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Start here => Free For ALL => Topic started by: Teejay on October 07, 2006, 02:30:25 AM
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To aspie guys desperate to get laid, should go and visit a hooker or hire an escort, as long as you treat them nicely and use protection it is pretty safe and the prices are not too bad either. If they did that the wrongplanet forums and chatrooms would be a much more pleasant place. 8)
I personally have mixed opinions of sex workers and I am not desperate to get laid. I more desire emotional intimacy which you do not get from a hooker or escort.
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Not that I would hire one anyway but I think the thing that scares me off most is the idea that the pimp would try to mug me for extra money, like in "Catcher in the Rye".
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To aspie guys desperate to get laid, should go and visit a hooker or hire an escort, as long as you treat them nicely and use protection it is pretty safe and the prices are not too bad either. If they did that the wrongplanet forums and chatrooms would be a much more pleasant place. 8)
I personally have mixed opinions of sex workers and I am not desperate to get laid. I more desire emotional intimacy which you do not get from a hooker or escort.
i paid for time and services with a hooker when i was 18.
you should always use protection no matter what.
and i don't see any reason to slap them around, but i don't really see any reason to treat them nicely. its a simple business exchange.
and besides, the hooker that i paid for (in tijuana, mexico) wasn't nice to me.
she kept repeating: finish, finish, finish, finish....
If they did that the wrongplanet forums and chatrooms would be a much more pleasant place.
are you saying that there are alot of sexually frustrated aspie males, which causes them to act unpleasantly?
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are you saying that there are alot of sexually frustrated aspie males, which causes them to act unpleasantly?
Not unpleasant presay, but whining and doing things like annoying female members. Which we can do without.
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the hooker that i paid for (in tijuana, mexico) wasn't nice to me.
she kept repeating: finish, finish, finish, finish....
I don't know why, but I find this very funny. :laugh:
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are you saying that there are alot of sexually frustrated aspie males, which causes them to act unpleasantly?
Not unpleasant presay, but whining and doing things like annoying female members. Which we can do without.
but i think that there was a thread in the mens discussion that categorically stated that women get annoyed easily anyways.
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the hooker that i paid for (in tijuana, mexico) wasn't nice to me.
she kept repeating: finish, finish, finish, finish....
I don't know why, but I find this very funny. :laugh:
its because it is funny. its the card i always play, whenever i don't have anything else to say. :bananas:
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Fix that.
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Fix that.
now fix yours.
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Wow, I did not even notice mine. Thanks for pointing it out. :LOL:
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If I was desperate enough for sex, I would fly to las vegas and visit one of their brothels. The girls who work there are clean, and they are high quality, and the rooms are high quality. But I am not that desperate for sex. Infact I am not even desperate enough for sex to want it over masturbating.
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If I was desperate enough for sex, I would fly to las vegas and visit one of their brothels. The girls who work there are clean, and they are high quality, and the rooms are high quality. But I am not that desperate for sex. Infact I am not even desperate enough for sex to want it over masturbating.
have you ever had 15 tequilla poppers in mexico, and had some prostitute touching and rubbing your crotch.
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Yes, ffs, guys, take social skills training classes, buy a hooker, or cut off your fingers so you can't type and harass women, or make yourselves seem so frigging pathetic the hooker would charge you for a dry hump, say "that was sex," and demand payment for it, because you seemed like an easy mark.
((Of course, I'd suggest trying to come to the earth-shattering realization that you're a complete person whether or not you've gotten laid, but that's asking too much.))
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My advice? Be more like me -- less desperate.
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If it wasn't for the fact that men are forcibly shown that they can survive for at least almost a decade(when they are technically allowed to have sex with another person) that their incredible horniness will not kill them, i think some men's horniness feels so strong, as strong as the urge to breathe when you are drowning, that their desperation is somewhat justified.
If being hungry or needing to breathe can screw up your judgement enough to be willing to kill someone in order to satisfy those urges, I can imagine horniness being at least strong enough to emotionally bother a person when it isn't satisfied.
I myself don't suffer at all like this, but I can imagine it.
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My advice? Be more like me -- less desperate.
Amen.
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My advice? Be more like me -- less desperate.
Amen.
or...
less wise about the ways of the world.
more naive in the sense that you haven't experienced some things in life that you should be forming an opinion of.
or...
building more walls, which could be used as defensive mechanisms.
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To aspie guys desperate to get laid, should go and visit a hooker or hire an escort, as long as you treat them nicely and use protection it is pretty safe and the prices are not too bad either. If they did that the wrongplanet forums and chatrooms would be a much more pleasant place. 8)
I personally have mixed opinions of sex workers and I am not desperate to get laid. I more desire emotional intimacy which you do not get from a hooker or escort.
I think for the guys that need a woman's attention that badly that's the biggest part of the problem - the very fact that your needing it enough to even be willing to pay for it. I'd just say learn to be happy by yourself, no....fuck it....learn to feel like your pimp shit by yourself. Get yourself into ambitous interests, things that make you feel more alpha, things that you'd be proud to tell another person about, work on how you dress, work on how you see yourself and the world around you. If you do that, feel like you have a lot, seem like you have a lot, and could give a damn about finding a woman - they'll come around on their own, don't even sweat it.
You've gotta think of it this way too, how the heck would you even be happy with a woman's company if she's not someone you click with on the head to head level? Is taking an escort out even going to be fun really? And your paying for it? Even if you hire the variety where you end up getting yourself laid.... what's it worth? That's way too much power and emphasis to place on sex itself, doesn't matter what she looks like.
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you must be a monk.
how about, have the sex, then pay for her cabride home, just in time to turn on sportscenter.
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My advice? Be more like me -- less desperate.
Amen.
or...
less wise about the ways of the world.
more naive in the sense that you haven't experienced some things in life that you should be forming an opinion of.
or...
building more walls, which could be used as defensive mechanisms.
You're just mad that I'm not interested in making a legacy for myself which doesn't consist of how many people I shagged in my lifetime, unlike you with your boasts here. Any animal can do that.
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once you achieve any legacy then your argument will begin to hold water.
but, in the meantime, i may achieve more as well.
thank you for playing, please try again.
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once you achieve any legacy then your argument will begin to hold water.
but, in the meantime, i may achieve more as well.
thank you for playing, please try again.
I couldn't really care less with what a village idiot has to say to the likes of me.
I'm just saying that you're common, you're boring, you're a male stereotype, you just want to shag, shag, shag, fucking shag.
"Game over, Jaggs -- Insert Coin."
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once you achieve any legacy then your argument will begin to hold water.
but, in the meantime, i may achieve more as well.
thank you for playing, please try again.
I couldn't really care less with what a village idiot has to say to the likes of me.
I'm just saying that you're common, you're boring, you're a male stereotype.
"Game over, Jaggs -- Insert Coin."
you actually know very little about me.
i am proud of the fact that YOU have ambition. the desire is encouraging, peaguy, but until we see results your base of argument is moot.
TILT- turn over.
volley.
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And back on topic....
My advice to the lonely male aspies is to stop acting so desperate and sorry for yourself, harsh maybe, but desperation and self pity are never attractive. Look at yourself without the self pity and see the positives in your life, find reasons to like yourself. And don't just sit around in your room online all night waiting for a relationship to fall into your lap- get yourself out there, sure its hard, but surely if you really want a relationship (or even just a sex partner) so badly its worth making the effort?
Stop obsessing about it, find something else to do with your free time- at least then, when you do meet someone, you'll have something to talk about and you might even actually enjoy yourself.
As for paying for a prostitute that really depends on your own personal feelings on this, sure you might rid yourself off that virginity that you see as something hanging round your neck like a big loser sign, but that's all you will get out of the experience (unless of course you end up with an STD). Plus, is it really something thats going to do your self-esteem any good?
Please note, I am not saying that everyone should be looking for a relationship and/or someone to shag, but I don't think its helpful to tell someone who is looking for those things that they shouldn't. In fact I believe that telling someone that they shouldn't want what they do might actually provide them with another reason to beat themselves up for not being good enough.
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The other end of the spectrum annoys me too. I've seen some of the aspie guys on wp post about how they're unattractive, overweight slobs and yet they won't settle for anything less than than a hot girl with a great body. These are some of the same people who whine about not being able to get a girlfriend. Those guys are shallow and deserve to be alone if that's all they care about.
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>:D >:D >:D >:D
Nice CARLA
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yOU MEAN ALEX?
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Am I exempt from your ire because I don't whine about not having a girlfriend?
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partially exempt
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So i'm partially shallow and deserve to be alone?
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building more walls, which could be used as defensive mechanisms.
As opposed to the walls you build around any semblance of gentleness, mercy, or femininity?
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building more walls, which could be used as defensive mechanisms.
As opposed to the walls you build around any semblance of gentleness, mercy, or femininity?
OHHHHH!!!! BUUURNNNN!!!!!
sorry
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So i'm partially shallow and deserve to be alone?
