Oh by the way, *I* figured out what they mean. So here we go:
Random vs. deliberate: As best I can tell, how planned you tend to be. I always come up deliberate.
Dreamer vs. master is EITHER number of sexual partners *or else* how long and/or often you've been in relationships (which are th two ways OKC decides to deem you 'experiened' or not). I would've had master at some points when I'd recently had long term relationships. Not so much now.
Brutal vs. Gentle- kinda intuitive; depends how harshly you answer questions. For a year or two there I got 'brutal' but now I don't. Most people don't seem to, and all the descriptions for "brutal" are harsh (speaking of harsh), albeit they're much more harsh for the guys than the girls.
Love vs. sex: Whether you're looking for a long term relationship or not. I always come up "love."
Additional info, in case anyone wanted to know (nobody does): I also have some of the "personality variables" figured out.
"Kinkier/less kinky:" It's not how much you say yes to, it's how *little* you say no to. Believe me, you can go out with a guy who is listed as "less kinky" and still end up having him ask you to let him watch you pee on the second date. (Hypothetically, I mean, of course.
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"More dominant/less dominant" (aka "the variable Elle unsurprisingly pulls for dominant on rather consistently): Seems to be based on just one or two questions about whether you like your partner to be more shy/submissive, balanced, or dominant, and whether you consider yourself to be dominant.
"More/less experienced in life:" My guess is this has to be based largely on the amount of stupid shit you've done and/or the amount of substances you've inflicted upon your poor fucked up brain and body. Not a great measure of how sheltered someone has been.
"More/less friendly to strangers:" Measure of how much you reply and/or how much you initiate conversations, as far as I can tell.
"More/less laid back:" This has to be an absolutely bullshit metric, or else the women on OKC are all really terrible hot messes. I draw this conclusion because OKC thinks I'm *more* laid back. Like, holy shit, man. If I was any more tightly wound I'd bend time and space around myself. How bad are the rest of these chicks???
You seem to be lost in your own thoughts.