I've never coped 'well'. Not in my book.
The kind of help I'd want is probably like a secretary in the old classic style.
Or a band's manager. Just someone to keep me doing the shit I need to.
Counselling doesn't help - I need someone to shake me by the ears and tell me what to do.
Of course, being inherently in rebellion and resisting anything that smacks of authority doesn't
help with this. I probably should have joined the military.