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Title: wheres scrapheap
Post by: richard on February 02, 2008, 12:50:58 PM
i havent seen him around inawile,  :tumbleweed:
Title: Re: wheres scrapheap
Post by: maldoror on February 02, 2008, 01:08:19 PM
I think they chased him off. He was a cool guy though; also, I think he went to the same high school as me.
Title: Re: wheres scrapheap
Post by: odeon on February 02, 2008, 01:58:09 PM
Who chased him off?
Title: Re: wheres scrapheap
Post by: Christopher McCandless on February 02, 2008, 02:15:09 PM
He is still on the tube, I think.
Title: Re: wheres scrapheap
Post by: Lucifer on February 02, 2008, 02:30:57 PM
Who chased him off?

flo.

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Title: Re: wheres scrapheap
Post by: maldoror on February 02, 2008, 02:31:44 PM
I don't remember who chased him off, just that someone kept harassing him.
Title: Re: wheres scrapheap
Post by: odeon on February 02, 2008, 02:45:13 PM
<sarcasm>Oh. Poor Scrap, then. </sarcasm>
Title: Re: wheres scrapheap
Post by: Calandale on February 02, 2008, 05:27:24 PM
<sarcasm>Oh. Poor Scrap, then. </sarcasm>

Sure. But, it did happen.
Title: Re: wheres scrapheap
Post by: richard on February 02, 2008, 05:28:47 PM
callaway chased him away :laugh:
Title: Re: wheres scrapheap
Post by: Calandale on February 02, 2008, 05:42:57 PM
He was weak.
Title: Re: wheres scrapheap
Post by: Callaway on February 02, 2008, 05:50:43 PM
callaway chased him away :laugh:

I did not.

Hadron made him an admin to help him cover up the fact that he adminned Calandale, then Scrapheap deleted my thread where I posted the evidence and several of my other posts.  Then he said that he had a sockpuppet that he had been using for spying on the admin forum.  I think that he embarrassed himself, plus he is very busy and working long hours IRL.

Title: Re: wheres scrapheap
Post by: richard on February 02, 2008, 05:54:22 PM
i know, i was just joking but i didnt know any of that stuff happend. i just picked you because you seem to be the nicest one here so it made sence at the time to say you chased him away :laugh:
Title: Re: wheres scrapheap
Post by: Calandale on February 02, 2008, 05:58:10 PM
i know, i was just joking but i didnt know any of that stuff happend. i just picked you because you seem to be the nicest one here so it made sence at the time to say you chased him away :laugh:

If anyone did, 'twas she.
No one gave him a rougher
time.
Title: Re: wheres scrapheap
Post by: richard on February 02, 2008, 06:01:18 PM
ive heard about callaway being ruff at times, but ive never witnessed it. once when i posted a picture of my whoo whoo in my avatar she Kindly asked me to remove it. i didnt argue :laugh:
Title: Re: wheres scrapheap
Post by: Calandale on February 02, 2008, 06:02:28 PM
i didnt argue :laugh:

Exactly. Do what she tells you,
and you are safe. Now do be a good
boy, and do whatever mommy says.
Title: Re: wheres scrapheap
Post by: richard on February 02, 2008, 06:04:36 PM
Ok well since i can see this is going to turn into an argument, time to lock :laugh:
Title: Re: wheres scrapheap
Post by: Calandale on February 02, 2008, 06:07:55 PM
 :laugh:

You didn't though (I checked)
Title: Re: wheres scrapheap
Post by: Eclair on February 02, 2008, 06:08:45 PM
Ok well since i can see this is going to turn into an argument, time to lock :laugh:

Ahh, since when was 'turning into an argument' ever a reason to lock a thread here?

Are you serious?
Title: Re: wheres scrapheap
Post by: Calandale on February 02, 2008, 06:19:47 PM
He didn't lock it, did he?  :zoinks:
Title: Re: wheres scrapheap
Post by: richard on February 02, 2008, 06:20:20 PM
im dead serious eclair. btw how are you responding to my locked topic
Title: Re: wheres scrapheap
Post by: Calandale on February 02, 2008, 06:21:12 PM
Lay off the mouthwash and hairspray.
Title: Re: wheres scrapheap
Post by: Calandale on February 02, 2008, 06:23:19 PM
Drinking that shit ain't helping.
Title: Re: wheres scrapheap
Post by: richard on February 02, 2008, 06:23:58 PM
 :toporly:
Title: Re: wheres scrapheap
Post by: richard on February 02, 2008, 06:25:42 PM
calandale ive been meaning to ask you what that was in your avatar, i cant decide if its a snake or road tar
Title: Re: wheres scrapheap
Post by: Callaway on February 02, 2008, 06:27:05 PM
ive heard about callaway being ruff at times, but ive never witnessed it. once when i posted a picture of my whoo whoo in my avatar she Kindly asked me to remove it. i didnt argue :laugh:

I remember that.  My daughter was home and I was afraid that she was going to see it.  I try to avoid graphic things when she is around and I did not want to have to avoid your posts.

Thank you for being so understanding about it, Richard.

 :-*
Title: Re: wheres scrapheap
Post by: Calandale on February 02, 2008, 06:30:48 PM
calandale ive been meaning to ask you what that was in your avatar, i cant decide if its a snake or road tar

It's what my name is.


Opium.
Title: Re: wheres scrapheap
Post by: Callaway on February 02, 2008, 06:34:08 PM

Exactly. Do what she tells you,
and you are safe. Now do be a good
boy, and do whatever mommy says.

^This looks like it was written by a boy who still has "issues" with his own mommy and projects them onto other women.
Title: Re: wheres scrapheap
Post by: Calandale on February 02, 2008, 06:36:49 PM

Exactly. Do what she tells you,
and you are safe. Now do be a good
boy, and do whatever mommy says.

^This looks like it was written by a boy who still has "issues" with his own mommy and projects them onto other women.

 :lol:

Knew if I'd let off complaining, you'd manage to
pull the personal attacks out again.

Prime example. You know that I have disagreement
with my mother. Though it bears not at all upon
the site. Didn't think you'd strike so soon though.

No one went personal on you, to push you, this
time, so THIS is now a prime example.
Title: Re: wheres scrapheap
Post by: Calandale on February 02, 2008, 06:40:38 PM
As an aside, richard, you DO know that
the one person you'd want to hide that
from CAN see it, don't you?

deleted posts are visible to admins.

Safer (if you fear) to edit them.

Never know what hard feelings
you might engender.
Title: Re: wheres scrapheap
Post by: Calandale on February 02, 2008, 06:42:04 PM
Although, perhaps the appearance
of subservience is enough. I've found
that the actuality of treating her fairly
in working conditions does nothing to
prevent her attacks which go well outside
of what I see as morally acceptable.
Title: Re: wheres scrapheap
Post by: Calandale on February 02, 2008, 06:43:05 PM
Probably doesn't mind someone seeing the
truth of her, so long as they don't shine
the light for others to see. So long as
she can continue to win election after
election.
Title: Re: wheres scrapheap
Post by: Callaway on February 02, 2008, 08:53:23 PM

Exactly. Do what she tells you,
and you are safe. Now do be a good
boy, and do whatever mommy says.

^This looks like it was written by a boy who still has "issues" with his own mommy and projects them onto other women.

 :lol:

Knew if I'd let off complaining, you'd manage to
pull the personal attacks out again.

Prime example. You know that I have disagreement
with my mother. Though it bears not at all upon
the site. Didn't think you'd strike so soon though.

No one went personal on you, to push you, this
time, so THIS is now a prime example.


  :lol:

You have to be kidding, Calandale.

It is not the case that my statement was any more personal than yours.

Your post was a personal attack, so I expressed my opinion of that post.
Title: Re: wheres scrapheap
Post by: Calandale on February 02, 2008, 08:57:53 PM

Exactly. Do what she tells you,
and you are safe. Now do be a good
boy, and do whatever mommy says.

^This looks like it was written by a boy who still has "issues" with his own mommy and projects them onto other women.

 :lol:

Knew if I'd let off complaining, you'd manage to
pull the personal attacks out again.

Prime example. You know that I have disagreement
with my mother. Though it bears not at all upon
the site. Didn't think you'd strike so soon though.

No one went personal on you, to push you, this
time, so THIS is now a prime example.


  :lol:

You have to be kidding, Calandale.

It is not the case that my statement was any more personal than yours.

Your post was a personal attack, so I expressed my opinion of that post.

How was mine related to anything that you've revealed
about your personal life? Yes, you are a parent, but you've
never expressed anything about thinking that you are overly
restrictive. Do you actually have such worries, that I've hit some
nerve? Or are you just BSing about the personal attack?

Either way, I certainly had no way of knowing that this was
a sore point. You, on the other hand, once again dig in
with exactly the type of attack that I object to.
Title: Re: wheres scrapheap
Post by: Eclair on February 02, 2008, 10:22:05 PM

Exactly. Do what she tells you,
and you are safe. Now do be a good
boy, and do whatever mommy says.

^This looks like it was written by a boy who still has "issues" with his own mommy and projects them onto other women.

 :lol:

Knew if I'd let off complaining, you'd manage to
pull the personal attacks out again.

Prime example. You know that I have disagreement
with my mother. Though it bears not at all upon
the site. Didn't think you'd strike so soon though.

No one went personal on you, to push you, this
time, so THIS is now a prime example.


  :lol:

You have to be kidding, Calandale.

It is not the case that my statement was any more personal than yours.

Your post was a personal attack, so I expressed my opinion of that post.

How was mine related to anything that you've revealed
about your personal life? Yes, you are a parent, but you've
never expressed anything about thinking that you are overly
restrictive. Do you actually have such worries, that I've hit some
nerve? Or are you just BSing about the personal attack?

Either way, I certainly had no way of knowing that this was
a sore point. You, on the other hand, once again dig in
with exactly the type of attack that I object to.

But what if her statement is correct Cal?  Does that mean Callaway, should endure your portrayal of her because you actually DO have those issues? 

Title: Re: wheres scrapheap
Post by: Calandale on February 03, 2008, 01:47:32 AM
I don't see where some speculation of
hers, as to my family life, is at all relevant
to the manner in which she gains support
from some members. Hell, I almost think that
some actually fear her.

It's this combination of being VERY nice to those
who don't ever say shit to her, and being terribly
cruel to those who do.

Hell, I pick on everyone. Maybe not equally so,
but whenever I see a shot, I tend to take it.
She targets directly and solely at those whom
she is disturbed by. There's no play in her attacks.
Took me some time, before I was willing to face that.

I'm hoping that others see what I saw, even before
I started highlighting this. If not for the extreme
respect/fear/bootlicking which she engenders, I
would have little objection though. It's merely the
power which she has gained, from this. Power is always
a sufficient target - and in her own way, she has more
here than even dunc.
Title: Re: wheres scrapheap
Post by: Lucifer on February 03, 2008, 01:54:29 AM
oh, please get over it, cal.  you don't like callaway, obviously lots of others do (or respect her, or her admin abilities, or whatever), so please, just stop the personal attacks.

apart from anything else, because it sounds like some sort of personal grudge, you're less likely to get people onto your side, to agree with you about her.

give a rest, eh?
Title: Re: wheres scrapheap
Post by: Calandale on February 03, 2008, 02:11:16 AM
I actually, when I first noticed this,
I certainly DID like her. This is the
only real flaw that I'd discovered
(perhaps along with holding onto
power, but honestly, that's understandable -
I had trouble giving it up at WP) - hmm,
add the inability to give all sides
a fair chance - but again, I think that's
something which is impossible to change.

But, it's such a large one, in light
of how she portrays (and probably
sees) herself, that the incongruity
is VERY painful. I'm not certain if
I lost all my respect for her - though
the attacks on myself certainly have
tainted whatever I had.

Yes, I harp about it. I actually thought
I had done some good, when she changed
to NOT making such attacks, and merely
clapping at even half assed ones against me.
Obviously, my work is not done.
Title: Re: wheres scrapheap
Post by: Eclair on February 03, 2008, 03:07:49 AM
I actually, when I first noticed this,
I certainly DID like her. This is the
only real flaw that I'd discovered
(perhaps along with holding onto
power, but honestly, that's understandable -
I had trouble giving it up at WP) - hmm,
add the inability to give all sides
a fair chance - but again, I think that's
something which is impossible to change.

But, it's such a large one, in light
of how she portrays (and probably
sees) herself, that the incongruity
is VERY painful. I'm not certain if
I lost all my respect for her - though
the attacks on myself certainly have
tainted whatever I had.

Yes, I harp about it. I actually thought
I had done some good, when she changed
to NOT making such attacks, and merely
clapping at even half assed ones against me.
Obviously, my work is not done.

I like Callaway, and yes she has made some mistakes.  As you have also and so have others in that role. 

Perhaps the difference is that as far as I know, she doesn't spend half her life pissed and has a balanced and sensible viewpoint on how to approach most things.  And I respect that.

I don't know what 'power' you are referring to that she has, although, as far as I can see, you are jealous of the respect she has.  Bottom line. 
Title: Re: wheres scrapheap
Post by: odeon on February 03, 2008, 03:13:52 AM

Exactly. Do what she tells you,
and you are safe. Now do be a good
boy, and do whatever mommy says.

^This looks like it was written by a boy who still has "issues" with his own mommy and projects them onto other women.

 :lol:

Knew if I'd let off complaining, you'd manage to
pull the personal attacks out again.

Prime example. You know that I have disagreement
with my mother. Though it bears not at all upon
the site. Didn't think you'd strike so soon though.

No one went personal on you, to push you, this
time, so THIS is now a prime example.

ffs, you're constantly attacking her. You stated it more or less as a "fact" that Scrap was chased away, hinting strongly that Callaway did it. You did go personal, can't you see that?

You are full of shit, Calandale.

-1
Title: Re: wheres scrapheap
Post by: Calandale on February 03, 2008, 03:15:19 AM

I like Callaway, and yes she has made some mistakes.  As you have also and so have others in that role. 

Mistakes? If you're talking about the little fuckup
with the thread deletion, I don't see that as worth
a rat's ass. I'm NOT upset that she's not competent.
She's far more so, at certain tasks regularly desired in
an admin, than I am. Hell, only Renaeden gives her
a run for the money there, AFAIC.

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Perhaps the difference is that as far as I know, she doesn't spend half her life pissed and has a balanced and sensible viewpoint on how to approach most things.  And I respect that.

Pissed as in drunk, or angry.
I'm seldom drunk.

Angry? Nah. I see things which I
feel committed to fight. That's all.

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I don't know what 'power' you are referring to that she has, although, as far as I can see, you are jealous of the respect she has.  Bottom line.


Respect generates power.
I believe that some of what
she has is not fairly earned.

Am I jealous? I don't think so.
Whenever people start fawning
over me, in that kind of manner,
I make damned sure to disillusion
them. No one is bloody perfect,
and it's vital (to my own sanity) to
avoid being convinced that I am, by
others. She doesn't do this.

Could be a TOM thing. Could be, that she's
NOT badly effected by it. But, given how hard
she seems to strive to achieve that respect, I'm
rather disgusted. My own tendencies are the
exact opposite, and I believe them more honorable.
Title: Re: wheres scrapheap
Post by: Calandale on February 03, 2008, 03:17:45 AM


ffs, you're constantly attacking her. You stated it more or less as a "fact" that Scrap was chased away, hinting strongly that Callaway did it. You did go personal, can't you see that?

You are full of shit, Calandale.

-1

We obviously have different meanings
to 'personal'. I mean, that I don't attack
her personal life, outside of what she
presents directly on the site.

Scrap was chased away. She was instrumental.
There's nothing outside of the events on this
site in that statement. If you wish, we could
negotiate a term which disturbs you less, for
what I'm expressing. Honestly though, personal
seems to sum it up.
Title: Re: wheres scrapheap
Post by: Calandale on February 03, 2008, 03:18:59 AM
Back at you on the -,
mainly because IF we
are misunderstanding
each other's use of the
word, you are at least as
much at fault. I've explained
what I mean by it, again and
again. Your meaning is a complete
mystery to me.
Title: Re: wheres scrapheap
Post by: Eclair on February 03, 2008, 03:25:59 AM


ffs, you're constantly attacking her. You stated it more or less as a "fact" that Scrap was chased away, hinting strongly that Callaway did it. You did go personal, can't you see that?

You are full of shit, Calandale.

-1

We obviously have different meanings
to 'personal'. I mean, that I don't attack
her personal life, outside of what she
presents directly on the site.

Scrap was chased away. She was instrumental.
There's nothing outside of the events on this
site in that statement. If you wish, we could
negotiate a term which disturbs you less, for
what I'm expressing. Honestly though, personal
seems to sum it up.

Scrap is a grown man and hardly needs your interpretation of the events to fight his battle.

I also resent the fact that you think that Callaway's 'respect' has been unfairly or deviously earned.  I think at my age, I pretty much don't need YOUR interpretation of whom deserves my respect, I can pretty much sort that out by myself.

Title: Re: wheres scrapheap
Post by: Calandale on February 03, 2008, 03:30:49 AM


Scrap is a grown man and hardly needs your interpretation of the events to fight his battle.

True. This ain't for him. It wasn't
worth sticking around for the abuse
for him.

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I also resent the fact that you think that Callaway's 'respect' has been unfairly or deviously earned.  I think at my age, I pretty much don't need YOUR interpretation of whom deserves my respect, I can pretty much sort that out by myself.

You don't need anything. I understand that.
Nor is this for you then. Others haven't been
here so carefully sucking up what they are fed.


Title: Re: wheres scrapheap
Post by: odeon on February 03, 2008, 05:57:39 AM


ffs, you're constantly attacking her. You stated it more or less as a "fact" that Scrap was chased away, hinting strongly that Callaway did it. You did go personal, can't you see that?

You are full of shit, Calandale.

-1

We obviously have different meanings
to 'personal'. I mean, that I don't attack
her personal life, outside of what she
presents directly on the site.

Scrap was chased away. She was instrumental.
There's nothing outside of the events on this
site in that statement. If you wish, we could
negotiate a term which disturbs you less, for
what I'm expressing. Honestly though, personal
seems to sum it up.

You usually base your attacks on hinting on various bits and pieces of Callaway's character, as you perceive them. To me (and surely to Callaway), it's personal; it doesn't have to be about her personal life, it can just as well be about her person, and that you attack. Sometimes you do it openly, sometimes you only hint at it.

A typical example of the hints are when you suggest (in light of your character assassinations of her) that she drove Scrap away.

You get personal, Cal. No misunderstanding, no redefinition of the word.
Title: Re: wheres scrapheap
Post by: Calandale on February 03, 2008, 06:04:51 AM
We each present aspects of ourselves here.
To avoid dealing with anything 'personal'
by your definition, I'd have to avoid mentioning
anything that the person who is Callaway does.

So, what word would you suggest for what I
was using the term? Personal seems the only
option, but you've set that to include ANYTHING.
Title: Re: wheres scrapheap
Post by: odeon on February 03, 2008, 07:13:38 AM
No, you don't have to AVOID mentioning everything that Callaway the person does, but you might consider not attacking her for everything she does. Why is this so difficult for you to understand?
Title: Re: wheres scrapheap
Post by: Calandale on February 03, 2008, 07:27:58 AM
I don't attack her for the vast majority.

You asked for examples. She's busy making
them. I oblige in pointing them out.

Enjoy.
Title: Re: wheres scrapheap
Post by: Al Swearegen on February 03, 2008, 07:29:17 AM
Oh no not this shit again.

Alright you guys. Next person to bring this up gets Sir_Les's dick in their ear (male or female I don't care)

And yes it will be wet. >:D
Title: Re: wheres scrapheap
Post by: Calandale on February 03, 2008, 07:31:06 AM
 :eyebrows:
Title: Re: wheres scrapheap
Post by: Lucifer on February 03, 2008, 07:33:18 AM
Oh no not this shit again.

Alright you guys. Next person to bring this up gets Sir_Les's dick in their ear (male or female I don't care)

And yes it will be wet. >:D

i'm soooooooooooooooooo tempted, just to see if you could reach to the UK.

:smarty:
Title: Re: wheres scrapheap
Post by: Christopher McCandless on February 03, 2008, 07:35:45 AM
Oh no not this shit again.

Alright you guys. Next person to bring this up gets Sir_Les's dick in their ear (male or female I don't care)

And yes it will be wet. >:D
I have the meat cleaver right here. Bring it on...
(http://www.neaca.com/images/Meat_Cleaver_No8_Green_River_1a_.JPG)
Title: Re: wheres scrapheap
Post by: Lucifer on February 03, 2008, 07:36:43 AM
don't - i'm still waiting to see if he'll get to the UK.

oh, and les, dear chap - i'm an eco-freak, so don't think you can fly.  :P
Title: Re: wheres scrapheap
Post by: Christopher McCandless on February 03, 2008, 07:39:46 AM
don't - i'm still waiting to see if he'll get to the UK.

oh, and les, dear chap - i'm an eco-freak, so don't think you can fly.  :P
I will wait until after he gets to the UK, I am a fair way in so plenty of time to perform the chop.

Les, you could swim, I doubt Vivi would object to that.
Title: Re: wheres scrapheap
Post by: odeon on February 03, 2008, 08:25:38 AM
Oh no not this shit again.

Alright you guys. Next person to bring this up gets Sir_Les's dick in their ear (male or female I don't care)

And yes it will be wet. >:D

But da-aa-a--aad. He STARTED it! :P
Title: Re: wheres scrapheap
Post by: Al Swearegen on February 03, 2008, 02:59:54 PM
don't - i'm still waiting to see if he'll get to the UK.

oh, and les, dear chap - i'm an eco-freak, so don't think you can fly.  :P
I will wait until after he gets to the UK, I am a fair way in so plenty of time to perform the chop.

Les, you could swim, I doubt Vivi would object to that.

Don't be like that Hadron. We all know you'd love it. It would be a sexual first for me (the fist time I had ear sex) and a first for you (first sexual experience with another person)

Swimming? You know where I live right? It is not the distance
IF I get past the breakers, negotiate the huge population of world' deadliest sharks, then avoid some of the world's deadliest jellyfish and of course stingrays, I will still probably get "caught" but illegal Japanese whalers...
Title: Re: wheres scrapheap
Post by: odeon on February 03, 2008, 03:03:21 PM
Those Japanese whalers are a bitch whenever you want to go for a swim. :P
Title: Re: wheres scrapheap
Post by: Christopher McCandless on February 03, 2008, 03:07:58 PM
don't - i'm still waiting to see if he'll get to the UK.

oh, and les, dear chap - i'm an eco-freak, so don't think you can fly.  :P
I will wait until after he gets to the UK, I am a fair way in so plenty of time to perform the chop.

Les, you could swim, I doubt Vivi would object to that.

Don't be like that Hadron. We all know you'd love it. It would be a sexual first for me (the fist time I had ear sex) and a first for you (first sexual experience with another person)
The reason it would be a first for me is because I am choosy. I could go out right now and get sex (for free), if I wanted it.
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Swimming? You know where I live right? It is not the distance
IF I get past the breakers, negotiate the huge population of world' deadliest sharks, then avoid some of the world's deadliest jellyfish and of course stingrays, I will still probably get "caught" but illegal Japanese whalers...
Google seem to think you could manage it. Try entering some driving directions and see what they recommend... ;)
Title: Re: wheres scrapheap
Post by: odeon on February 03, 2008, 03:08:56 PM
Well, either there's something wrong with you or you're lying. Teenagers these days... ::)
Title: Re: wheres scrapheap
Post by: Lucifer on February 03, 2008, 03:38:34 PM
It is not the distance
IF I get past the breakers, negotiate the huge population of world' deadliest sharks, then avoid some of the world's deadliest jellyfish and of course stingrays, I will still probably get "caught" but illegal Japanese whalers...

and i'm not worth all those teensy little challenges?

(http://teachline.ls.huji.ac.il/72682/tutorials/behappy/crying-smiley.jpg)
Title: Re: wheres scrapheap
Post by: Christopher McCandless on February 03, 2008, 03:43:47 PM
Well, either there's something wrong with you or you're lying. Teenagers these days... ::)
Asides being in near constant pain, then no. I just have a habit of attracting those I dont want, maybe having someone I cant have appeals more...
Title: Re: wheres scrapheap
Post by: Calandale on February 03, 2008, 04:03:49 PM
Oh no not this shit again.

Alright you guys. Next person to bring this up gets Sir_Les's dick in their ear (male or female I don't care)

And yes it will be wet. >:D

But da-aa-a--aad. He STARTED it! :P

WERE you the whiny type?  :laugh:
Title: Re: wheres scrapheap
Post by: Callaway on February 04, 2008, 03:09:47 PM
Probably doesn't mind someone seeing the
truth of her, so long as they don't shine
the light for others to see. So long as
she can continue to win election after
election.

Cross posted, since this post also answers questions brought up here:


There's no difference.  A personal attack is a personal attack.

Interesting. I see a HUGE difference between
bringing up matters which actually relate to
your position as an admin here, or to your
attack style, and those which say, relate
to my relationship with my mother.

Actually, you were the one who brought your mother into your personal attacks against me when you compared me to her here:


I'm used to it too.
My mother is just this
way. Except, without
the 'kind' veneer. But she
saves up incriminating evidence
against those she might need it.

Doesn't mean that I have to like it.

When you implied to Richard that I am some sort of harshly punitive mother who is to be feared if she is not unquestioningly obeyed, I believe that it is very relevant whether you have issues with your own mother and if you are projecting these issues onto me. 

i didnt argue :laugh:

Exactly. Do what she tells you,
and you are safe. Now do be a good
boy, and do whatever mommy says.


You have said many times here that you are a narcissist and projection is very common in narcissists. 

Here is an article that I found about projection in narcissists, which explains much of what you have been doing to me and others here.

Quote from: http://www.narcissism.operationdoubles.com/projectionmachine.htm

Here we focus on the bad, or negative, things narcissists project, their faults and failings in particular.

When narcissists slander and calumniate you, they have two objectives. One is projection, and the other is to muddy a bright spot in your character with whatever slander or calumny they're projecting at you. It's as though any shine on your image diminishes the glow of their glory.

Don't take my word for it: test a narcissist. Praise someone before a group and see what happens. The next day the narcissist launches a smear campaign against that praised person.

This is, of course, the mentality of the rapist, who must tear others "down off that pedestal." The narcissist just does the deed in a non-sexual way.

Now, you'd think it would be hard to accomplish both objectives — projection and smearing — at the same time. But it's uncanny how narcissists manage to do so! It's all in the way they word their "line" on you. They are glib and amazingly adept at killing two birds with one stone: they not only ditch one of their faults, they muddy one your virtues in the process.

Note that in doing this, the narcissist isn't attacking your faults and shortcomings: he is attacking your virtues and accomplishments. Consequently, when he is conducting a campaign of character assassination against someone, the arrows he shoots never hit one of that person's real flaws.

The result is something like Dr. Frankenstein accomplished with body parts. A chimera. The narcissist's false image contains the virtuous qualities in other people's characters, and their images have had those virtuous qualities replaced with the flaws in the narcissist's character. In other words, the narcissist steals your virtues and dumps on you his faults.

In doing so, the narcissist is stealing your identity, pulling an identity switch with you, piecemeal.

It's a kind of magic, an illusion created with nothing but words, which can warp perceptions by making anything of anything.

For example, let's say that the narcissist is stingy and that one of your virtues is that you are outstanding for your generosity. He hates the glow of that shiny spot in your character, because it serves as foil to his stinginess, making it more noticeable by contrast. So he muddies your image and glorifies his image by misappropriating your generosity to himself and misappropriating his stinginess to you.   
 
 How? He goes around lying about how much he gives to charity and about helping people out all the time. More important (since one must be careful and subtle about boasting), he just makes everything he does sound generous. He also goes around telling lying stories about you, stories that have you being stingy. More important, he makes everything you do sound stingy, however generous it manifestly is. In The Art of Lying I gave an example of how a narcissist can make one $500 purchase sound like payment for room, board, toiletries, cigarettes, and laundry services for twenty years — in order to unsound like a freeloader.   

This is what makes narcissists stand out. Normal people do project. They sometimes even smear. But not in such a calculated fashion.



Title: Re: wheres scrapheap
Post by: Calandale on February 04, 2008, 04:45:56 PM
Talk about a "smear campaign"  ::)

I answered in the other thread,
I'm too much of a narcissist to
bother taking you down, point by
point to the same argument here,
I guess.
Title: Re: wheres scrapheap
Post by: Christopher McCandless on February 05, 2008, 05:13:21 AM


Quote from: http://www.narcissism.operationdoubles.com/projectionmachine.htm

Here we focus on the bad, or negative, things narcissists project, their faults and failings in particular.

When narcissists slander and calumniate you, they have two objectives. One is projection, and the other is to muddy a bright spot in your character with whatever slander or calumny they're projecting at you. It's as though any shine on your image diminishes the glow of their glory.

Don't take my word for it: test a narcissist. Praise someone before a group and see what happens. The next day the narcissist launches a smear campaign against that praised person.

This is, of course, the mentality of the rapist, who must tear others "down off that pedestal." The narcissist just does the deed in a non-sexual way.

Now, you'd think it would be hard to accomplish both objectives — projection and smearing — at the same time. But it's uncanny how narcissists manage to do so! It's all in the way they word their "line" on you. They are glib and amazingly adept at killing two birds with one stone: they not only ditch one of their faults, they muddy one your virtues in the process.

Note that in doing this, the narcissist isn't attacking your faults and shortcomings: he is attacking your virtues and accomplishments. Consequently, when he is conducting a campaign of character assassination against someone, the arrows he shoots never hit one of that person's real flaws.

The result is something like Dr. Frankenstein accomplished with body parts. A chimera. The narcissist's false image contains the virtuous qualities in other people's characters, and their images have had those virtuous qualities replaced with the flaws in the narcissist's character. In other words, the narcissist steals your virtues and dumps on you his faults.

In doing so, the narcissist is stealing your identity, pulling an identity switch with you, piecemeal.

It's a kind of magic, an illusion created with nothing but words, which can warp perceptions by making anything of anything.

For example, let's say that the narcissist is stingy and that one of your virtues is that you are outstanding for your generosity. He hates the glow of that shiny spot in your character, because it serves as foil to his stinginess, making it more noticeable by contrast. So he muddies your image and glorifies his image by misappropriating your generosity to himself and misappropriating his stinginess to you.   
 
 How? He goes around lying about how much he gives to charity and about helping people out all the time. More important (since one must be careful and subtle about boasting), he just makes everything he does sound generous. He also goes around telling lying stories about you, stories that have you being stingy. More important, he makes everything you do sound stingy, however generous it manifestly is. In The Art of Lying I gave an example of how a narcissist can make one $500 purchase sound like payment for room, board, toiletries, cigarettes, and laundry services for twenty years — in order to unsound like a freeloader.   

This is what makes narcissists stand out. Normal people do project. They sometimes even smear. But not in such a calculated fashion.




Reminds me of a tutor of mine. Maybe I should have some fun  >:D
Title: Re: wheres scrapheap
Post by: Calandale on February 05, 2008, 07:43:30 PM
Might find it difficult.
Anyone as competent at
the games as that article indicates
(wonder if the poor fella just has a
personal axe to grind?) would eat
you alive.
Title: Re: wheres scrapheap
Post by: Christopher McCandless on February 05, 2008, 07:46:43 PM
Might find it difficult.
Anyone as competent at
the games as that article indicates
(wonder if the poor fella just has a
personal axe to grind?) would eat
you alive.
I can still outsmart her, especially on wit. All she can do is growl at me...
Title: Re: wheres scrapheap
Post by: MLA on May 20, 2016, 09:41:15 AM
Patterns are funny that way
Title: Re: wheres scrapheap
Post by: Yuri Bezmenov on June 10, 2016, 07:59:51 PM
callaway chased him away :laugh:

Actually, what happened here was that there was an incredibly busy off-season at JFR and after it was all done I spent all of my spare time off work chasing pussy. That was when I met Jenny, then almost all of my time off work was spent with her.

Kinda funny how women take up all of your time and money, huh??

Anyways, if things had worked out with Jenny I probably never would've come back here.

Real life and poontang takes priority over internet message boards. Radical concept I know.  ::) 
Title: Re: wheres scrapheap
Post by: MLA on June 13, 2016, 09:32:25 AM
callaway chased him away :laugh:

Actually, what happened here was that there was an incredibly busy off-season at JFR and after it was all done I spent all of my spare time off work chasing pussy. That was when I met Jenny, then almost all of my time off work was spent with her.

Kinda funny how women take up all of your time and money, huh??

Anyways, if things had worked out with Jenny I probably never would've come back here.

Real life and poontang takes priority over internet message boards. Radical concept I know.  ::)

Yeah.  Uh huh.  I believe it  :M
Title: Re: wheres scrapheap
Post by: Jack on April 03, 2017, 09:36:29 PM
Guest bump.
Title: Re: wheres scrapheap
Post by: "couldbecousin" on April 04, 2017, 09:10:22 AM
Guest bump.

  Guests can't bump, or post in any other capacity.  :police:
Title: Re: wheres scrapheap
Post by: Jack on April 04, 2017, 05:37:34 PM
Stop acting like you don't know what a guest bump is. :M
Title: Re: wheres scrapheap
Post by: Jack on April 04, 2017, 05:37:49 PM
And where's Scrapheap?
Title: Re: wheres scrapheap
Post by: "couldbecousin" on April 05, 2017, 05:40:07 AM
Stop acting like you don't know what a guest bump is. :M

  You caught me.  Half my necrobumps are suggested by what the guests are reading.  :laugh:
Title: Re: wheres scrapheap
Post by: MLA on April 05, 2017, 08:40:55 AM
And where's Scrapheap?

He needed a time out
Title: Re: wheres scrapheap
Post by: Jack on April 05, 2017, 04:45:56 PM
And where's Scrapheap?

He needed a time out
Did you time him out?
Title: Re: wheres scrapheap
Post by: odeon on April 06, 2017, 02:11:37 PM
And where's Scrapheap?

He needed a time out
Did you time him out?

 :lol1: