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Title: The Cunts of ASPartners
Post by: jman on July 01, 2006, 08:03:34 AM
Have any of you ever read the ASPartners forum on Delphi? It supposed to be a "support" site for NT partners who have AS partners. Instead it's bunch of bitter ex wives (read cunts) who blame their AS husband for all the problems in the mariage. They also take it upon themselves to bash ALL aspies making them out to be freaks or monsters that are unsuitable as partners or parents which is just pure bullshit.  They often refer to us as "Asspies" or "Aspoids" or ASpods" . What makes it worse is they don't let aspies post on there. God forbid us "freaks" or "aspods" make them look bad. ::)

This thread here is my favorite:
ttp://forums.delphiforums.com/ASPartners/messages/?msg=4757.1

What do you think should be done about these bitches?
Title: Re: The Cunts of ASPartners
Post by: McGiver on July 01, 2006, 08:07:16 AM
way ahead of you.

look in the forum AS advocacy or the wronged.
Title: Re: The Cunts of ASPartners
Post by: Merry Widow on July 01, 2006, 08:26:26 AM
Jman, here are the main threads relating to AS Partners:

http://www.intensitysquared.com/index.php?topic=590.0

http://www.intensitysquared.com/index.php?topic=594.0

http://www.intensitysquared.com/index.php?topic=595.0

http://www.intensitysquared.com/index.php?topic=602.0
Title: Re: The Cunts of ASPartners
Post by: McGiver on July 01, 2006, 08:40:50 AM
oh and we also had a really cool forum of free speech called NT partners.  but it was censored away, for some reason.
Title: Re: The Cunts of ASPartners
Post by: peegai on July 01, 2006, 08:50:56 AM
I do think that the ladies have a ring of truth to what they say. Because of our difficulties, autistics can definitely be a pain in the ass to be in a relationship with or to be good parents.

All of this is one-sided... again.
Title: Re: The Cunts of ASPartners
Post by: El on July 01, 2006, 11:20:27 AM
I do think that the ladies have a ring of truth to what they say. Because of our difficulties, autistics can definitely be a pain in the ass to be in a relationship with or to be good parents.

All of this is one-sided... again.

Holy shit!  YOU act as a voice of reason!  Hell just got a cold front!
Title: Re: The Cunts of ASPartners
Post by: peegai on July 01, 2006, 11:30:21 AM
I do think that the ladies have a ring of truth to what they say. Because of our difficulties, autistics can definitely be a pain in the ass to be in a relationship with or to be good parents.

All of this is one-sided... again.

Holy shit!  YOU act as a voice of reason!  Hell just got a cold front!

If that was meant to be a dig at me, save it -- my insult-barrier is impervious to pathetic insults from the interwebs.

I'm just saying that autism can cause alot of misunderstandings and conflict in a relationship. If that doesn't add up very well, blow me, people, because I don't really care.

If it wasn't, then let's hold hands and pick out flowers because I'm such a happy bunny.
Title: Re: The Cunts of ASPartners
Post by: El on July 01, 2006, 12:31:51 PM
If that was meant to be a dig at me, save it -- my insult-barrier is impervious to pathetic insults from the interwebs.

I'm just saying that autism can cause alot of misunderstandings and conflict in a relationship. If that doesn't add up very well, blow me, people, because I don't really care.

If it wasn't, then let's hold hands and pick out flowers because I'm such a happy bunny.

No, I geniunely did mean you had a good point.
Title: Re: The Cunts of ASPartners
Post by: McGiver on July 01, 2006, 12:33:08 PM
PMS Elle,
can you explain what an aspoid is?

is it the same as nigger is for black people, but a derrogotary term for AS people?
Title: Re: The Cunts of ASPartners
Post by: El on July 01, 2006, 12:35:10 PM
PMS Elle,
can you explain what an aspoid is?

is it the same as nigger is for black people, but a derrogotary term for AS people?

Why don't you just call me one and call it a day, McJ?  I don't want to get into a discussion with you about ASPartners because I've heard it all and it's pointless to debate/discuss/bithc, rant, whine and nitpick with me on this subject.
Title: Re: The Cunts of ASPartners
Post by: peegai on July 01, 2006, 12:35:51 PM
If that was meant to be a dig at me, save it -- my insult-barrier is impervious to pathetic insults from the interwebs.

I'm just saying that autism can cause alot of misunderstandings and conflict in a relationship. If that doesn't add up very well, blow me, people, because I don't really care.

If it wasn't, then let's hold hands and pick out flowers because I'm such a happy bunny.

No, I geniunely did mean you had a good point.

'kay. Sorry about that, Serissa.
Title: Re: The Cunts of ASPartners
Post by: Eamonn on July 01, 2006, 12:41:07 PM
I do think that the ladies have a ring of truth to what they say. Because of our difficulties, autistics can definitely be a pain in the ass to be in a relationship with or to be good parents.

All of this is one-sided... again.

If you want to see one-sided visit AS Partners and join in with the aspie witch-hunt. Same goes for serrissa.
Title: Re: The Cunts of ASPartners
Post by: peegai on July 01, 2006, 01:16:05 PM
I do think that the ladies have a ring of truth to what they say. Because of our difficulties, autistics can definitely be a pain in the ass to be in a relationship with or to be good parents.

All of this is one-sided... again.

If you want to see one-sided visit AS Partners and join in with the aspie witch-hunt. Same goes for serrissa.

Look, I don't know much about how the community operates, but they have as much right to vent as we do with NTs. Things piss you off, so you're bound to vent off some emotional steam before you consider finding solutions to your problems.

I just think people here are jumping the gun too quick just because an autistic wife/husband is being chastised because he/she's autistic. We don't even know what these people are like beforehand to make judgments on these wives.
Title: Re: The Cunts of ASPartners
Post by: Eamonn on July 01, 2006, 01:35:01 PM

If you want to see one-sided visit AS Partners and join in with the aspie witch-hunt. Same goes for serrissa.

Look, I don't know much about how the community operates, but they have as much right to vent as we do with NTs.
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Though taking sides against the autistics in legal cases every time is facist. Would you be saying the same thing about an anti-gay site or one where they describe those with no legs as legless larry's or something? On intensity i see more people ranting against autistics and bringing us down than anti-NT rants, and when we do rant we always have the likes of you and serrissa to talk bollocks no matter how carefully worded or justified the rant might be.
Title: Re: The Cunts of ASPartners
Post by: peegai on July 01, 2006, 02:07:36 PM

If you want to see one-sided visit AS Partners and join in with the aspie witch-hunt. Same goes for serrissa.

Look, I don't know much about how the community operates, but they have as much right to vent as we do with NTs.
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Though taking sides against the autistics in legal cases every time is facist. Would you be saying the same thing about an anti-gay site or one where they describe those with no legs as legless larry's or something? On intensity i see more people ranting against autistics and bringing us down than anti-NT rants, and when we do rant we always have the likes of you and serrissa to talk bollocks no matter how carefully worded or justified the rant might be.

This doesn't change the fact that being autistic can be a difficult thing to handle when in a loving and sexual relationship -- this is the only valid thing I agree with the wives on.

Of course, people here might deny it, but these people are in their own fabricated world that autism is merely all about quirks and traits when it is not. The people can't acknowledge that they're disabled, because they're too proud, aren't worth my time.

I'll have to try and make more sense of my position tomorrow.
Title: Re: The Cunts of ASPartners
Post by: Eamonn on July 01, 2006, 02:13:33 PM

This doesn't change the fact that being autistic can be a difficult thing to handle when in a loving and sexual relationship -- this the only valid thing I agree with the wives on.

Of course, people here might deny it, but these people are in their own fabricated world that autism is merely all about quirks and traits when it is not. The people can't acknowledge that they're disabled because they're too proud aren't worth my time.

I agree with all of the above. This group tend to take it too far with their insults of those with autism and disregard for us like we are subhuman. I've found that most people (not just autistics) have an unrealisticly positive view of themselves. Those who are more realistic of their faults tend to be more likely to suffer from depression.
Title: Re: The Cunts of ASPartners
Post by: Randy on July 01, 2006, 05:42:56 PM
I could fit right in with them. I mean if I did not tell them about that stupid fuckn label, that does not fit, they would never know.
Title: Re: The Cunts of ASPartners
Post by: McGiver on July 01, 2006, 05:53:40 PM
yeah, their cunts.
Title: Re: The Cunts of ASPartners
Post by: purposefulinsanity on July 02, 2006, 03:03:50 AM
oh and we also had a really cool forum of free speech called NT partners.  but it was censored away, for some reason.

Since when was it censored away?? As far as I am aware Omega got rid of it herself.  People are allowed to have an opinion without it being about censorship or is that really the problem- would you like people who don't agree with you to censor themselves??
Title: Re: The Cunts of ASPartners
Post by: McGiver on July 02, 2006, 01:01:26 PM
no but it was censored in as much as the discussion is going on in the site direction.

actually, i am the one who took all the crap for the NT partners forum, but she felt guilty because she created it and i thought it was brilliant.
but alas only all the PC luvers of censorship wanted to have their voices heard and they dominated the discussion.
my belief was that fair is fair.  others believe that you must speak nice and kiss arse.  otherwise the NT's will never recogognize us.

BTW-I hope your summer cold is getting better.  i know i usually get sick once a year and its in the summertime, and i get knocked on my arse.
Title: Re: The Cunts of ASPartners
Post by: purposefulinsanity on July 02, 2006, 01:08:28 PM
no but it was censored in as much as the discussion is going on in the site direction.

actually, i am the one who took all the crap for the NT partners forum, but she felt guilty because she created it and i thought it was brilliant.
but alas only all the PC luvers of censorship wanted to have their voices heard and they dominated the discussion.
my belief was that fair is fair.  others believe that you must speak nice and kiss arse.  otherwise the NT's will never recogognize us.

BTW-I hope your summer cold is getting better.  i know i usually get sick once a year and its in the summertime, and i get knocked on my arse.

I disagree that it was anything to do with being PC- I think that's a convenient 'insult' to throw around when you someone has an opinion that you don't like- to me it was about logic:  acting in just the way they are slagging us off for seems illogical to me in the fight to educate people.  How would it accomplish anything other than making you feel you'd gotten your own back on them?


Thanks- I'm feeling a little better this evening, at least the fever has gone.
Title: Re: The Cunts of ASPartners
Post by: McGiver on July 02, 2006, 01:11:22 PM
i never said that you were the one being PC.

omega where did all the discussions go so we can analyze how things are censored around here.
because its not from the administrators.
Title: Re: The Cunts of ASPartners
Post by: purposefulinsanity on July 02, 2006, 01:12:27 PM
i never said that you were the one being PC.

omega where did all the discussions go so we can analyze how things are censored around here.
because its not from the administrators.

well not anymore  ;)


humour alert in case the wink doesn't give it away
Title: Re: The Cunts of ASPartners
Post by: McGiver on July 02, 2006, 01:13:02 PM
i never said that you were the one being PC.

omega where did all the discussions go so we can analyze how things are censored around here.
because its not from the administrators.


and i am glad to hear ot.  it usually kicks my arse for a week.  consider yourself lucky.

have you checked out all the great research perter has done for the wronged?
Title: Re: The Cunts of ASPartners
Post by: McGiver on July 02, 2006, 01:15:33 PM
i never said that you were the one being PC.

omega where did all the discussions go so we can analyze how things are censored around here.
because its not from the administrators.

well not anymore  ;)


humour alert in case the wink doesn't give it away

luv you.

purposeful insanity would be a decent description of myself, also.  ;)

i swear to god i am going to bring my family to the UK one day and dump ourselves on your front door and demand hospitality.
i think it might be cool for my girls to observe a female version of myself.

and i think i owe dunc the opportunity ti give me three slugs in the face.
Title: Re: The Cunts of ASPartners
Post by: purposefulinsanity on July 02, 2006, 01:28:32 PM
i never said that you were the one being PC.

omega where did all the discussions go so we can analyze how things are censored around here.
because its not from the administrators.


and i am glad to hear ot.  it usually kicks my arse for a week.  consider yourself lucky.

have you checked out all the great research perter has done for the wronged?


I haven't been on The wronged much this week because I've had the kids off from school most of the week and I've been feeling crappy myself- will check it out once I get the kids back to school.  I was lucky that I only had one day when I was feverish and had to sleep most of the day- unfortunately its no fun having a fever in this heat.
Title: Re: The Cunts of ASPartners
Post by: Draggon on July 07, 2006, 08:57:14 PM
(http://www.dilbert.com/comics/dilbert/archive/images/dilbert2006261730706.gif)
well I saw this yesterday and of course I immediately thought of the AS partners site >:D
Title: Re: The Cunts of ASPartners
Post by: McGiver on July 07, 2006, 09:12:57 PM
ha
Title: Re: The Cunts of ASPartners
Post by: Pyraxis on July 07, 2006, 09:46:44 PM
 :D Nice one, Draggon.
Title: Re: The Cunts of ASPartners
Post by: hiroshima on July 07, 2006, 10:32:43 PM
When they talk about sterilization they cross the line IMO... it is no longer support and is just hate.
Title: Re: The Cunts of ASPartners
Post by: odeon on July 08, 2006, 04:15:23 AM
I think the line was crossed a long time ago in that forum. Sterilization is just the latest expression of their hatred. The words "my aspoid" annoyed me more.
Title: Re: The Cunts of ASPartners
Post by: jman on July 29, 2006, 01:31:45 PM
I having hard fathoming that a site such as this exists but then again I am trying to keep it in perspective, it's a group of extremists just like the KKK. BTW I can't help but laugh at the women on there that have AS children. :D


Actually on second thought I kind of feel bad for these kids having these women as mothers. :-[  God knows how they are handling their kid's AS traits and what kind of example their setting for their kids. Also maybe their is a reign of truth despite their venom, not all people with AS are fit to be husbands/fathers(alot of NT aren't either BTW as you can see by that forum  ::)).
Title: Re: The Cunts of ASPartners
Post by: ozymandias on July 29, 2006, 06:26:19 PM
My wife posted there on how our marriage was working out and was immediately slammed for being "unhelpful".   The thread she posted in was then locked.  They did NOT want to have any positive stories on there at all.  They just wanted to "vent" about their "awful" AS spouses.  They also gave the cold shoulder to any male posters that were complaining about their female AS partners.

What struck me was the number of women who had AS kids and how they hoped that none of them would have children with AS.

It seemed that there was not only an anti-AS feeling there, but an anti-male bias as well.  Thats just my observation as well!  I used to go there and read fairly often a few years ago.  But, I got bored and annoyed at the same old comments form the same old hardcore group ranting on and on and on and on and on..............!!! ::)

Now I just say let them be and let them rant.  There's more important things to think about than the "Oracles at Delphi" :P
Title: Re: The Cunts of ASPartners
Post by: McJ on July 29, 2006, 06:37:00 PM

Now I just say let them be and let them rant.  There's more important things to think about than the "Oracles at Delphi" :P

"QUOTED FOR TRUTH"


Besides, the Oracles of , INTENSITY² can be much more entertaining…and...
Title: Re: The Cunts of ASPartners
Post by: jman on July 29, 2006, 06:42:47 PM
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  There's more important things to think about than the "Oracles at Delphi" Tongue

You're right ozy their bitter because they;re a bunch of old hags witth saggy wrinkly tits and pussy lips that hang down to their knees, therefore they will never find another man :laugh:...and you know how NT women absolutely cannot cope with being alone ::)
Title: Re: The Cunts of ASPartners
Post by: NeantHumain on July 30, 2006, 11:38:22 PM
Has anyone tried to infiltrate their lair and pose as a bitchy NT wife of a man with Asperger's? And then turn coat?
Title: Re: The Cunts of ASPartners
Post by: jman on July 31, 2006, 03:30:02 AM
Has anyone tried to infiltrate their lair and pose as a bitchy NT wife of a man with Asperger's? And then turn coat?

You know I've actually thought about doing that, but keep in mind what I said in the post above, Neant, but their just a bunch of bitchy old hags going through menopause. Lets not sink down their level shall we?

And while us aspies can be difficult to be in a relationship with, had these women married for the right reason they would have seen the AS traits a long time before they married. It sounds to me like when they first met their partners they idealised them (if they are as horrible as they describe in their posts, why would they marry them in the first place?), and then when they suddenly realise their partner not what they made them out be, they felt deceived and that is the result. Or they married their partner thinking they could change him.

Either way based on what I;ve said above and the nature of their posts these don't sound like very healthy people to be around/

With that siad here's a word to the wise: Get to really know your partner before you marry them and watch for the red flags (http://www.askmen.com/dating/curtsmith_100/114_dating_advice.html)
Title: Re: The Cunts of ASPartners
Post by: ozymandias on July 31, 2006, 06:02:14 AM
It's been tried before and they have a type of ignore function that prevents the posing poster from being seen in the thread.  It's sort of a "gag" type of ignore function.  The name pops up, but, what they write is blocked from being seen!

I thought of it as well, but, then I thought it was a waste of my time and energy!  Best spent elsewhere!
Title: Re: The Cunts of ASPartners
Post by: Praetor on August 10, 2006, 07:17:06 AM
Can't exactly preach to the perverted can you
Title: Re: The Cunts of ASPartners
Post by: McGiver on August 10, 2006, 02:19:32 PM
Has anyone tried to infiltrate their lair and pose as a bitchy NT wife of a man with Asperger's? And then turn coat?

i am in as an NT man with a retarded wife.

they love me.  my login name is dick in your ass: Dick Enjarear.

i basically called them a bunch of bigoted twats and they didn't get it.  they say we are dillusional.
Title: Re: The Cunts of ASPartners
Post by: QuirkyCarla on August 11, 2006, 02:06:57 AM
Got a link to that post?  >:D
Title: Re: The Cunts of ASPartners
Post by: odeon on August 11, 2006, 04:02:07 AM
Yeah, I want to read it, too. There's no search thingy on that forum so I gave up.
Title: Re: The Cunts of ASPartners
Post by: McGiver on August 11, 2006, 05:08:17 AM
Got a link to that post?  >:D

http://forums.delphiforums.com/n/mb/message.asp?webtag=ASPartners&msg=4588.80

try this.
Title: Re: The Cunts of ASPartners
Post by: Callaway on August 11, 2006, 10:32:19 AM
Thanks.  I went there looking for it, but I quickly became frustrated with the Oracles at Delphi, who blame all the problems in their marriages on AS.

If they cheat on their husbands, it's all because of AS.   >:(

They would rather complain than take responsibility for themselves and work to make things better.
Title: Re: The Cunts of ASPartners
Post by: ozymandias on August 11, 2006, 08:02:44 PM
People Puhleeeeeeeeeeeeze!  If you want to get amusement from those cunts, all fine and good!  But, I say it again, your wasting your precious time and energy confronting the emotionally crippled oracles at delphi!  I'd say "FUCK"EM", but it would be a waste of sexual energy! :P
Title: Re: The Cunts of ASPartners
Post by: McGiver on August 12, 2006, 09:09:01 AM
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People Puhleeeeeeeeeeeeze!

ozy, can you see how gay this sounds?
Title: Re: The Cunts of ASPartners
Post by: ozymandias on August 12, 2006, 11:32:06 AM
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People Puhleeeeeeeeeeeeze!

ozy, can you see how gay this sounds?

 :P ::)
Title: Re: The Cunts of ASPartners
Post by: peegai on August 12, 2006, 11:35:36 AM
Nigga puhleeeasse.

Can you see how racist and gay this sounds?
Title: Re: The Cunts of ASPartners
Post by: Merry Widow on August 12, 2006, 11:36:52 AM
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People Puhleeeeeeeeeeeeze!

ozy, can you see how gay this sounds?

 :P ::)

i believe the correct emoticonical response would've been:  :-*
Title: Re: The Cunts of ASPartners
Post by: Lucifer on August 12, 2006, 01:40:50 PM
"emoticonical"!

 :laugh:
Title: Re: The Cunts of ASPartners
Post by: odeon on August 12, 2006, 01:54:27 PM
"emoticonical"!

 :laugh:

That's supposed to be "emoticomical", dear.  :D
Title: Re: The Cunts of ASPartners
Post by: Lucifer on August 12, 2006, 01:55:44 PM
oh, well spotted, that man!

;D
Title: Re: The Cunts of ASPartners
Post by: Merry Widow on August 12, 2006, 01:58:29 PM
the use of emoticons is a science that i take very seriously.  ;)

see?  :laugh:
Title: Re: The Cunts of ASPartners
Post by: Lucifer on August 12, 2006, 02:15:11 PM
(http://www.zoicks.com/smileys/queen.gif)
Title: Re: The Cunts of ASPartners
Post by: odeon on August 12, 2006, 02:20:35 PM
(http://www.zoicks.com/smileys/queen.gif)

Kind of reminds me of Flo, that one. (S)He looks so... gay.
Title: Re: The Cunts of ASPartners
Post by: Lucifer on August 12, 2006, 02:23:41 PM
d'you know, you're right!

i was wondering who that smiley reminded me of.   :D
Title: Re: The Cunts of ASPartners
Post by: ozymandias on August 12, 2006, 02:45:17 PM
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People Puhleeeeeeeeeeeeze!

ozy, can you see how gay this sounds?

 :P ::)

i believe the correct emoticonical response would've been:  :-*

Thank you, Your Majesty, I stand corrected! 8)
Title: Re: The Cunts of ASPartners
Post by: Merry Widow on August 12, 2006, 02:46:51 PM
you may arise, Sir Ozymandias.  :laugh:
Title: Re: The Cunts of ASPartners
Post by: ozymandias on August 12, 2006, 06:42:53 PM
You honor me, Madam!  And might I add that I find your new avatar most fetching! 8)
Title: Re: The Cunts of ASPartners
Post by: McGiver on August 13, 2006, 12:03:25 AM
the cunts of AS partners have my panties in a bunch.