I'm curious, though. What does "middle-aged lady regalia" look like?
Both the trousers and the t-shirt had pictures of flowers on them. Maybe the problem is I don't wear lippy; I've always been a Chap-Stik girl.
You probably just miss the decisive regalia.
Have been taken for a man too.
And even my girls, when they were tiny toddlers in flowered dresses were addressed as boys.
A tiny ponytail made all the difference for them. (I could not bother doing that to them if they did not want that)
And I got told by someone that getting my ears pierced would make the difference for me.
I always thought there were other things to decide gender by than ears.
Apparently not.
They lied at biology classes. It is about earrings.