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Start here => M.O.-Introductions => Topic started by: Nomaken on October 03, 2006, 01:33:05 PM
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Several of my friends girlfriends that they've had have become quite territorial. And I've seen it implied from many comedians that this happens to them too. I also vaguely recall some stories of men being territorial about their girlfriends, so i'm not going to say it is a female only trait.
And by territorial I mean that you distrust your mate hanging around with people of the opposite gender, and/or you feel your mate should want think spending time with you should always take priority over them spending time with anyone else.
So for the people here who have mates(I always use the term mate because i dont want to imply the genders of the pair, and i dislike the term significant other, incase anybody is wondering) and for those of you who wanna guess how you'd behave with a future mate, how territorial are you with them?
I ask this partially because I'm curious, and partially because my friends have expressed that they find this quality extremely annoying(and i would agree with them), and i'm slightly afraid it is universal.
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When I was younger, yes I was- but I think that was because I was very lacking in self-confidence- I assumed he would find someone better than me. Now, since my self-confidence as grown some, I'm not so much. We've been through a lot and have such strong feelings for each other that I don't think that we would split up easily. I also value time spent away from each other more than I did when I was younger.
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That is a really complicated question, Nomaken. It depends. I think it is a question of degree.
I have no problem with my husband spending some time alone with his friends of either gender. His friends are mostly male but if he suddenly had a new female best friend and he wanted to spend a great deal of time with her rather than my daughter and me, and he called her all the time and started acting secretive about his conversations with her, then I would probably be concerned that he was becoming too emotionally attached to her. I have seen things like this happen to people I have known and often the husbands were beginning affairs with the new female best friends when this happened.
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yes.
i pea on her everytime she gets out of the shower.
so the other males of the species know that she is spoken for.
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I get jealous pretty easily, but I probably wouldn't act territorial (except in my mind) because I wouldn't want to scare the dude off or just as bad, inflate his ego. 8)
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I used to be, when I was younger.
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i am, definitely. low self esteem, and a massive rejection button, i reckon.
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I'll never, ever, ever succumb to that emotional trap -- because I don't need a relationship to validate my existence.
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then you're fucking lucky.
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then you're fucking lucky.
Look on the bright side: At least you're better than me at other things.
I still like ya, witchy-woo. ^_^
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I don't plan to fall into that emotional trap to validate my existence. Eating haagen daas validates my existence. I plan to fall into that trap for an assortment of other nifty benefits it provides.
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Like what?
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eating more haagan dazs chocolate-chocolate chip icecream.
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Cuddling, emotional support, entertainment, curiosity, practical advice, hedonistic pleasure.
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I'll never, ever, ever succumb to that emotional trap -- because I don't need a relationship to validate my existence.
That's a bit of a patronising attitude don't ya think?
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I'll never, ever, ever succumb to that emotional trap -- because I don't need a relationship to validate my existence.
That's a bit of a patronising attitude don't ya think?
It shouldn't be patronising if people choose to ignore such attitudes.
All I know is that I'm going to be one, happy bachelor without any emotional ties from the opposite sex.
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I'll never, ever, ever succumb to that emotional trap -- because I don't need a relationship to validate my existence.
That's a bit of a patronising attitude don't ya think?
It shouldn't be patronising if people choose to ignore such attitudes.
All I know is that I'm going to be one, happy bachelor without any emotional ties from the opposite sex.
yes, until you get pussy whipped.
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I'll never, ever, ever succumb to that emotional trap -- because I don't need a relationship to validate my existence.
That's a bit of a patronising attitude don't ya think?
It shouldn't be patronising if people choose to ignore such attitudes.
All I know is that I'm going to be one, happy bachelor without any emotional ties from the opposite sex.
yes, until you get pussy whipped.
But that might not happen because I'm supposedly gay, according to your baseless sources.
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i suspect you are gay.
i have no evidence to support my suspicions. unless you consider gay-dar to be submissable as evidence.
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I'll never, ever, ever succumb to that emotional trap -- because I don't need a relationship to validate my existence.
That's a bit of a patronising attitude don't ya think?
It shouldn't be patronising if people choose to ignore such attitudes.
All I know is that I'm going to be one, happy bachelor without any emotional ties from the opposite sex.
Ignore what attitudes? ??? I believe it is patronising to tell people they want to be in a relationship to validate their own existance and its also a very simplistic view of relationships.
And why 'going to be', why not 'am'?
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I'll never, ever, ever succumb to that emotional trap -- because I don't need a relationship to validate my existence.
That's a bit of a patronising attitude don't ya think?
It shouldn't be patronising if people choose to ignore such attitudes.
All I know is that I'm going to be one, happy bachelor without any emotional ties from the opposite sex.
Ignore what attitudes? ??? I believe it is patronising to tell people they want to be in a relationship to validate their own existance and its also a very simplistic view of relationships.
But I haven't told anyone here that they're in relationships to validate their own existence. I am simply expressing my own opinion that most people these days are emotionally juvenile and arrogant to think that being with someone, no matter how much of a bastard or a bitch the partner is, is better than being with no-one at all.
And why 'going to be', why not 'am'?
Because I still have mixed feelings on this subject. I'm just being honest with my feelings here.
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But I haven't told anyone here that they're in relationships to validate their own existence. I am simply expressing my own opinion that most people these days are emotionally juvenile and arrogant to think that being with someone, no matter how much of a bastard or a bitch the partner is, is better than being with no-one at all.
If that's the case, then it is arrogant and I agree with you. I wouldn't want to be in a relationship no matter what.
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I'll never, ever, ever succumb to that emotional trap -- because I don't need a relationship to validate my existence.
