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Politics, Mature and taboo => Political Pundits => Topic started by: Adam on February 23, 2012, 07:20:50 AM

Title: Abortions based on sex
Post by: Adam on February 23, 2012, 07:20:50 AM
This is in the news here today

What do you think should be done about this, if anything?

I have some views but cant be arsed typing anything out yet as I want to make the most of a free house for half an hour , bye!
Title: Re: Abortions based on sex
Post by: Peter on February 23, 2012, 08:25:41 AM
As opposed to abortions based on abstinence?
Title: Re: Abortions based on sex
Post by: midlifeaspie on February 23, 2012, 09:56:23 AM
Aren't all abortions predicated on sex?
Title: Re: Abortions based on sex
Post by: Queen Victoria on February 23, 2012, 10:36:18 AM
I don't agree that abortions should be granted just because you don't want that child to be that sex. 
Title: Re: Abortions based on sex
Post by: Adam on February 23, 2012, 10:47:21 AM
How do you avoid it though, when the woman could just lie and say it's for another reason?

Title: Re: Abortions based on sex
Post by: Parts on February 23, 2012, 11:00:22 AM
How do you avoid it though, when the woman could just lie and say it's for another reason?

Through draconian laws that restrict it severely would be the only way other than that there is no way.   I find it wrong that people would do this but there is nothing short of what I initially stated that would prevent it
Title: Re: Abortions based on sex
Post by: Adam on February 23, 2012, 11:05:36 AM
Yeah that's how i see it too. They're making a big thing about it, but I don't see how legally they have any way of preventing it
Title: Re: Abortions based on sex
Post by: Parts on February 23, 2012, 11:09:41 AM
Yeah that's how i see it too. They're making a big thing about it, but I don't see how legally they have any way of preventing it

They will probably try and pass a law preventing it and then crucify some poor woman who slipped up in her answers and could not afford a good lawyer all the while feeling morally superior and satisfied they solved the problem :thumbdn: 
Title: Re: Abortions based on sex
Post by: bodie on February 23, 2012, 08:07:07 PM
I dunno!   Why do i keep thinking of
Dolly the Sheep? :sheep:

Oh...babies to order?  i can't work out if it is really neat or really sick!
Title: Re: Abortions based on sex
Post by: Pyraxis on February 23, 2012, 08:31:45 PM
Yeah that's how i see it too. They're making a big thing about it, but I don't see how legally they have any way of preventing it

They will probably try and pass a law preventing it and then crucify some poor woman who slipped up in her answers and could not afford a good lawyer all the while feeling morally superior and satisfied they solved the problem :thumbdn:

You're probably right.
Title: Re: Abortions based on sex
Post by: eris on February 23, 2012, 10:22:24 PM
i swear i remember reading this same exact thread a year ago or so. someone said something about abortions due to sex, then someone joked that abortions have to be due to sex, and then on and on.
Title: Re: Abortions based on sex
Post by: Calavera on February 23, 2012, 10:35:43 PM
Pointless.
Title: Re: Abortions based on sex
Post by: eris on February 23, 2012, 10:41:51 PM
all abortions are basically pointless, so im not going to argue why one reason is more pointless than the other. i think it's all pretty horrible.
Title: Re: Abortions based on sex
Post by: Calavera on February 23, 2012, 11:32:58 PM
all abortions are basically pointless, so im not going to argue why one reason is more pointless than the other. i think it's all pretty horrible.

No, I'll have to disagree. Some abortions may be necessary as horrible as abortion can be to many of us.
Title: Re: Abortions based on sex
Post by: eris on February 23, 2012, 11:42:16 PM
i think the only time an abortion is necessary is if it will medically hurt the mother.
Title: Re: Abortions based on sex
Post by: El on February 24, 2012, 05:55:32 AM
i think the only time an abortion is necessary is if it will medically hurt the mother.
Good grief, you're pro-life, eris?  I wasn't expecting that.
Title: Re: Abortions based on sex
Post by: eris on February 24, 2012, 11:03:21 AM
i think the only time an abortion is necessary is if it will medically hurt the mother.
Good grief, you're pro-life, eris?  I wasn't expecting that.

yes and no

I do think that abortion should be legal and available for everyone, no questions asked

but i also think that life starts at conception, and it is a stupid, selfish, horrible decision and i dont think anyone that isnt having a medical crisis should do it
Title: Re: Abortions based on sex
Post by: Adam on February 24, 2012, 11:23:55 AM
i swear i remember reading this same exact thread a year ago or so. someone said something about abortions due to sex, then someone joked that abortions have to be due to sex, and then on and on.
lol people on here are obviously too predictable :P
Title: Re: Abortions based on sex
Post by: Adam on February 24, 2012, 11:30:18 AM
Women who don't want the kid to the point where they want to abort it are very unlikely to be good parents (yes, I know they can end up changing their minds and still love the kid like any other parent, but theyre obviously much less likely to).

I know there's the option of putting it up for adoption, but there are already enough kids to be adopted, why add another to the equatiion?

Also she may be young and scared. Having to go thru 9 months of pregnancy and then a horrible childbirth doesn't seem reasonable to me

Then there are obviously the cases where woen have been raped, and those months of pregnancy and childbirth (and facing the decision over whether to keep or have adopted) will be very traumatic for a lot of rape victims,, and only make it harder for them to deal with what's happened to them

I dont think first trimester abortions are that bad at all. It's not like it's a baby in there

I don't LIKE the idea though, but I actually find the thought of kids being brought up by parents who don't want them , love them, care for them or raise them properly much more terrible than a fetus being terminated early
Title: Re: Abortions based on sex
Post by: Adam on February 24, 2012, 11:31:20 AM
Same with abortions based on what sex the baby is

If you're that much of a shitty parent, you shouldn't be having the kid anyway

The only bad point to it, is that they're not fukcking sterilised as well. they shouldn't be having a kid male OR female if they're that bothered about its sex
Title: Re: Abortions based on sex
Post by: Adam on February 24, 2012, 11:32:05 AM
btw I'm not being 100% serious abou the sterilisation. I would never support a law passed to sterilise someone for requesting an abortion because of its sex, but I do think they shouldn' be having kids at all if they're like that
Title: Re: Abortions based on sex
Post by: Calavera on February 24, 2012, 03:49:42 PM
I seriously wish governments issued licenses for parenting, but I know how unpopular such policy would be.
Title: Re: Abortions based on sex
Post by: Adam on February 24, 2012, 04:10:34 PM
I think the best thing to do here would be to ban telling anyone what sex the baby is, at least until after the abortion limit
Title: Re: Abortions based on sex
Post by: Callaway on February 24, 2012, 05:52:19 PM
I disagree with not telling the baby's gender to the parents until after the limit to have an abortion has passed.  What if for example they already have a child with a medical issue that is linked to the gender of the baby?

I think that unless they have a test like CVS or amniocentesis, they are unlikely to know the gender through something like ultrasound until they are at well past the first trimester in the pregnancy anyway.

I had amniocentesis and a genetic ultrasound and I knew that I was having a girl just before 20 weeks, which was the absolute limit for an elective abortion in the state where I lived, but I don't think many people have abortions at almost 20 weeks unless something is seriously wrong with either the baby or the mother.
Title: Re: Abortions based on sex
Post by: Adam on February 24, 2012, 06:03:07 PM
Obviously there are instances where the sex of the baby is relevant. Clearly that would not apply if it was related to the baby's heath

And it is possible to find out the sex of a baby before 20 weeks

Clearly these women are being told whether they're having a  boy or a girl within the legal timeframe for a n abortion
Title: Re: Abortions based on sex
Post by: bodie on February 24, 2012, 06:09:13 PM
I didn't need a scan to tell me i was having a boy.  I just knew from the moment my pregnancy was confirmed.

I am not religious,  nor do i read horoscopes, visit fortune tellers or dabble in tea leaves.  I don't know how but i was 100% certain it was a boy.  Now that was wierd.

It would not have mattered if it was a girl either -  I ABSOLUTELY DID NOT WANT ANY KIDS ANYWAY - THAT IS UNTIL THAT MOMENT I FOUND OUT I WAS HAVING ONE!  That was another wierd thing.

The weirdest thing of all is how much i love him and i could not imagine how shallow life would be without him.  Even now,  he is nearly five i still spend hours at his bedroom door,  watching him sleep.  Sometimes i wake up in the night and have to go and look to see he is still breathing!  I look at him and i am amazed at how beautiful he is... and just so glad that i got the urchin.   
Title: Re: Abortions based on sex
Post by: bodie on February 24, 2012, 06:14:41 PM
I heard something about this topic on the radio this morning.   I can't quote anyone but it was something about the instances of requests to terminate girls being much higher than boys.

Kind of ironic,  that abortions are meant to empower women,  yet it is the females that would be gotten rid of. ???
Title: Re: Abortions based on sex
Post by: Adam on February 24, 2012, 06:18:39 PM
Yeah it is usually girls people are wanting to get rid of than boys. At least when it is cultural/religious reasons behind it
Title: Re: Abortions based on sex
Post by: 'andersom' on February 24, 2012, 06:27:25 PM
@ Bodi, I knew I was having a girl that certain, that we had no boys names ready.

Abortions? I can't see myself decide to have one, unless it would be a medical necessity, but, I cannot know, feel, think for another woman. So, when it comes to me, I'm kinda pro-life I guess, but, not when it is about someone else.


Boy or girl a reason to abort? I find that ridiculous, but, have to agree with Parts.
How do you avoid it though, when the woman could just lie and say it's for another reason?

Through draconian laws that restrict it severely would be the only way other than that there is no way.   I find it wrong that people would do this but there is nothing short of what I initially stated that would prevent it

In a few years, getting your genome screened will be affordable for lots of people. Getting the genome of your unborn child checked will be something affordable too. Then the question of what is a legitimate reason to abort will be everywhere.

A decade from now, even character of a child may be predictable, based on it's genome, will it be docile and easy, or will it be a trouble maker?

And, there will be an eerie question on top of that.

Will insurance companies have the right to tell people to abort, in certain outcomes? Can a school decide to refuse kids with a trouble maker genome?  Can states pre-emptively institutionalise?

There are clinics at the moment, that do screening on illnesses, yet, they refuse to look for some things, because they don't want to interfere in the gene pool too much. Only when it is about life-threatening illnesses. But, there will be clinics popping up where those ethics will not be part of the companies policy. And, yes, I do find that threatening.
Title: Re: Abortions based on sex
Post by: 'andersom' on February 24, 2012, 06:29:01 PM
I heard something about this topic on the radio this morning.   I can't quote anyone but it was something about the instances of requests to terminate girls being much higher than boys.

Kind of ironic,  that abortions are meant to empower women,  yet it is the females that would be gotten rid of. ???

True, China is a clear example.

India has a much higher male/female ratio than elsewhere in the world too. Girls get more accidents there it seems.  >:(
Title: Re: Abortions based on sex
Post by: Adam on February 24, 2012, 06:33:27 PM
That's one of the main problems with this if it continues for generations

Who wants to live in a country with not enough women and too much competition? :P
Title: Re: Abortions based on sex
Post by: 'andersom' on February 24, 2012, 06:37:32 PM
That's one of the main problems with this if it continues for generations

Who wants to live in a country with not enough women and too much competition? :P
:eyelash: :mischief: :eyebrows:

Could have it's advantages.

I'm getting closer to the age where men become more and more scarce.
Title: Re: Abortions based on sex
Post by: Squidusa on February 24, 2012, 07:49:21 PM
The weirdest thing of all is how much i love him and i could not imagine how shallow life would be without him.  Even now,  he is nearly five i still spend hours at his bedroom door,  watching him sleep.  Sometimes i wake up in the night and have to go and look to see he is still breathing!  I look at him and i am amazed at how beautiful he is... and just so glad that i got the urchin.

That's not weird , it's natural and a very very beautiful thing.  :) :hug:
Title: Re: Abortions based on sex
Post by: rogue on April 18, 2012, 04:38:44 AM
I don't agree with aborting by gender.
I do believe in common sense and cultures that don't use it and don't value women better learn to value homosexuality when they have no-one to fuck .
Title: Re: Abortions based on sex
Post by: midlifeaspie on April 18, 2012, 07:36:53 AM
I don't agree with aborting by gender.
I do believe in common sense and cultures that don't use it and don't value women better learn to value homosexuality when they have no-one to fuck .

Welcome.  I have to ask, by necrobumping a buried thread on your second post you clearly joined then searched for "abortion", right?  Why?

Edit:  my bad, you have been lurking for 6 years.  Why is today your coming out day?
Title: Re: Abortions based on sex
Post by: rogue on April 18, 2012, 09:49:46 AM
WP refugee. again. don't know if this site was rebooted I thought I had some history. been awhile. I posted about causality too the subjects seem related.  :)


or maybe you guys are just that scary that it took me six years   :apondering:
Title: Re: Abortions based on sex
Post by: Pyraxis on April 18, 2012, 06:27:21 PM
Aww, we're not scary at all!  :kitten:
Title: Re: Abortions based on sex
Post by: Dexter Morgan on May 29, 2012, 09:29:05 PM
A lot of self-hating women in here.
Title: Re: Abortions based on sex
Post by: midlifeaspie on May 30, 2012, 08:46:29 AM
Second necrobump on this topic.  Are people just searching for "abortion"?  Bored?