adam]

As for transition IRL, I'm still kinda in the middle really. I haven't told my tutors or university, so that causes some awkward problems sometimes lol

It's a good job I have OCD really, as I wouldn't know what to do if I needed to pee in public otherwise. I'd get some funny looks whichever one I went in I think. And possibly a punch in the face if someone saw me coming out of a woman's toilet  :lol:

I just let people think whatever IRL really, which usually seems to be that I'm a teenage boy. Goddammit it's a pain in the ass looking young. If I told my family I was trans it would probably be a lot easier.

Are you responsible for the renaming of the toilets in Manchester to "toilets with urinals" and "toilets without urinals"?

You do realise there are more transgendered students in Manchester than just me? (and no, I didn't even hear about that until after it had happened, and the toilets on my campus were just ordinary male/female ones last I checked.

[Christopher McCandless]

I go to men's loos when I can't be arsed to wait in line for the ladies.  No men have minded so far  :lol:

Women would have absolute uproar if we did the opposite.

[Blasted]

I go to men's loos when I can't be arsed to wait in line for the ladies.  No men have minded so far  :lol:

Women would have absolute uproar if we did the opposite.

Have you ever tried going to a female loo?

[Christopher McCandless]

I go to men's loos when I can't be arsed to wait in line for the ladies.  No men have minded so far  :lol:

Women would have absolute uproar if we did the opposite.

Have you ever tried going to a female loo?

Not for a long time, nope. Why would I, peeing in the sinks is too much of a stretch for me.

[Blasted]

I go to men's loos when I can't be arsed to wait in line for the ladies.  No men have minded so far  :lol:

Women would have absolute uproar if we did the opposite.

Have you ever tried going to a female loo?

Not for a long time, nope. Why would I, peeing in the sinks is too much of a stretch for me.

I assume peeing into a toilet is a practice unheard of to you

[Christopher McCandless]

I go to men's loos when I can't be arsed to wait in line for the ladies.  No men have minded so far  :lol:

Women would have absolute uproar if we did the opposite.

Have you ever tried going to a female loo?

Not for a long time, nope. Why would I, peeing in the sinks is too much of a stretch for me.

I assume peeing into a toilet is a practice unheard of to you

I am too impatient to queue when I don't have to. That is why man made the urinal.

[GalileoAce]

I only ever pee in the stalls. I never, ever, use a urinal... Ik.

[Adam]

I only ever pee in my bathroom at home, where I can get a shower afterwards, brush my teeth, wash my hands with toothpaste and then go and get changed

Yeah 

[RageBeoulve]

I piss in the goddamn urinal. Why not? Oh shit someone might see my dick. So what? Nothing to be ashamed of there!