That's a bit of a patronising attitude don't ya think?
It shouldn't be patronising if people choose to ignore such attitudes.
All I know is that I'm going to be one, happy bachelor without any emotional ties from the opposite sex.
Or you might be a very happily married husband and father. Just because you don't need to be with someone just to not be alone, does not mean that you will never be with anyone at all. You might find someone you are happy with who is also happy with you.
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But I haven't told anyone here that they're in relationships to validate their own existence. I am simply expressing my own opinion that most people these days are emotionally juvenile and arrogant to think that being with someone, no matter how much of a bastard or a bitch the partner is, is better than being with no-one at all.
But the way you worded your original post seemed to suggest (at least it did to me) that all of those who had posted before you had 'succumbed to that emotional trap' and thus felt that they had to be with someone in order to be a complete person. And I agree with you that a twat of a partner is not better than none- however I don't believe that anyone on this thread suggested the contradictory was true.
Because I still have mixed feelings on this subject. I'm just being honest with my feelings here.
I thought that perhaps you had mixed feelings but since you do how can you be so sure that you will be a single for the rest of your life? (not that I don't believe that remaining single might not be the right decision for you).
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/me pounces peaguy and bites him.
Feelin' horny?
Although i am not a hot one. A better test would be peter, he is bitable.
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I've firmly stated and firmly stand by my stance that people are never never never halves of a whole. Each person is a whole person on his or her own and doesn't need to be in a relatinoship to make their lives "worthwhile" or "complete." Yes, I'm in a relationship, but it's not to fill some gapaing hole in my life; that's a bullshit philosophy.
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it might well be a bullshit philosophy (and i agree with you), but it's fucking difficult trying to go against all one's childhood conditioning. for me, that meant i would leave school, get a bit of a job, and then get married and have babies. people started looking at me funny by my early twenties, cos i wasn't engaged. there was Talk at my younger sister's first wedding, cos i didn't even have a boyfriend at that time - it just wasn't normal or natural for a woman not to have a partner. people still look at me a bit funny now.
in other words, it was (and is still, in some quarters) considered odd not to have a partner: single-dom was (is) not the natural order of things.
other than that, i know my life would be easier in some ways (and more diffcult, i'm sure) if i had a partner. so i don't give a fuck - i'd very much like to be in a relationship, please.
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I've firmly stated and firmly stand by my stance that people are never never never halves of a whole. Each person is a whole person on his or her own and doesn't need to be in a relatinoship to make their lives "worthwhile" or "complete." Yes, I'm in a relationship, but it's not to fill some gapaing hole in my life; that's a bullshit philosophy.
then why are you in a relationship?
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yes.
i pea on her everytime she gets out of the shower.
so the other males of the species know that she is spoken for.
I have to comment on this, because i thought somebody would mention it but they never did. That was hilarious. +1
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I've firmly stated and firmly stand by my stance that people are never never never halves of a whole. Each person is a whole person on his or her own and doesn't need to be in a relatinoship to make their lives "worthwhile" or "complete." Yes, I'm in a relationship, but it's not to fill some gapaing hole in my life; that's a bullshit philosophy.
then why are you in a relationship?
Because I like my mate. not because I need him.
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I've firmly stated and firmly stand by my stance that people are never never never halves of a whole. Each person is a whole person on his or her own and doesn't need to be in a relatinoship to make their lives "worthwhile" or "complete." Yes, I'm in a relationship, but it's not to fill some gapaing hole in my life; that's a bullshit philosophy.
then why are you in a relationship?
Because I like my mate. not because I need him.
You should've said: "Dinosaur sex."
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I've firmly stated and firmly stand by my stance that people are never never never halves of a whole. Each person is a whole person on his or her own and doesn't need to be in a relatinoship to make their lives "worthwhile" or "complete." Yes, I'm in a relationship, but it's not to fill some gapaing hole in my life; that's a bullshit philosophy.
then why are you in a relationship?
Because I like my mate. not because I need him.
You should've said: "Dinosaur sex."
Hey, I'm not dating him for his porn knowledge; I just can't seperate the two so I might as well try to find find one as amusing as the other.
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I've firmly stated and firmly stand by my stance that people are never never never halves of a whole. Each person is a whole person on his or her own and doesn't need to be in a relatinoship to make their lives "worthwhile" or "complete." Yes, I'm in a relationship, but it's not to fill some gapaing hole in my life; that's a bullshit philosophy.
then why are you in a relationship?
Because I like my mate. not because I need him.
but i think peaguy may be onto something.
you may not think that you need him, but you might be aware that he needs you. and everybody likes (at the very least) to be needed.
it helps them to validate their existence.
maybe thagomizers existence is not validated by you.
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Everybody likes to be needed? :puke:
Not me. Wanted, sure, but not needed. What could possibly be the appeal of having someone hanging off you all the time, the obligation to take care of them, the obligation to make them feel better if they are upset, the obligation to spend a ton of time with them because if you don't, then something unimaginably-terrible will happen to them, because they need you. A need is critical to survival, so if they don't have it, they will die, and it will be your fault. A person who needs someone in the true definition of the word would be suicidal (or something like that) without them, and what kind of a loving statement is it to say "stay with me or I will kill myself"?
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shall we discuss the pride you take in your job?
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:LOL:
And yet, I still don't have a job, but I'm not suicidally depressed over it, and barring the fact that I worry about it, I am basically happy with my life.
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getting a job would give you some sense of satisfaction, knowing that you were needed?
hermits keep pets.
why?
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I think you're just defining needed more loosely than me. Sure, it would give me a ton of satisfaction to get a job. To know that a company's creations were better because of me. But if a company was so small and fragile that me leaving it would mean that the company would dissolve (and I've worked for entrepreneurs where that was true) then it wasn't a very strong investment to begin with, and I'd be wary of taking a position at another company like it. For example, if the only reason a company is afloat is because they are paying the artist only a pittance, and if that particular artist left, they'd never be able to find one with the same talents willing to work for the same amount of money, then there's something seriously wrong. Just think about the economic model. The artist is getting exploited, their talents are worth more and they should find a job with a more secure company.
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i wouldn't feel bad leaving either. people have worth, and the pittance that the sma;;er company can afford is not enough sometimes.
a persons skill level sometimes outgrows the smaller company.
or the skill level helps the smaller company to become a medium sized company, but they should pay the person accordingly
cost vs benefit analysis.
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Precisely. Meaning it is not good to work for a company that needs you. Just one that wants you for whatever specific advantage you offer.
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Precisely. Meaning it is not good to work for a company that needs you. Just one that wants you for whatever specific advantage you offer.
it works BOTH ways.
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What do you mean? It's good to work for a company that needs you if you also need the company?
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there was need at one time.
if the company still needs you then they will pay you accordingly. if they cannot, then they obviously didn't need you bad enough.
the new company obviously does, since they are paying you a greater portion of your worth.
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And here's where the different definitions of need screw up the argument.
Would you say that if a thing is valuable to someone, then they need it? That's what it seems like, whereas I'm defining need as more than valuable, as critical to one's existence.
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And here's where the different definitions of need screw up the argument.
Would you say that if a thing is valuable to someone, then they need it? That's what it seems like, whereas I'm defining need as more than valuable, as critical to one's existence.
i'd rather liken it to utility.
for instance, i think friends are to be used (not necessarily in the negative sense). if they serve no value to you then they are an uneccessary burdon of your time.
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Okay, if need = utility, then it is good to be needed. And I even agree on the friends comment.
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and you have a nice ass. :moon:
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Need != utility.
Happy?
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and you have a nice ass. :moon:
you have a nice ass!
happy?
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Shit, I did not see this. I like such behavior in my girlfriends to a degree.
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:laugh: And now everyone knows why I answered the way I did when this thread was first posted.
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When I was younger, yes I was- but I think that was because I was very lacking in self-confidence- I assumed he would find someone better than me. Now, since my self-confidence as grown some, I'm not so much. We've been through a lot and have such strong feelings for each other that I don't think that we would split up easily. I also value time spent away from each other more than I did when I was younger.
for the lazy!
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When I was younger, yes I was- but I think that was because I was very lacking in self-confidence- I assumed he would find someone better than me. Now, since my self-confidence as grown some, I'm not so much. We've been through a lot and have such strong feelings for each other that I don't think that we would split up easily. I also value time spent away from each other more than I did when I was younger.
for the lazy!
But you are usually the lazy.
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When I was younger, yes I was- but I think that was because I was very lacking in self-confidence- I assumed he would find someone better than me. Now, since my self-confidence as grown some, I'm not so much. We've been through a lot and have such strong feelings for each other that I don't think that we would split up easily. I also value time spent away from each other more than I did when I was younger.
for the lazy!
But you are usually the lazy.
not on my lunch break.
early, each work morning, i put myself into work mode. and it doesn't stop until i am through the gate and on my way home.
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When I was younger, yes I was- but I think that was because I was very lacking in self-confidence- I assumed he would find someone better than me. Now, since my self-confidence as grown some, I'm not so much. We've been through a lot and have such strong feelings for each other that I don't think that we would split up easily. I also value time spent away from each other more than I did when I was younger.
for the lazy!
PI - you take the rational view that I always felt made sense,
but deep down, I just couldn't stand it.
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Several of my friends girlfriends that they've had have become quite territorial. And I've seen it implied from many comedians that this happens to them too. I also vaguely recall some stories of men being territorial about their girlfriends, so i'm not going to say it is a female only trait.
And by territorial I mean that you distrust your mate hanging around with people of the opposite gender, and/or you feel your mate should want think spending time with you should always take priority over them spending time with anyone else.
So for the people here who have mates(I always use the term mate because i dont want to imply the genders of the pair, and i dislike the term significant other, incase anybody is wondering) and for those of you who wanna guess how you'd behave with a future mate, how territorial are you with them?
I ask this partially because I'm curious, and partially because my friends have expressed that they find this quality extremely annoying(and i would agree with them), and i'm slightly afraid it is universal.
I don't have a problem with my mate hanging out with other people..I just piss all over them before they go out, so people know I OWN THEM.
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yes.
i pea on her everytime she gets out of the shower.
so the other males of the species know that she is spoken for.
Or maybe you're Mcj's alter ego :laugh:
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yes.
i pea on her everytime she gets out of the shower.
so the other males of the species know that she is spoken for.
Or maybe you're Mcj's alter ego :laugh:
::)
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yes.
i pea on her everytime she gets out of the shower.
so the other males of the species know that she is spoken for.
Or maybe you're Mcj's alter ego :laugh:
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What? I just made light of the fact that you'd made the exact same joke he did last year, you're not seriously expecting people to be all angry and confrontational are you? (Who gets like that with people they don't know at all anyway?)
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yes.
i pea on her everytime she gets out of the shower.
so the other males of the species know that she is spoken for.
Or maybe you're Mcj's alter ego :laugh:
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What? I just made light of the fact that you'd made the exact same joke he did last year, you're not seriously expecting people to be all angry and confrontational are you? (Who gets like that with people they don't know at all anyway?)
:raises hand:
ooh, pick me. i know the answer to that.
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yes.
i pea on her everytime she gets out of the shower.
so the other males of the species know that she is spoken for.
Or maybe you're Mcj's alter ego :laugh:
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What? I just made light of the fact that you'd made the exact same joke he did last year, you're not seriously expecting people to be all angry and confrontational are you? (Who gets like that with people they don't know at all anyway?)
weird...you make light and joke...but then don't get it when it is returned in kind?
maybe I'm not as funny as I think I am.
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weird...you make light and joke...but then don't get it when it is returned in kind?
maybe I'm not as funny as I think I am.
We're not familiar enough with you yet to know when you're likely to be joking. However, we do know that you're hawt, so you're on the right track.
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weird...you make light and joke...but then don't get it when it is returned in kind?
maybe I'm not as funny as I think I am.
We're not familiar enough with you yet to know when you're likely to be joking. However, we do know that you're hawt, so you're on the right track.
Hey- I've been here forever and people still don't get when I'm joking all the time.
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weird...you make light and joke...but then don't get it when it is returned in kind?
maybe I'm not as funny as I think I am.
We're not familiar enough with you yet to know when you're likely to be joking. However, we do know that you're hawt, so you're on the right track.
Hey- I've been here forever and people still don't get when I'm joking all the time.
<nods>
well...I'm always joking. unless I say "OMG I AM SO NOT JOKING" first. please don't pee on me.
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weird...you make light and joke...but then don't get it when it is returned in kind?
maybe I'm not as funny as I think I am.
We're not familiar enough with you yet to know when you're likely to be joking. However, we do know that you're hawt, so you're on the right track.
Hey- I've been here forever and people still don't get when I'm joking all the time.
<nods>
well...I'm always joking. unless I say "OMG I AM SO NOT JOKING" first. please don't pee on me.
(http://i84.photobucket.com/albums/k16/suzyqcountry/peeing.gif)
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weird...you make light and joke...but then don't get it when it is returned in kind?
maybe I'm not as funny as I think I am.
We're not familiar enough with you yet to know when you're likely to be joking. However, we do know that you're hawt, so you're on the right track.
Hey- I've been here forever and people still don't get when I'm joking all the time.
<nods>
well...I'm always joking. unless I say "OMG I AM SO NOT JOKING" first. please don't pee on me.
(http://i84.photobucket.com/albums/k16/suzyqcountry/peeing.gif)
goddamn it.
I'll get you, my pretty....
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Well, for some unfathomable reason, I don't have a mate.
But if I did, she'd be welcome to go as far as the chain reached.
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Well, for some unfathomable reason, I don't have a mate.
But if I did, she'd be welcome to go as far as the chain reached.
you don't have one, because 99.933% of all people want you to die 15 minutes after meeting you.
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you don't have one, because 99.933% of all people want you to die 15 minutes after meeting you.
Which is really odd, since I have such a sparkling personality and rougish good looks.
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you don't have one, because 99.933% of all people want you to die 15 minutes after meeting you.
Which is really odd, since I have such a sparkling personality and rougish good looks.
I have to pee.
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I have to pee.
Plus, I make women have to pee. I'm a 5-tool player, baby.
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I have to pee.
Plus, I make women have to pee. I'm a 5-tool player, baby.
you wear a latex glove instead of a condom?
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you wear a latex glove instead of a condom?
Not latex, lambskin.
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I rarely get territorial, which may have been to my detriment at times because I think sometimes guys expect girls to be a bit pushy about that stuff and when you aren't they think you aren't into them enough. I can't stand the thought of someone being territorial about me either and so it becomes one of those early in the relationship rules. Someone restricting who I can and can't see would drive me bananas and wouldn't (and hasn't) lasted very long.
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yes.
i pea on her everytime she gets out of the shower.
so the other males of the species know that she is spoken for.
Or maybe you're Mcj's alter ego :laugh:
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What? I just made light of the fact that you'd made the exact same joke he did last year, you're not seriously expecting people to be all angry and confrontational are you? (Who gets like that with people they don't know at all anyway?)
weird...you make light and joke...but then don't get it when it is returned in kind?
maybe I'm not as funny as I think I am.
You are not funny. Period. But it's not too late to change.
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yes.
i pea on her everytime she gets out of the shower.
so the other males of the species know that she is spoken for.
Or maybe you're Mcj's alter ego :laugh:
::)
What? I just made light of the fact that you'd made the exact same joke he did last year, you're not seriously expecting people to be all angry and confrontational are you? (Who gets like that with people they don't know at all anyway?)
weird...you make light and joke...but then don't get it when it is returned in kind?
maybe I'm not as funny as I think I am.
You are not funny. Period. But it's not too late to change.
wow, not even a little bit?
<goes to get The Rope>
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Did you think you were? Who was cruel enough to set you up?
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Did you think you were? Who was cruel enough to set you up?
my dirty whore of a mother.
I'm going to kill that bitch.
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I have to pee.
Plus, I make women have to pee. I'm a 5-tool player, baby.
you wear a latex glove instead of a condom?
i don't think he got the fisting reference.
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weird...you make light and joke...but then don't get it when it is returned in kind?
maybe I'm not as funny as I think I am.
We're not familiar enough with you yet to know when you're likely to be joking. However, we do know that you're hawt, so you're on the right track.
It didn't help me much.
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weird...you make light and joke...but then don't get it when it is returned in kind?
maybe I'm not as funny as I think I am.
We're not familiar enough with you yet to know when you're likely to be joking. However, we do know that you're hawt, so you're on the right track.
Hey- I've been here forever and people still don't get when I'm joking all the time.
<nods>
well...I'm always joking. unless I say "OMG I AM SO NOT JOKING" first. please don't pee on me.
Where's piss boy, when we need him?
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I have to pee.
Plus, I make women have to pee. I'm a 5-tool player, baby.
Must mean you're exciting her.
I've rather noticed that. Even
our family dog would piss on the
floor, out of arousal.
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I have to pee.
Plus, I make women have to pee. I'm a 5-tool player, baby.
Must mean you're exciting her.
I've rather noticed that. Even
our family dog would piss on the
floor, out of arousal.
it is totally true.
I piddle all over myself.
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it is totally true.
I piddle all over myself.
I guess we could try and
find someone to lick you clean.
Pity you didn't make it earlier,
would have saved some trouble,
I suspect.
Nah, I doubt it. How do you feel about
misogynists?
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it is totally true.
I piddle all over myself.
I guess we could try and
find someone to lick you clean.
Pity you didn't make it earlier,
would have saved some trouble,
I suspect.
Nah, I doubt it. How do you feel about
misogynists?
misogynists = win.
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Damn. Just a couple of weeks off.
Pity, really. He could have used
some female support.
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Damn. Just a couple of weeks off.
Pity, really. He could have used
some female support.
I am always one bus behind. :'(
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Hey, weren't you boo boo something, just a short while ago?
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It's like pea, only worse.
She should change her
avie too. Really weird us
out.
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Hey, weren't you boo boo something, just a short while ago?
yes. but I was willow first. I changed my name upon request. then I changed it back.
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Oh, I thought it was n00b.
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Same thing, according to the local linguists.
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It's like pea, only worse.
She should change her
avie too. Really weird us
out.
ack..no. I hate it when people do that.
well..I did change my avie after someone said I looked stoned....but it is still me :P
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And always a pleasure to see.
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Maybe my first girlfriend a little, the main issue was the lying and hypocrisy (she would get jealous at nothing, but was eventually shown to be the cheater herself). That was 10 years ago though. You are setting yourself up for more damage if you are too jealous/territorial or whatever you want to call it. If you didn't put a ring on her finger, then you have to watch out whether you are really in a mutually exclusive relationship or not. Most of the time it is just understood that the relationship is mutually exclusive and it is never fully expressed until someone gets jealous. Really the torture you put yourself over being territorial or jealous over a mere friendship is trivial at best (suspecting cheating depends on the person's past with you). That being said it is really difficult to avoid getting jealous/territorial when you are in love.
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And always a pleasure to see.
I..don't know what to say to that. waiting for the other shoe to drop.
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And always a pleasure to see.
I..don't know what to say to that. waiting for the other shoe to drop.
Why, you have a foot fetish?
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And always a pleasure to see.
I..don't know what to say to that. waiting for the other shoe to drop.
Why, you have a foot fetish?
ewww...feet.
nope. I just always assume there is an insult lying in wait.
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And always a pleasure to see.
I..don't know what to say to that. waiting for the other shoe to drop.
Why, you have a foot fetish?
ewww...feet.
nope. I just always assume there is an insult lying in wait.
Have to keep you off your toes.
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And always a pleasure to see.
I..don't know what to say to that. waiting for the other shoe to drop.
Why, you have a foot fetish?
ewww...feet.
nope. I just always assume there is an insult lying in wait.
Have to keep you off your toes.
why is that?
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Have to keep you off your toes.
why is that?
So you can't dodge when I land a good blow.
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Have to keep you off your toes.
why is that?
So you can't dodge when I land a good blow.
I would never dodge a good blow.
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Have to keep you off your toes.
why is that?
So you can't dodge when I land a good blow.
I would never dodge a good blow.
How about blow a good dodger?
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Have to keep you off your toes.
why is that?
So you can't dodge when I land a good blow.
I would never dodge a good blow.
How about blow a good dodger?
I love to blow a good dodger :P
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Hope you don't mind if it gets messy.
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Hope you don't mind if it gets messy.
messy is hot.
stop trying to avoid me. :P
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Hope you don't mind if it gets messy.
messy is hot.
stop trying to avoid me. :P
Not trying. Just slow.
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Maybe I missed something.
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Maybe I missed something.
maybe, now, you are talking to yourself.
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Maybe I missed something.
I am putting the moves on you.
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Maybe I missed something.
I am putting the moves on you.
And, I'm supposed to do what about it?
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Maybe I missed something.
I am putting the moves on you.
And, I'm supposed to do what about it?
in my head, you are supposed to put the moves back.
in reality, you are supposed to flee. :(
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Maybe I missed something.
I am putting the moves on you.
And, I'm supposed to do what about it?
in my head, you are supposed to put the moves back.
in reality, you are supposed to flee. :(
Probably too stupid to manage either.
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Maybe I missed something.
I am putting the moves on you.
And, I'm supposed to do what about it?
in my head, you are supposed to put the moves back.
in reality, you are supposed to flee. :(
Probably too stupid to manage either.
*sigh*
I can read rejection.
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*sigh*
I can read rejection.
Everyone seems to,
even though it's unintended. :violin:
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*sigh*
I can read rejection.
Everyone seems to,
even though it's unintended. :violin:
:kapow:
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*sigh*
I can read rejection.
Everyone seems to,
even though it's unintended. :violin:
:kapow:
I like that kind of game.
Too bad I don't have a gun.
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*sigh*
I can read rejection.
Everyone seems to,
even though it's unintended. :violin:
:kapow:
I like that kind of game.
Too bad I don't have a gun.
I can loan you mine.
watch out...it shoots wicked cold water.
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I can loan you mine.
watch out...it shoots wicked cold water.
I'll pass. Blades are more fun.
Tougher to pull off too.
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You two need to get a room.
Preferably one with the right items for your adventures.
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You two need to get a room.
Preferably one with the right items for your adventures.
you think?
I like lincoln logs.
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You two need to get a room.
Preferably one with the right items for your adventures.
Why, don't like to watch?
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You two need to get a room.
Preferably one with the right items for your adventures.
Why, don't like to watch?
Depends on what and who I am watching. I don't know you two that well haha. If you go for a chilidog I am out of here.
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You two need to get a room.
Preferably one with the right items for your adventures.
Why, don't like to watch?
mmm..I like it when people watch....
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You two need to get a room.
Preferably one with the right items for your adventures.
Why, don't like to watch?
Depends on what and who I am watching. I don't know you two that well haha. If you go for a chilidog I am out of here.
what. the. christ.
is that a metaphor for something very wrong??
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You two need to get a room.
Preferably one with the right items for your adventures.
and a video recorder.
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You two need to get a room.
Preferably one with the right items for your adventures.
Why, don't like to watch?
Depends on what and who I am watching. I don't know you two that well haha. If you go for a chilidog I am out of here.
what. the. christ.
is that a metaphor for something very wrong??
One could imagine.
Doesn't sound ALL that wrong though,
something I've experienced, if I'm guessing
correctly.
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It is when a guy shits between a chicks tits and then titty fucks her. I don't know anyone personally who has done it, just more fun things learned on forums on the wonderful invention known as the internet.
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It is when a guy shits between a chicks tits and then titty fucks her. I don't know anyone personally who has done it, just more fun things learned on forums on the wonderful invention known as the internet.
Ok. Not what I thought.
No interest, but hell, I'd try it.
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It is when a guy shits between a chicks tits and then titty fucks her. I don't know anyone personally who has done it, just more fun things learned on forums on the wonderful invention known as the internet.
not if I am involved. I have very small tits. non-tit-fuckable.
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It is when a guy shits between a chicks tits and then titty fucks her. I don't know anyone personally who has done it, just more fun things learned on forums on the wonderful invention known as the internet.
Ok. Not what I thought.
No interest, but hell, I'd try it.
not me.
as much as i enjoy talking about shit. i really don't want to incorporate shit into sex.
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not if I am involved. I have very small tits. non-tit-fuckable.
You'd be surprised.
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not if I am involved. I have very small tits. non-tit-fuckable.
You'd be surprised.
surprise me.
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not if I am involved. I have very small tits. non-tit-fuckable.
You'd be surprised.
surprise me.
Not good without being in
person. Or in dreams.
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not if I am involved. I have very small tits. non-tit-fuckable.
You'd be surprised.
surprise me.
Not good without being in
person. Or in dreams.
since we're not in person...dreams, it is.
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not if I am involved. I have very small tits. non-tit-fuckable.
You'd be surprised.
surprise me.
Not good without being in
person. Or in dreams.
since we're not in person...dreams, it is.
Have a gray quartz handy?
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not if I am involved. I have very small tits. non-tit-fuckable.
You'd be surprised.
surprise me.
Not good without being in
person. Or in dreams.
since we're not in person...dreams, it is.
Have a gray quartz handy?
rose...gray...take your pick.
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I'm limited to gray.
Sleep with it, and we'll see.
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I'm limited to gray.
Sleep with it, and we'll see.
<nods> as you say.
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I'm limited to gray.
Sleep with it, and we'll see.
<nods> as you say.
Damn. I could get used to you.
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I'm limited to gray.
Sleep with it, and we'll see.
<nods> as you say.
Damn. I could get used to you.
no, you couldn't.
I talk back far too much for your taste.
I will sleep with your rock.
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no, you couldn't.
I talk back far too much for your taste.
I will sleep with your rock.
Not sure of that.
But I'll trust you on it.
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no, you couldn't.
I talk back far too much for your taste.
I will sleep with your rock.
Not sure of that.
But I'll trust you on it.
I can be many things....mostly things that people find unpleasant. I don't lie. ever.
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no, you couldn't.
I talk back far too much for your taste.
I will sleep with your rock.
Not sure of that.
But I'll trust you on it.
I can be many things....mostly things that people find unpleasant. I don't lie. ever.
But you don't know my taste.
I don't even.
I do lie. Occasionally.
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no, you couldn't.
I talk back far too much for your taste.
I will sleep with your rock.
Not sure of that.
But I'll trust you on it.
I nevefr
I can be many things....mostly things that people find unpleasant. I don't lie. ever.
But you don't know my taste.
I don't even.
I do lie. Occasionally.
I never claimed to know your taste...only to be truthful to you.
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I never claimed to know your taste...only to be truthful to you.
You claimed you talk back too much for my taste,
that implies knowledge. But, as I said, you might
be right.
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I never claimed to know your taste...only to be truthful to you.
You claimed you talk back too much for my taste,
that implies knowledge. But, as I said, you might
be right.
you seem to not like sassy. have a chain ready. yet?
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you seem to not like sassy. have a chain ready. yet?
Choker collar. Works fine.
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I see the spammers took over this thread as well. :-\
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No worse than I've seen others (even you
oh god of the moribund) do.
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She is not, but I got ideas on how to make her do what I want. >:D
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I used to piss on mine.
Maybe that's why I'm alone now?
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i piss in the shower.
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i piss in the shower.
I think most men do that. I don't though as I usually piss before taking the shower. Doesn't really matter though, I can see why some find it disgusting.
Cal: You just need to find a girl who is into golden showers.
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Cal: You just need to find a girl who is into golden showers.
I'm not actually into that - 'twas a joke.
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I find it annoying in others but have been guilty of doing it myself sometimes. It doesn't reflect well on the state of your relationship, if you cannot trust your partner to be left around other people. It's also horribly controlling, to expect them to spend every single waking minute of their time with you and no one else.
yes.
i pea on her everytime she gets out of the shower.
so the other males of the species know that she is spoken for.
:lol:
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PA and I re-met each other after college at a Social/Therapy group. After we had been going to meetings for a few months he and I were talking. Another woman came up and began to show an interest in him. I became jealous and somehow, gradually worked my way between the two, with my back touching him and shooting daggers at her.
Later on PA said it was a hilarious moment to see two women "fighting" over him.
True Story.
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When I got married, with someone in my year, there were people in my year that were certain I was in a relationship with someone else. And they had even thought up different partners for me too. :laugh:
That's how clingy and how territorial my ex and I were. :lol:
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I'm definitely the jealous type and hate when any other women show interest in my boyfriend. I even get jealous/annoyed when female friends of his post on his facebook. I know I can trust him; it just bothers me if I feel people aren't respecting the fact that we're in a relationship or if I feel like I'm excluded from something. The thing is, my boyfriend lives in England, and I live in the US. So even though he's devoted to me, I worry that other women will try to scoop him up with his girlfriend being so far away.
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I'd feel flattered if other people were hitting on my partner.
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I already know my boyfriend is amazing; I don't need other women hitting on him to validate that. :P
I find it the opposite of flattering, because it could mean they think they're better than me and can just steal him away or something.
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Never really been the jealous type. Everyone I've ever dated has had lots of guy friends.
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I already know my boyfriend is amazing; I don't need other women hitting on him to validate that. :P
I find it the opposite of flattering, because it could mean they think they're better than me and can just steal him away or something.
Saying that he can be "stolen away" assumes that he doesn't have any will of his own; if he can be stolen away then he isn't much good as a boyfriend anyway and you're probably better off without him.
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I didn't mean it literally. :P
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I get territorial when other people threaten my partner, does that count? :P
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I get territorial when other people threaten my partner, does that count? :P
If that counts, count me in.
I've heard from two places where my ex worked, that they were afraid to call him, after having ill treating him, because I could answer the phone. And, apparently I was very scary. :hyke:
No one should try to threaten my kids either.
I could kill in the heat of protecting a partner or a child of mine.
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Territorial as to when another woman is concerned? No, I've always considered that pointless. If someone is going to be unfaithful, they will...acting like a trained rottweiler isn't going to make a bit of difference...and in some cases it makes the "prey" look tastier.
Now as to fucking around trying to hurt me and mine...that's another story. >:D
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I once kicked a girl from an online game for flirting with a gay guy I kind of liked.
I'm a little jealous. :-[
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I don't know! I have no mate! :bigcry:
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I don't know! I have no mate! :bigcry:
Me either. :(
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Not particularly but many think I am due mostly to the whole poor social skills thing
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I would of been if she wasn't so fake...
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My ex-wife was heavily pregnant with my boy. She had a hell of a pregancy. It was not at all helped by a small group of bitchy women she worked with, stressing her out. She would be in tears every night and she did what she normally did when i offered to take it up with them, not to. She knew with my temper up i was not going to be that cordial.
I was called up from work. She had fainted at work (a University Library). I got there and her friend was with her. She had regained consciousness and was being attended and was assured that she was going to be OK and that she was a bit stressed.
I was furious. I was livid. I knew where the stress was coming from. I stormed over there to the counter. They all saw me and were all smiles. "Oh Hi"
I let them fucking have it, big time.
At one point the Manager (funnily enough called Libro) came out of his little office and said something like "Oh Ross you can't..."and i cut him off with a "Get the fuck back in your office libro this doesn't concern you!" Finnier still, he about faced and went back in and hid.
I ended by saying that my ex was under more stress than she needed and if that stress caused her to lose the baby, my baby, then I was going to hold each of them responsible and that they would not have to deal with her, they would have to deal with me"
I stalked off and returned to my ex.
Things in the workplace improved dramatically and the three women became very accomodating. In fact one ended up becoming very friendly with her.
My ex had no idea of what I had said and presumed that they felt sorry for her for fainting and that they had obviously had some misunderstanding or something.
I remember she one time confessed on some occassion when she invited Margaret out that Margaret had told her that she thought i did not like her and that she was a bit frightened of me. I told her she was right and that i hated her. My ex's response? "What over how she treated me way back then? That was 12 months ago, get over it and move on".
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Oh Hell Yes.
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My ex-wife was heavily pregnant with my boy. She had a hell of a pregancy. It was not at all helped by a small group of bitchy women she worked with, stressing her out. She would be in tears every night and she did what she normally did when i offered to take it up with them, not to. She knew with my temper up i was not going to be that cordial.
I was called up from work. She had fainted at work (a University Library). I got there and her friend was with her. She had regained consciousness and was being attended and was assured that she was going to be OK and that she was a bit stressed.
I was furious. I was livid. I knew where the stress was coming from. I stormed over there to the counter. They all saw me and were all smiles. "Oh Hi"
I let them fucking have it, big time.
At one point the Manager (funnily enough called Libro) came out of his little office and said something like "Oh Ross you can't..."and i cut him off with a "Get the fuck back in your office libro this doesn't concern you!" Finnier still, he about faced and went back in and hid.
I ended by saying that my ex was under more stress than she needed and if that stress caused her to lose the baby, my baby, then I was going to hold each of them responsible and that they would not have to deal with her, they would have to deal with me"
I stalked off and returned to my ex.