You're shallow, but I recall you expressing some remorse for that, so you're partially excused.
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building more walls, which could be used as defensive mechanisms.
As opposed to the walls you build around any semblance of gentleness, mercy, or femininity?
so you are sayging that i am feminie?
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building more walls, which could be used as defensive mechanisms.
As opposed to the walls you build around any semblance of gentleness, mercy, or femininity?
so you are sayging that i am feminie?
Just soft. :laugh:
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building more walls, which could be used as defensive mechanisms.
As opposed to the walls you build around any semblance of gentleness, mercy, or femininity?
so you are sayging that i am feminie?
Just soft. :laugh:
yeah, well, i got something hard for you.
come to papa.
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Oooohhh. Big daddy.
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Oooohhh. Big daddy.
(http://www.otakulandia.com/images/reviews/anime/personajes/gungrave_6.jpg)
:p
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The other end of the spectrum annoys me too. I've seen some of the aspie guys on wp post about how they're unattractive, overweight slobs and yet they won't settle for anything less than than a hot girl with a great body. These are some of the same people who whine about not being able to get a girlfriend. Those guys are shallow and deserve to be alone if that's all they care about.
That is interesting consider given they are so lonely and desperate :-\
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The other end of the spectrum annoys me too. I've seen some of the aspie guys on wp post about how they're unattractive, overweight slobs and yet they won't settle for anything less than than a hot girl with a great body. These are some of the same people who whine about not being able to get a girlfriend. Those guys are shallow and deserve to be alone if that's all they care about.
That is interesting consider given they are so lonely and desperate :-\
If you're lonely and desperate you should atke what you can get. Find another lonely, desperate, unattractive person and go to weight watchers together or something.
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What sucks is being lonely despite knowing that i am specifically declining to have a girlfriend or a mate until i finish with college and get a good job. I have to wait for years before i will even consider it. And I can't decline to be lonely upon making this decision.
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What sucks is being lonely despite knowing that i am specifically declining to have a girlfriend or a mate until i finish with college and get a good job. I have to wait for years before i will even consider it. And I can't decline to be lonely upon making this decision.
find a woman after college, but before the good job.
whatever happend to women finding the Alladin types; diamonds in the rough.
if you get the good job first, then you'll never know.
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What's so wrong with dating in college?
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For one thing i have almost no money. I want to be able to buy her things, treat her to dinners and shit. I don't want to buy her exactly, but i'd like the freedom that money gives. Another thing is that I don't want to find a girl then get a job which puts me out of convenient driving distance, or have her get a job somewhere that i have to move to. And lastly, i can't even imagine finding someone outside of a working environment. I figure once i get a job, i will have the money to blow on trying to find her, because i can't think of any cheap, easy ways to find people with a certain personality, intelligence, and goal in life.
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Do all that you can and you have no reason to be mad at yourself, if you can't get what you want.
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I'm not mad, but i am lonely.
But i'm not expecting you guys do anything about it, i'm just remarking upon the fact.
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For one thing i have almost no money. I want to be able to buy her things, treat her to dinners and shit. I don't want to buy her exactly, but i'd like the freedom that money gives. Another thing is that I don't want to find a girl then get a job which puts me out of convenient driving distance, or have her get a job somewhere that i have to move to. And lastly, i can't even imagine finding someone outside of a working environment. I figure once i get a job, i will have the money to blow on trying to find her, because i can't think of any cheap, easy ways to find people with a certain personality, intelligence, and goal in life.
you can treat her right, emotionally.
that would be better than any gift you could purchase.
please, do not ask me for advice on 'how to' since, i am still learning myself.
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What's so wrong with dating in college?
I don't know. McJ thinks he's the seer of all knowledge just because he's been a man-whore since puberty.
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What's so wrong with dating in college?
I don't know. McJ thinks he's the seer of all knowledge just because he's been a man-whore since puberty.
or the fact that i have had opportunity, and you are jealous because you would rather self loathe.
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What's so wrong with dating in college?
I don't know. McJ thinks he's the seer of all knowledge just because he's been a man-whore since puberty.
or the fact that i have had opportunity, and you are jealous because you would rather self loathe.
You wish I was loathing.
God, what a bitch. Give this man a medal for using the tired "jealous" comeback.
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the pattern speaks for itself.
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the pattern speaks for itself.
As per usual, empty assumptions from people online whom I haven't met.
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the pattern from your prior posts.
now i get it, its your online personality, and nothing like the real you.
sporry, i have a life and things to do now. you will have to wait for my next, mean spirited reply.
yes, since i have a life.
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the pattern from your prior posts.
now i get it, its your online personality, and nothing like the real you.
sporry, i have a life and things to do now. you will have to wait for my next, mean spirited reply.
yes, since i have a life.
If your life is so fantastic, why do you constantly waste your time at berating other people online, then?
Can't anyone get enough of this idiot?
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i will challenge you, you bitter little prick.
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i will challenge you, you bitter little prick.
You have contradicted yourself and lied about your busy life schedule, too. Congratulations.
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building more walls, which could be used as defensive mechanisms.
As opposed to the walls you build around any semblance of gentleness, mercy, or femininity?
so you are sayging that i am feminie?
I'm saying you're running as hard as you can away from the suggestion that you might possibly be feminine.
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building more walls, which could be used as defensive mechanisms.
As opposed to the walls you build around any semblance of gentleness, mercy, or femininity?
so you are sayging that i am feminie?
I'm saying you're running as hard as you can away from the suggestion that you might possibly be feminine.
in your opinion.
sources please.
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:laugh:
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I'm saying you're running as hard as you can away from the suggestion that you might possibly be feminine.
in your opinion.
sources please.
Every comment you've been making here is a source. You're on the defensive. You're demanding explanation. If it wasn't a big deal to you, you would have ignored it, or maybe made a joke about it. Instead you chose the word "femininity" to question me about, instead of either of the other two I mentioned, "gentleness" and "mercy".
QC sees it. ;D
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I'm saying you're running as hard as you can away from the suggestion that you might possibly be feminine.
in your opinion.
sources please.
Every comment you've been making here is a source. You're on the defensive. You're demanding explanation. If it wasn't a big deal to you, you would have ignored it, or maybe made a joke about it. Instead you chose the word "femininity" to question me about, instead of either of the other two I mentioned, "gentleness" and "mercy".
QC sees it. ;D
ah, young grasshopper you learn well.
use my tactics against me.
hmmmmm....
ok.
i am more like the fat kid. i joke and laugh when i am feeling defensive. i question, when i am feeling confident.
btw- nice move looking for support with the following comment:
QC sees it.
i tip my hat to you.
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ah, young grasshopper you learn well.
use my tactics against me.
LOL. When did I become your student?
ok.
i am more like the fat kid. i joke and laugh when i am feeling defensive. i question, when i am feeling confident.
Except that most of your posts on this site are jokes.
Or are you really that defensive that much of the time?
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its not easy being sensitive/feminine; being me.
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*claps*
But McJ, McJ, you're losing your touch. You walked straight past a potential counter strike.
LOL. When did I become your student?
^^^ potential defensiveness ^^^
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True.
however, it did not go unnoticed.
rather, i opted to joke around in response to your latest claim. if i had called you on it, then i would have been acting defensive myself by trying (weakly) to put you on the defensive.
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Lol.. no saying what.
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It's funny how you're two months late replying in this thread, and how your reply makes no sense.
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YOU'D NEED TO BE REALLY DESPERATE TO ASK ADVICE ABOUT WOMEN OFF OF THIS FAT FREAK OF A VIRGINIC OGRE!
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It's funny how you're two months late replying in this thread, and how your reply makes no sense.
two months prep time and still missed the mark.
lol.
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My advice: Move a little bit to your left... OK... hold it... hold it... all your problems shall be solved in a moment...
...now say a little prayer...
:evillaugh:
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My advice: Move a little bit to your left... OK... hold it... hold it... all your problems shall be solved in a moment...
...now say a little prayer...
:evillaugh:
Aww, is that little miss prep student trying to be the modern Boudica?
Bless.
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My advice: Move a little bit to your left... OK... hold it... hold it... all your problems shall be solved in a moment...
...now say a little prayer...
:evillaugh:
Aww, is that little miss prep student trying to be the modern Boudica?
Bless.
Nah, little miss prep studentneeds to stop carrying her camera everywhere when she's on a sugar high.
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My advice: Move a little bit to your left... OK... hold it... hold it... all your problems shall be solved in a moment...
...now say a little prayer...
:evillaugh:
Aww, is that little miss prep student trying to be the modern Boudica?
Bless.
Nah, little miss prep studentneeds to stop carrying her camera everywhere when she's on a sugar high.
put your right arm around.
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Is this what this place used to be like? (I am referring to the first page, the rest seems pretty standard now)
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McMorrison seems pretty funny.
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Is this what this place used to be like? (I am referring to the first page, the rest seems pretty standard now)
Yes, the good old days :-\
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It wasn't all that different, tbh.