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Start here => Free For ALL => Topic started by: Gluey on January 25, 2008, 02:01:51 AM
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In order to fit in on internet forums you really just don't give a fuck.
From what I understand is that a key board and a computer can make any Aspie highly sociable.
Well i'm sorry for my failed attempt at trying to make everyone ideal to me.
Well first of all I'm a Canadian. Everyone is always so polite, tolerant and so nice and than you get on a forum from people all over the world including aspies who grew up in rougher areas and than it's just shocking to me.
like the worst things that ever happened to me as an Aspie was getting an eraser thrown at my back by a kid who was a pitcher on a baseball team , rocks thrown at me, being pushed to the ground by girls screaming in my ears, being called stupid countless times, getting my locker kicked.
I bet people here have suffered from more. That was just basic bullying a encountered.
Yes I cried when Starbuline called me a cunt but it only lasted for a while. It was the first time I was called a derogitory word.
Since i was 14 I have lived on a beuitiful little island with a small community with sun shiny people and friendly aspies who I shared special ed assistance teachers
I really got to let go of my "Canadian Hippie" ideals.
I'm gonna take a break from here. It doesn't mean I'm leaving. I'll be back on this weekend. Nothing is more vermin-ey on forums than
"IM LEAVING AND NEVAR COMANG BACCCK!!!!!!!!!!"
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Is that what started it all, Sophie calling you a cunt so you make that post on WP about her.
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Anyone can add value to a site. Please don't feel you haven't Beatlehead. I find you a fascinating person. :)
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In order to fit in on internet forums you really just don't give a fuck.
Doesn't hurt, but it ain't necessary.
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Anyone can add value to a site. Please don't feel you haven't Beatlehead. I find you a fascinating person. :)
Anyone can ALSO be a complete ass.
Don't expect any forgiveness here.
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*burps*
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::)
You either.
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Well first of all I'm a Canadian. Everyone is always so polite, tolerant and so nice and than you get on a forum from people all over the world including aspies who grew up in rougher areas and than it's just shocking to me.
nice generalisations
what you said about starbuline wasn't "polite"
Yes I cried when Starbuline called me a cunt but it only lasted for a while. It was the first time I was called a derogitory word.
how did i know you would bring this shit up again?
pathetic
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Saying negative things about Starbuline isn't a good way to make friends around here. Why not practice your canadian tolerance and forgive her?
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yes
not that she did anything that needs forgiving
all the things you complain about that were said to you on there, were said by other people. mostly me.
starbuline wasn't even mean to you. actually, neither was i, but i said a LOT more than she did.
so why is it that you're always bringing her up?
could it be because she's no longer here to defend herself?
because if it is, that's kind of pointless, because i will defend her myself
or is it just because you're pissed off how much people were affected by her death?
your "mourning after on all the aspie forums" comment certainly suggests that
if that's the case, then you need serious help
either way, quit making up lies about how mean she was to you.
if you have a problem with what was said to you on zomg, take it up with ME and quit being such a coward about it
or, you could just wait till i die and THEN complain about me,
i guess that's more your style
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Is it...callout time? :laugh:
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would it even get a response? :zoinks:
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She says she's going to be back for the weekend.
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to complain about evil soph bullying her probably
she hasn't even bothered to explain herself for the comments she's made on here, i doubt she would if i directly called her out on it
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Are you this apathetic about EVERYTHING? :zoinks:
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am lazy :toporly:
tbh yes
i can't be arsed
i can't see it being any different to the rest
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Speaking of arsing....
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(http://img233.imageshack.us/img233/8244/2271kx5.gif)
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:anal:
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How can someone boast about how tolerant and polite they were raised to be, and then make such comments? ???
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How can someone boast about how tolerant and polite they were raised to be, and then make such comments? ???
i don't understand this either
especially when the comments are such bullshit
i said worse to her than starbuline did, so i dunno why she's making this about her
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Canadian, eh?
Logic's never been their
strong point.
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:laugh:
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I bet people here have suffered from more. That was just basic bullying a encountered.
Yes I cried when Starbuline called me a cunt
Yes, i bet they have.
And you cried because some person on internet forum wrote some text down. How pathetic is that?
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Look I'm not defending anyones actions here, but I guess when you are in a forum or online community that consists of mainly others like ourselves who are on the spectrum, we tend to forget that every now and again, we might say some bonehead stuff, we might even cling to those bonehead ideas for way too long because we dont like being wrong. Learning to be wrong and accepting that has been a tough journey for a lot of us, and I think we start to take that for granted and expect others of us to be at that same level. Sure its something that is worthwhile to strive for but I dont think everyone is one the same page at the same time.
Saying sorry and that we made a mistake can be very hard for some of us here. It's almost like the scariest thing in the world, more scary than death itself. But it takes a certain faith to take that step and admit your wrong doings. It can also be very rewarding and a great stress relief not to be burdened or trapped by your own stubborness and stupid pride.
( disclaimer: if you are reading this and think its directed at you, it almost probably isnt :green: )
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i agree about tha saying sorry thing. i find it hard to apologise when i'm wrong. i do do it though if i genuinely think i've been wrong.
but in this case, the person is constantly bringing it upo again and again. that's why i have a problem with it. if she really accepted what she'd done was wrong, she'd just shut up about it and let it pass (i never even said anything about it initially, until she kept mentioning it herself)
i don't want anyone to apologise to me, i just want people to stop saying shit about starbuline as she's not here anymore and it's not true
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but in this case, the person is constantly bringing it upo again and again. that's why i have a problem with it. if she really accepted what she'd done was wrong, she'd just shut up about it and let it pass (i never even said anything about it initially, until she kept mentioning it herself)
I agree. Just let the subject go.
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i agree about tha saying sorry thing. i find it hard to apologise when i'm wrong. i do do it though if i genuinely think i've been wrong.
but in this case, the person is constantly bringing it upo again and again. that's why i have a problem with it. if she really accepted what she'd done was wrong, she'd just shut up about it and let it pass (i never even said anything about it initially, until she kept mentioning it herself)
i don't want anyone to apologise to me, i just want people to stop saying shit about starbuline as she's not here anymore and it's not true
Yes i admit. it was wrong. I was stupid. I'm used to being called a cunt now. it's just a word cunt cuntiy cunt cunt cunt. I'm a cunt. This was three months ago I cried when starbuline called me a cunt. that was my first time I was pathetic i admit it. bring it on Kid A cunty cun cunt cunt. I'm Ringo lover and i'm a stupid cunt.
Also I grew up in Vancover where eat Indian men kill there wives, kids do drugs. it's the worst place in Canada. I'm polite but not when someone is rude to me I be rude back. I'm like the female version of terrance/philip from South Park.
UNCLE FUCKER.
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i agree about tha saying sorry thing. i find it hard to apologise when i'm wrong. i do do it though if i genuinely think i've been wrong.
but in this case, the person is constantly bringing it upo again and again. that's why i have a problem with it. if she really accepted what she'd done was wrong, she'd just shut up about it and let it pass (i never even said anything about it initially, until she kept mentioning it herself)
i don't want anyone to apologise to me, i just want people to stop saying shit about starbuline as she's not here anymore and it's not true
Yes i admit. it was wrong. I was stupid. I'm used to being called a cunt now. it's just a word cunt cuntiy cunt cunt cunt. I'm a cunt. This was three months ago I cried when starbuline called me a cunt. that was my first time I was pathetic i admit it. bring it on Kid A cunty cun cunt cunt. I'm Ringo lover and i'm a stupid cunt.
Also I grew up in Vancover where eat Indian men kill there wives, kids do drugs. it's the worst place in Canada. I'm polite but not when someone is rude to me I be rude back. I'm like the female version of terrance/philip from South Park.
UNCLE FUCKER.
Are you pissed?
Seriously, you should get over that and move on :zoinks:
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OK Well thank you for admiting you were wrong about her (assuming that's what you meant)
That's all I'm bothered about
You can be pissed off at me all you want and think what you like about me, I'm not bothered
But I said far worse things to you than Sophie did, and if she did upset you, she doesn't go around being mean to people and trying to make them cry, she just isn't overly sensitive with people when she disagrees with them. It mgiht seem like that's what's nicest to do, but it isn't. That's what people are like on sites like WP where they're just nice for the sake of being nice. If you only ever surround yourself with people lioke that, you'll find things a lot harder. We were arguing with you on zomg becuase we felt what you were saying was ridiculous. We reacted to you the same way we would have to anyone else who said that. And I apologised on there the next day for upseting you. I just don;t want people saying things about Sophie that aren't true. Whatever she might have seemed like, she was not mean or a bully. She suffered more bullying than most people get, and she was still suffering from how other people treat her, right up until October. She wouldn't do it herself.
If you're pissed off at things that were said to you on zomg, it was likely said by me. I am far worse than Sophie when it comes to things like that. And whatever you might think of me, I think it's good for you that you no longer are affected by me calling you a cunt in the same way you were back then
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OK Well thank you for admiting you were wrong about her (assuming that's what you meant)
That's all I'm bothered about
You can be pissed off at me all you want and think what you like about me, I'm not bothered
But I said far worse things to you than Sophie did, and if she did upset you, she doesn't go around being mean to people and trying to make them cry, she just isn't overly sensitive with people when she disagrees with them. It mgiht seem like that's what's nicest to do, but it isn't. That's what people are like on sites like WP where they're just nice for the sake of being nice. If you only ever surround yourself with people lioke that, you'll find things a lot harder. We were arguing with you on zomg becuase we felt what you were saying was ridiculous. We reacted to you the same way we would have to anyone else who said that. And I apologised on there the next day for upseting you. I just don;t want people saying things about Sophie that aren't true. Whatever she might have seemed like, she was not mean or a bully. She suffered more bullying than most people get, and she was still suffering from how other people treat her, right up until October. She wouldn't do it herself.
If you're pissed off at things that were said to you on zomg, it was likely said by me. I am far worse than Sophie when it comes to things like that. And whatever you might think of me, I think it's good for you that you no longer are affected by me calling you a cunt in the same way you were back then
Also I can't tell whether you're taking the piss out of me or not. I'm guessing yes. But I don't care as long as you accept you were wrong about Sophie.
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OK Well thank you for admiting you were wrong about her (assuming that's what you meant)
That's all I'm bothered about
You can be pissed off at me all you want and think what you like about me, I'm not bothered
But I said far worse things to you than Sophie did, and if she did upset you, she doesn't go around being mean to people and trying to make them cry, she just isn't overly sensitive with people when she disagrees with them. It mgiht seem like that's what's nicest to do, but it isn't. That's what people are like on sites like WP where they're just nice for the sake of being nice. If you only ever surround yourself with people lioke that, you'll find things a lot harder. We were arguing with you on zomg becuase we felt what you were saying was ridiculous. We reacted to you the same way we would have to anyone else who said that. And I apologised on there the next day for upseting you. I just don;t want people saying things about Sophie that aren't true. Whatever she might have seemed like, she was not mean or a bully. She suffered more bullying than most people get, and she was still suffering from how other people treat her, right up until October. She wouldn't do it herself.
If you're pissed off at things that were said to you on zomg, it was likely said by me. I am far worse than Sophie when it comes to things like that. And whatever you might think of me, I think it's good for you that you no longer are affected by me calling you a cunt in the same way you were back then
Yes. Everything I do on forums is ridiculous and I admit it. It's not just AS forums i did a lot of fucked up things on Beatlelinks.net and got stalked by this weird lady telling me how to behave and how The Beatles had such nice wavy mop tops.
i have had many mods and people in forums telling me inaproprate.
Yes I was wrong. I should never say anything nasty about the dead. it was me not knowing how to appropriately behave. For instance at my great grandmothers funeral I played around with a laser pointer at the reception. (After the funeral) without realisng I upsetted many people.
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i never take internet forums eriously anymore. just have fun
however some people do piss me off everyonce inawile :laugh: