That my kids need to take some responsibility and accept that very little in this world is served on a silver platter, or that a dx is not an excuse for not doing anything? I already do all that. Now, as a parent, I will help my kids in any way I can, but that's because I'm a parent. If Lit wants some help, I'm pretty sure his mum and dad will help him to the best of their abilities, because that is what parents do, but what his parents (and yours, it would seem) have not managed to do is to explain the rest.
You still have time to understand some of that. Lit, too, but I doubt he'll get that far..