Things in the workplace improved dramatically and the three women became very accomodating. In fact one ended up becoming very friendly with her.
My ex had no idea of what I had said and presumed that they felt sorry for her for fainting and that they had obviously had some misunderstanding or something.
I remember she one time confessed on some occassion when she invited Margaret out that Margaret had told her that she thought i did not like her and that she was a bit frightened of me. I told her she was right and that i hated her. My ex's response? "What over how she treated me way back then? That was 12 months ago, get over it and move on".
Ferocity in defense of a mate is kick-ass, good for you! :arrr:
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This girl I wnet to high school with was teritorial over her mates seemen.
She would get pissed off at her boyfriends for "cheating on her with girly magazines".
I asked her why and she said that her boyfriends orgasms and seemen were hers and hers alone.
:dunno:
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This girl I wnet to high school with was teritorial over her mates seemen.
She would get pissed off at her boyfriends for "cheating on her with girly magazines".
I asked her why and she said that her boyfriends orgasms and seemen were hers and hers alone.
:dunno:
Maybe she felt inadequate because her boyfriends desired other women. :blonde:
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This girl I wnet to high school with was teritorial over her mates seemen.
She would get pissed off at her boyfriends for "cheating on her with girly magazines".
I asked her why and she said that her boyfriends orgasms and seemen were hers and hers alone.
:dunno:
Maybe she felt inadequate because her boyfriends desired other women. :blonde:
Could be, who knows. :dunno:
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I never really understood that ^
I get the reason, but it seems silly. You don't just automaticallly find all other women on earch unattractive once you get a gf
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I never really understood that ^
I get the reason, but it seems silly. You don't just automaticallly find all other women on earch unattractive once you get a gf
No, but if you still spend a lot of time wanking over pictures of strangers rather than
having sex with your gf, doesn't that mean she's not enough? I always assumed so. :orly:
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I don't think many guys would choose to wank to porn all the time INSTEAD of having sex with their gf
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I don't think many guys would choose to wank to porn all the time INSTEAD of having sex with their gf
Not all the time, no, but if porn were still important or necessary to them, I would assume
they had "settled" for me because they couldn't get the type of girl they really wanted. :thumbdn:
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No it's not that. it's the onther way round, only in short amounts
a gf isn't gonna be there ALL the time, so it's settling for porn at that time.
If your gf's there and willing to have sex, yet you turn her down and spend your time looking at porn instead, then you've got a problem - porn addiction probably. Most guys wouldn't be like that tho -they'd just settle for porn when they needed to get off but couldn't have sex or whatever
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No it's not that. it's the onther way round, only in short amounts
a gf isn't gonna be there ALL the time, so it's settling for porn at that time.
If your gf's there and willing to have sex, yet you turn her down and spend your time looking at porn instead, then you've got a problem - porn addiction probably. Most guys wouldn't be like that tho -they'd just settle for porn when they needed to get off but couldn't have sex or whatever
That's good to know. Anyway, all those pr0n girls REALLY want to
look like ME! :cbc:
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It's actually very easy. Sex is always better than no sex.
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It's actually very easy. Sex is always better than no sex.
even if it's gay and you're getting it up the arse?
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It's actually very easy. Sex is always better than no sex.
even if it's gay and you're getting it up the arse?
Hey, that was uncalled for! >:(
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It's actually very easy. Sex is always better than no sex.
even if it's gay and you're getting it up the arse?
Hey, that was uncalled for! >:(
You walked right into that one!!! :zoinks:
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It's actually very easy. Sex is always better than no sex.
even if it's gay and you're getting it up the arse?
Hey, that was uncalled for! >:(
You backed right into that one!!! :zoinks:
Fixed. :zoinks:
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It's actually very easy. Sex is always better than no sex.
even if it's gay and you're getting it up the arse?
Hey, that was uncalled for! >:(
You backed right into that one!!! :zoinks:
Fixed. :zoinks:
Turning a blind eye?
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It's actually very easy. Sex is always better than no sex.
even if it's gay and you're getting it up the arse?
Hey, that was uncalled for! >:(
You walked right into that one!!! :zoinks:
Yes. Plussed Adam already so I'll have to owe him one.
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I'm not sure i want you to "owe me one," odeon :oneliner:
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*groans*
I think I'm going to bed.
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Please don't ask me to join you :moon:
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:LMAO:
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OMW, an Intensity orgy.
CBC looks like a porn-star-in-training
Adam and Odeon are having hot and dirty sex
Someone was blinded by squirting semen
Squiddy is orgasming with laughter.
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OMW, an Intensity orgy.
CBC looks like a porn-star-in-training
Adam and Odeon are having hot and dirty sex
Someone was blinded by squirting semen
Squiddy is orgasming with laughter.
Is Her Majesty amused? :emb:
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to the OP. Nope
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It seems the OP is asking about jealousy and trust issues, not about being territorial. Not the really jealous type; have no need to be, but certainly territorial. I own him and I have the legal documentation to prove it; he feels the same. We'll jointly destroy anyone who attempts to interfere with that.
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Instinctively, yes. It can't be helped.
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Absolutely not. Dont really care if she would rather be with someone else, although Id prefer it if she told me first :laugh:
Might feel different if I was really serious about her though.
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No. If my wife wants to be with someone else I'd like to watch
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I regularly mark my mate with piss.
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I regularly mark my mate with piss.
Is that you Eris?
:laugh: :laugh: :laugh:
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I regularly mark my mate with piss.
Is that you Eris?
:laugh: :laugh: :laugh:
It's Buttcoffee. :zoinks: