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Start here => What's your crime? Basic Discussion => Topic started by: DukeNukem on October 01, 2010, 09:23:36 PM
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A brothel where only aspie girls are allowed to work at! That's right, a place where you can see sexy autistic females show off their stuff and let you have at it for a fee! The place would be called "Rain Girls", it would operate in Arizona, where prostitution is legal, the world's FIRST autism brothel! Wouldn't that be great? An easy opportunity for you aspie girls to easily get a job at doing what everyone loves... SEX... for money! :green: And aspie guys, like me, from all over, would finally have the chance to get laid with a hot, young, sexy, aspie chick who they could really relate to! And maybe a special section for aspie MILFs for guys of any age above the legal age! And the place would have plenty of booze, trains, games, etc. for your obsessions while you wait for that special hour where you will finally LOSE your cursed virginity! :zoinks:
Also, it would give Kit a place to work in case her janitorial career doesn't work out. Just saying. ::)
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i got laid... 4 times. 3 of those w a sexy hot chick.
one time w a young single mother.
(the not so hot one was a chubby american. i was drunk. but hey, its a funny life experience to carry on.)
whats the matter w you guys?
your simply not being lucky enough
you suck >:I
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A brothel where only aspie girls are allowed to work at! That's right, a place where you can see sexy autistic females show off their stuff and let you have at it for a fee! The place would be called "Rain Girls", it would operate in Arizona, where prostitution is legal, the world's FIRST autism brothel! Wouldn't that be great? An easy opportunity for you aspie girls to easily get a job at doing what everyone loves... SEX... for money! :green: And aspie guys, like me, from all over, would finally have the chance to get laid with a hot, young, sexy, aspie chick who they could really relate to! And maybe a special section for aspie MILFs for guys of any age above the legal age! And the place would have plenty of booze, trains, games, etc. for your obsessions while you wait for that special hour where you will finally LOSE your cursed virginity! :zoinks:
Also, it would give Kit a place to work in case her janitorial career doesn't work out. Just saying. ::)
Why do you want to lose your virginity to an aspie prostitute? If you're going to pay somebody for sex then it's not likely you're going to form a bond with that person, aspie or non-aspie.
If youwant to lose your virginity, why don't you just take yourself into the city and pay for a normal prostitute?
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A brothel where only aspie girls are allowed to work at! That's right, a place where you can see sexy autistic females show off their stuff and let you have at it for a fee! The place would be called "Rain Girls", it would operate in Arizona, where prostitution is legal, the world's FIRST autism brothel! Wouldn't that be great? An easy opportunity for you aspie girls to easily get a job at doing what everyone loves... SEX... for money! :green: And aspie guys, like me, from all over, would finally have the chance to get laid with a hot, young, sexy, aspie chick who they could really relate to! And maybe a special section for aspie MILFs for guys of any age above the legal age! And the place would have plenty of booze, trains, games, etc. for your obsessions while you wait for that special hour where you will finally LOSE your cursed virginity! :zoinks:
Also, it would give Kit a place to work in case her janitorial career doesn't work out. Just saying. ::)
Why do you want to lose your virginity to an aspie prostitute? If you're going to pay somebody for sex then it's not likely you're going to form a bond with that person, aspie or non-aspie.
If youwant to lose your virginity, why don't you just take yourself into the city and pay for a normal prostitute?
I don't take normies. I want someone who knows about the mental bullshit disorder that is autism that I am going through. And you have to be an autistic to know how it's like.
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A brothel where only aspie girls are allowed to work at! That's right, a place where you can see sexy autistic females show off their stuff and let you have at it for a fee! The place would be called "Rain Girls", it would operate in Arizona, where prostitution is legal, the world's FIRST autism brothel! Wouldn't that be great? An easy opportunity for you aspie girls to easily get a job at doing what everyone loves... SEX... for money! :green: And aspie guys, like me, from all over, would finally have the chance to get laid with a hot, young, sexy, aspie chick who they could really relate to! And maybe a special section for aspie MILFs for guys of any age above the legal age! And the place would have plenty of booze, trains, games, etc. for your obsessions while you wait for that special hour where you will finally LOSE your cursed virginity! :zoinks:
Also, it would give Kit a place to work in case her janitorial career doesn't work out. Just saying. ::)
Why do you want to lose your virginity to an aspie prostitute? If you're going to pay somebody for sex then it's not likely you're going to form a bond with that person, aspie or non-aspie.
If youwant to lose your virginity, why don't you just take yourself into the city and pay for a normal prostitute?
I don't take normies. I want someone who knows about the mental bullshit disorder that is autism that I am going through. And you have to be an autistic to know how it's like.
A prostitute is there to screw you. Not to understand you.
Do you not think you're lowering your chances by only being into aspies? Would you really not sleep with a nice NT girl who liked you?
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A brothel where only aspie girls are allowed to work at! That's right, a place where you can see sexy autistic females show off their stuff and let you have at it for a fee! The place would be called "Rain Girls", it would operate in Arizona, where prostitution is legal, the world's FIRST autism brothel! Wouldn't that be great? An easy opportunity for you aspie girls to easily get a job at doing what everyone loves... SEX... for money! :green: And aspie guys, like me, from all over, would finally have the chance to get laid with a hot, young, sexy, aspie chick who they could really relate to! And maybe a special section for aspie MILFs for guys of any age above the legal age! And the place would have plenty of booze, trains, games, etc. for your obsessions while you wait for that special hour where you will finally LOSE your cursed virginity! :zoinks:
Also, it would give Kit a place to work in case her janitorial career doesn't work out. Just saying. ::)
Why do you want to lose your virginity to an aspie prostitute? If you're going to pay somebody for sex then it's not likely you're going to form a bond with that person, aspie or non-aspie.
If youwant to lose your virginity, why don't you just take yourself into the city and pay for a normal prostitute?
I don't take normies. I want someone who knows about the mental bullshit disorder that is autism that I am going through. And you have to be an autistic to know how it's like.
A prostitute is there to screw you. Not to understand you.
Do you not think you're lowering your chances by only being into aspies? Would you really not sleep with a nice NT girl who liked you?
Well, what's the chances that a nice NT girl will like me in the first place? Second to none. I have seen a lot of male aspies whine and moan about being unable to get any pussy.
And getting to know a prostitute could get you a special discount. :zoinks:
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And getting to know a prostitute could get you a special discount. :zoinks:
In your case I think it would mean paying a premium ::)
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And getting to know a prostitute could get you a special discount. :zoinks:
In your case I think it would mean paying a premium ::)
And where did YOU come up with such a crazy idea? I'm a kind and gentle person. Nicer than you will ever see me on the Internetz, sweetheart. :zoinks:
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Judy don't worry your mother/aunty and your dad/uncle got together. There is hope for you yet. Even in the nowheresville you live now.
I agree no normal girl would take you on though. So we are kinda on the same page which is a tad scary.
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I'm sorry duke, but are you serious?
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And Butterflies, a point I forgot to make. How would YOU know about my sex appeal? Last time I checked, you were GAY! Why would you care in the first place? :orly:
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And Butterflies, a point I forgot to make. How would YOU know about my sex appeal? Last time I checked, you were GAY! Why would you care in the first place? :orly:
*smacks duke in the back of the head*
You're doing it again. Settle down, be cool.
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And Butterflies, a point I forgot to make. How would YOU know about my sex appeal? Last time I checked, you were GAY! Why would you care in the first place? :orly:
*smacks duke in the back of the head*
You're doing it again. Settle down, be cool.
Doing what again?
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And Butterflies, a point I forgot to make. How would YOU know about my sex appeal? Last time I checked, you were GAY! Why would you care in the first place? :orly:
*smacks duke in the back of the head*
You're doing it again. Settle down, be cool.
Doing what again?
Thats something you need to learn for yourself, but heres a hint. Its why you get kicked around.
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Well, what's the chances that a nice NT girl will like me in the first place? Second to none. I have seen a lot of male aspies whine and moan about being unable to get any pussy.
I don't kow the proper figures, but I think male aspies outnumber female aspies by something like 3 or 4 to 1. I don't like the look of those odds either.
And where did YOU come up with such a crazy idea? I'm a kind and gentle person. Nicer than you will ever see me on the Internetz, sweetheart. :zoinks:
I realize you're probably not as much of a dick as you appear on the internetz. Why the fuck do you think I'm trying to be nice to you?
BTW, it might be a good idea not to call me sweetheart. It's a bit patronizing, especially coming from you :orly:
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And Butterflies, a point I forgot to make. How would YOU know about my sex appeal? Last time I checked, you were GAY! Why would you care in the first place? :orly:
Most of the guys on this site are straight and they know all about your lack of sex appeal.
I am finding you quite annoying today and I'm having to try hard not to be insulting towards you. I've actually been saying some nice stuff about you, but I'm begining to think that I got it wrong. >:(
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I have taken him under my wing.
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Okay, I wasn't being serious about this. It was just some stupid idea I came up with, but really, I am against prostitution of any kind. I don't even mind my virginity that much. But I still thought it was funny, especially calling the place "Rain Girls". Hehehehehe... :evillaugh:
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Quit lying. You wanna seem edgy and raw, right?
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Quit lying. You wanna seem edgy and raw, right?
I guess. I just post whatever makes me laugh a lot of the time.
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Want to know a secret?
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Want to know a secret?
What's the secret? :orly:
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Want to know a secret?
What's the secret? :orly:
Having a laugh is nice, but if you're the only one laughing, you look like a jackass.
Have a bit of consideration for others when posting, duke. Despite the LOLFREESPEACH of the forum, its just like anywhere else in the entire world. It has people in it, and you share it with them.
Understand now?
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Okay, I wasn't being serious about this. It was just some stupid idea I came up with, but really, I am against prostitution of any kind. I don't even mind my virginity that much. But I still thought it was funny, especially calling the place "Rain Girls". Hehehehehe... :evillaugh:
I don't have a problem with the brothel idea. I wouldn't call me sweetheart, or tell me that I can't have opinions on guys because I'm gay though. I do think some guys are very good looking. I just don't want to screw them.
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A brothel where only aspie guys are allowed to work at! That's right, a place where you can see sexy autistic males show off their stuff and let you have at it for a fee! The place would be called "Rain Men", it would operate in Arizona, where prostitution is legal, the world's FIRST autism brothel! Wouldn't that be great? An easy opportunity for you aspie guys to easily get a job at doing what everyone loves... SEX... for money! :green: And aspie gals, like me, from all over, would finally have the chance to get laid with a hot, young, sexy, aspie dude who they could really relate to! And maybe a special section for aspie boy toys for gals of any age above the legal age! And the place would have plenty of booze, trains, games, etc. for your obsessions while you wait for that special hour where you will finally LOSE your cursed virginity! :zoinks:
Not one to alter another's posts, but pretty funny now that I think about it. Good one.
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I do think some guys are very good looking. I just don't want to screw them.
Same.
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Ooookay. Progress has been made. Now happy up!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LH5ay10RTGY
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Okay, I wasn't being serious about this. It was just some stupid idea I came up with, but really, I am against prostitution of any kind. I don't even mind my virginity that much. But I still thought it was funny, especially calling the place "Rain Girls". Hehehehehe... :evillaugh:
I don't have a problem with the brothel idea. I wouldn't call me sweetheart, or tell me that I can't have opinions on guys because I'm gay though. I do think some guys are very good looking. I just don't want to screw them.
I apologize if I offended you. I need to go to bed now.
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Okay, I wasn't being serious about this. It was just some stupid idea I came up with, but really, I am against prostitution of any kind. I don't even mind my virginity that much. But I still thought it was funny, especially calling the place "Rain Girls". Hehehehehe... :evillaugh:
I don't have a problem with the brothel idea. I wouldn't call me sweetheart, or tell me that I can't have opinions on guys because I'm gay though. I do think some guys are very good looking. I just don't want to screw them.
I apologize if I offended you. I need to go to bed now.
You didn't offend me. You only annoyed me slightly. Don't worry about it, no big deal at all. You know I love you really :2thumbsup:
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Okay, I wasn't being serious about this. It was just some stupid idea I came up with, but really, I am against prostitution of any kind. I don't even mind my virginity that much. But I still thought it was funny, especially calling the place "Rain Girls". Hehehehehe... :evillaugh:
I don't have a problem with the brothel idea. I wouldn't call me sweetheart, or tell me that I can't have opinions on guys because I'm gay though. I do think some guys are very good looking. I just don't want to screw them.
I hear you. I don't want to screw guys either. I call that just having good taste. :P
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i can tell you that prostitution is not legal in arizona. its only legal in nevada and in towns with populations less than 499,000. this basically leaves out reno and las vegas and most of the suburbs
its why whore houses are out in the middle of nowhere there
the government can really rake in the money if they would just legalize this, and ALL drugs. i recently had a change of mind about legalizing all drugs, i was totally against it because my real dad was a drug addict and i saw what devistation it caused but now i just dont give a fuck
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Okay, I wasn't being serious about this. It was just some stupid idea I came up with, but really, I am against prostitution of any kind. I don't even mind my virginity that much. But I still thought it was funny, especially calling the place "Rain Girls". Hehehehehe... :evillaugh:
I don't have a problem with the brothel idea. I wouldn't call me sweetheart, or tell me that I can't have opinions on guys because I'm gay though. I do think some guys are very good looking. I just don't want to screw them.
I hear you. I don't want to screw guys either. I call that just having good taste. :P
Exactly. Those dangly bits they have are just SO unappealing.
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you dont HAVE to look at them >:I
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you dont HAVE to look at them >:I
I kinda do. I find them interesting in a car crash sort of way :laugh:
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\Butterflies is gay?
I think this is a bad idea. aspies are usually ugly as hell
I like fucked up women like marla singer 8)
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wow i didnt notice this thread was 3 pages long. cant be arsed reading it all
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awwwwwwww
when i was little i'd always stare at the ugliest chicks, which also made me feel kinda bad.
now im more indiscriminate, and stare equally at everyone :)
spastic; i find that aspies look like most people, the majority looks average, a minority look braindamaged, and another minority are smokin hot.
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\Butterflies is gay?
i didnt know she was gay either, i thought she was all straight.
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\Butterflies is gay?
I think this is a bad idea. aspies are usually ugly as hell
I like fucked up women like marla singer 8)
i didnt know she was gay either, i thought she was all straight.
Are you two being sarcastic or did you really not know :LOL:?
Yup. I am gay.
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I really didn't know lol
I thought you were mostly straight but a bit bi, dunno why :laugh:
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i didnt know. but i have a cognative disorder (bad memory) and when im stressed out i tend to forget things and dont make any sence than usual in my posts
well thats cool. im bisexual incase everyone here forgot or doesnt know
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I really didn't know lol
I thought you were mostly straight but a bit bi, dunno why :laugh:
i didnt know. but i have a cognative disorder (bad memory) and when im stressed out i tend to forget things and dont make any sence than usual in my posts
well thats cool. im bisexual incase everyone here forgot or doesnt know
I've spent most of my life fancying girls but telling myself I was straight and dating guys. I've had the biggest cruch on my best friend for just about my whole life, but somehow it never occurred to me that I wasn't straight. It was pretty dumb of me :laugh:. I've only recently admitted to myself that I was gay and so far I've only told 3 people in real life. My best friend lives with me and she doesn't even know. She's still hassling me to try and meet guys :-[
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I really didn't know lol
I thought you were mostly straight but a bit bi, dunno why :laugh:
i didnt know. but i have a cognative disorder (bad memory) and when im stressed out i tend to forget things and dont make any sence than usual in my posts
well thats cool. im bisexual incase everyone here forgot or doesnt know
I've spent most of my life fancying girls but telling myself I was straight and dating guys. I've had the biggest cruch on my best friend for just about my whole life, but somehow it never occurred to me that I wasn't straight. It was pretty dumb of me :laugh:. I've only recently admitted to myself that I was gay and so far I've only told 3 people in real life. My best friend lives with me and she doesn't even know. She's still hassling me to try and meet guys :-[
like any aspie, i guess ;D
you definitely need a scenario change. do studies or something somewhere else, and just jump right into it. introduce yourself directly as gay, and avoid the whole secrecy and build-up.
at least youll have that experience. if theyre so backwards where you live, maybe you should just let them stay like that. then again, they could surprise you and be more open to it idunno.
but i think you need a scenario change, just for the experience of gaying it all out
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I've spent most of my life fancying girls but telling myself I was straight and dating guys. I've had the biggest cruch on my best friend for just about my whole life, but somehow it never occurred to me that I wasn't straight. It was pretty dumb of me . I've only recently admitted to myself that I was gay and so far I've only told 3 people in real life. My best friend lives with me and she doesn't even know. She's still hassling me to try and meet guys
*firm shoulder squeeze, approving nod*
Get her drunk.
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butterflies its been my expericance that not being truthfull will only end up in disaster. if this is the same girl you have a crush on why not just tell her whats really going on with you? i understand being closeted though as i had been for most of my life. sociaty are cruel and unusual but so is life
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butterflies its been my expericance that not being truthfull will only end in disaster in the end. if this is the same girl you have a crush on why not just tell her whats really going on with you? i understand being closeted though as i had been for most of my life. sociaty are cruel and unusual but so is life
I could never tell her how I feel about her. She's been my best friend since I started primary school. I couldn't bear to lose her as a friend, and I don't think she could handle the idea of me having feelings for her. I know she's completely straight anyway, so I know there's no way me and her will ever be an item, but I would possibly lose my best friend.
Throughout most of my life I've always had a good social life, and that's totally down to her. Just about every friend I've had, I met through her. If I fall out with her I would end up becoming a total recluse and never going out or having any social life.
Also, with her assuming me to be straight, she has no problems wandering around on front of me with no clothes on, or having a bath while I sit and talk to her. I get a good chance to perv on her. I wouldn't want to throw that away ;D
like any aspie, i guess ;D
you definitely need a scenario change. do studies or something somewhere else, and just jump right into it. introduce yourself directly as gay, and avoid the whole secrecy and build-up.
at least youll have that experience. if theyre so backwards where you live, maybe you should just let them stay like that. then again, they could surprise you and be more open to it idunno.
but i think you need a scenario change, just for the experience of gaying it all out
I do agree with that. It's just that this is a small, repressed country, and word travels fast. If I went to college and was openly gay most people might accept me, but word would still get back to my home town.
I know this sounds stupid but although I don't fancy guys, I always wanted to live a normal life. Find somebody I love, have a child or two and be a mum. I've always liked children and I always saw myself having 1 or 2 kids.
I think one of the reasons I don't want to be openly gay is that I still think that might happen. I know I'll never meet a man that I'm very attracted to, but I might meet a guy that I love as a friend, and end up settling down with him. If I'm openly gay, then I'll never be able to hide it, but if I stay in the closet and I meet a guy, then I can always just pretend this whole lesbian thing never happened andd go back to pretending to be straight again.
I'm attracted to women, but being out and proud might be too hard for me to manage.
OK I'm not sure how much of that'll have made sense. I've tried to explain things, but it's hard when I don't have any of the answers myself :laugh:
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That could work, but you'd still have to tell the guy the truth, and sex him up once in a while. Let him bring women over for you to share.
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Also, with her assuming me to be straight, she has no problems wandering around on front of me with no clothes on, or having a bath while I sit and talk to her. I get a good chance to perv on her. I wouldn't want to throw that away ;D
oh shit i get that. if i had a roomate/friend i wouldnt mind seeing him walking around in his boxers or something, unfortunetley guys dont sit on the edge of the bathtub and socialize :facepalm2:
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That could work, but you'd still have to tell the guy the truth, and sex him up once in a while. Let him bring women over for you to share.
That sounds fun ;D
I know I'd have to sex him up once in a while. Babies might be a bit difficult if I didn't :laugh:. I'd just have to lie back and think of Scotland :). If I ever did go out with a guy there's no way I'd tell him the truth about being gay. I'd just have to practice pretending to have a sore head every night.
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Also, with her assuming me to be straight, she has no problems wandering around on front of me with no clothes on, or having a bath while I sit and talk to her. I get a good chance to perv on her. I wouldn't want to throw that away ;D
oh shit i get that. if i had a roomate/friend i wouldnt mind seeing him walking around in his boxers or something, unfortunetley guys dont sit on the edge of the bathtub and socialize :facepalm2:
:2thumbsup: exactly. Watching her getting in aand out of the bath beats internet porn anyday for me. :LOL:
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you dont know how much i envy your sneaky ass :laugh:
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you dont know how much i envy your sneaky ass :laugh:
My cousin lives with us aswell and he fancies her like mad too. He says the exact same thing to me ;)
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I do agree with that. It's just that this is a small, repressed country, and word travels fast. If I went to college and was openly gay most people might accept me, but word would still get back to my home town.
I know this sounds stupid but although I don't fancy guys, I always wanted to live a normal life. Find somebody I love, have a child or two and be a mum. I've always liked children and I always saw myself having 1 or 2 kids.
I think one of the reasons I don't want to be openly gay is that I still think that might happen. I know I'll never meet a man that I'm very attracted to, but I might meet a guy that I love as a friend, and end up settling down with him. If I'm openly gay, then I'll never be able to hide it, but if I stay in the closet and I meet a guy, then I can always just pretend this whole lesbian thing never happened andd go back to pretending to be straight again.
I'm attracted to women, but being out and proud might be too hard for me to manage.
OK I'm not sure how much of that'll have made sense. I've tried to explain things, but it's hard when I don't have any of the answers myself :laugh:
try a whole other country. go to london! :D
as for openly gay, why get cought up in terms? if you dont like the... no-teturn-ness of it, try being openly bi?
theyre just words anyway, and by being bi you still got all your options left, no? :D
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Butterflies, I never considered that I was bi, until I was......well.....bi ???
I think I was a bit younger than you when I realised, although I didn't fall in love with a girl until I was in my early to mid 20's and it was a freaking disaster. Very unhealthy relationship. She was also my best friend first before anything happened, so I understand your hesitation, ESP if she is straight. Some women can be very uncomfortable with it. Although I have had straight friends do weird stuff after getting a bit of alcohol in to them, and then wonder why I say, "Hon you are a dear friend, but quite frankly my dear, you are just not my type". You would be amazed how many women get real shitty when you say that. ???
It matters little what gender, as long as you love and are loved in return. Maybe you desire your friend, because you cannot have her? Sorry just a bit of psychology thrown in ;) If you are gay and cannot declare it openly, it fulfils the need to "want" from afar, with little repercussions, other than what you are doing to yourself emotionally.
Take care of your precious self. One day, you will be able to find the courage, live a full and loving life, and be joyful. Timing is everything.
Loup
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try a whole other country. go to london! :D
as for openly gay, why get cought up in terms? if you dont like the... no-teturn-ness of it, try being openly bi?
theyre just words anyway, and by being bi you still got all your options left, no? :D
I don't think I would like to live far away from my family. I like everything about having them near me. I like living with my cousin because I get lonely very easily.
My aunt makes me nice food, and my aunt and uncle bring me out for nice meals and if I have any problems they do their best to sort them for me. I love London for a holiday and it would be a great place to live, but I'd hate to do it by myself. I lived alone for a while when I was 16 and hated it.
Sadly I don't think people who are bi are treated any better than those who are gay here. I don't mind living here but a lot of the attitudes in this town are very outdated.
It matters little what gender, as long as you love and are loved in return. Maybe you desire your friend, because you cannot have her? Sorry just a bit of psychology thrown in ;) If you are gay and cannot declare it openly, it fulfils the need to "want" from afar, with little repercussions, other than what you are doing to yourself emotionally.
Take care of your precious self. One day, you will be able to find the courage, live a full and loving life, and be joyful. Timing is everything.
Loup
There is a lot of truth in that. Sex scares me shitless. Any physical contact scares me. Being gay gives me a really good excuse not to have to sleep with guys. If I was in a position where sleeping with a girl was a realistic possibility then I'm sure I would find a good excuse to avoid it.
In a way it bothers me less than you might think at the moment. My sexuality is really a moot point as I have no real desire to have sex with anybody other than myself at the moment. In real life I'm probably even less mature than I appear over the internet. I am quite mature in a few ways, but socially and relationshipwise I'm probably more on the level of an average 14 year old. I have crushes on people, but I don't feel like I would really want to take them any further.
I've had boyfriends in the past and I've always hated being in the relationship. Not just because I wasn't attracted to them, but I just hated the whole relationship thing and the feeling of having to work hard at maintaining the relationship. I've always been happier with no relationship than when I was in one.
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I don't think I would like to live far away from my family. I like everything about having them near me. I like living with my cousin because I get lonely very easily.
My aunt makes me nice food, and my aunt and uncle bring me out for nice meals and if I have any problems they do their best to sort them for me. I love London for a holiday and it would be a great place to live, but I'd hate to do it by myself. I lived alone for a while when I was 16 and hated it.
Sadly I don't think people who are bi are treated any better than those who are gay here. I don't mind living here but a lot of the attitudes in this town are very outdated.
i meant it more for your own little existensial dilemma. to consider yourself bi "opens up" for both being gay, and possibly having the family you want. if thats your mindset?
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i meant it more for your own little existensial dilemma. to consider yourself bi "opens up" for both being gay, and possibly having the family you want. if thats your mindset?
There is a lot of sense in that. Deep down though, I know that I am gay and any straight relationship would simply be an attempt to live a normal life, avoid stigma, and have children.
Given the fact that I'm obviously rather confused about this whole issue. I think the best option for me is to stay in the closet, at least until I have a clear idea of who I am and exactly what I really want.
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i meant it more for your own little existensial dilemma. to consider yourself bi "opens up" for both being gay, and possibly having the family you want. if thats your mindset?
There is a lot of sense in that. Deep down though, I know that I am gay and any straight relationship would simply be an attempt to live a normal life, avoid stigma, and have children.
Given the fact that I'm obviously rather confused about this whole issue. I think the best option for me is to stay in the closet, at least until I have a clear idea of who I am and exactly what I really want.
yes.
often when i see people going through very abrupt changes (such as sex changes etc) i cant help but wonder if maybe they are having other issues, or didnt really identify their personal issues
like, when i was younger the thought sometimes struck me, maybe im not getting gf's cus im gay, i went through many possibilities, maybe i am clinically insane, and insanity oozes from me - if so i should be heavily medicated
in the end, it turned out im simply aspie, and suck at the whole gf business as a default
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in the end, it turned out im simply aspie, and suck at the whole gf business as a default
I've never known if it was because I was aspie, but I'm the worst girlfriend ever. Most of the time I would just try to avoid spending time alone with them, and appearing really distant. And then I wouldn't give them any sexy time :laugh:. I know one guy really liked me and he ended up quite upset when it was impossible to make the relationship work. I still feel a bit bad about that guy.
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in the end, it turned out im simply aspie, and suck at the whole gf business as a default
I've never known if it was because I was aspie, but I'm the worst girlfriend ever. Most of the time I would just try to avoid spending time alone with them, and appearing really distant. And then I wouldn't give them any sexy time :laugh:. I know one guy really liked me and he ended up quite upset when it was impossible to make the relationship work. I still feel a bit bad about that guy.
aw yes. i had similar stuff, where this one chick got too... personally intimate, like she begun talking about - - - the future.
and i handled it not so good, and basically stopped existing for a while. she obviously got extremely worried,
i did confront the issue eventually, but i still feel bad about how shittily i handled something that woulda been fixed w a quick breakup, rather than pretending to no longer exist :D
then again, that IS how ive often solved my problems, to pretend i no longer exist :D
"what fines? how can i pay them, if i dont exist?"
obviously, it solves nothing :D
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Sex feels good. Whats the problem?
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Sex feels good. Whats the problem?
Dunno. I've got hangups about lots of things. Sex appears to be one of those thiings. I hate having people enter into my personal space.
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Sex feels good. Whats the problem?
Dunno. I've got hangups about lots of things. Sex appears to be one of those thiings. I hate having people enter into my personal space.
Well, at least you aren't a sex maniac. I can't even get into the parking lot of the baseball stadium, let alone hit first base. :orly:
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Sex feels good. Whats the problem?
Dunno. I've got hangups about lots of things. Sex appears to be one of those thiings. I hate having people enter into my personal space.
Well, at least you aren't a sex maniac. I can't even get into the parking lot of the baseball stadium, let alone hit first base. :orly:
Sorry, I know that must be a bit frustrating. Hopefully things will change in the future for you :thumbup:
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Sex feels good. Whats the problem?
Dunno. I've got hangups about lots of things. Sex appears to be one of those thiings. I hate having people enter into my personal space.
Well, at least you aren't a sex maniac. I can't even get into the parking lot of the baseball stadium, let alone hit first base. :orly:
Sorry, I know that must be a bit frustrating. Hopefully things will change in the future for you :thumbup:
It's not really sex that I want. I want a friend to interact with.
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mud, you should get laid at least once.
you'd relax a bit about it.
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Sex feels good. Whats the problem?
Dunno. I've got hangups about lots of things. Sex appears to be one of those thiings. I hate having people enter into my personal space.
Well, at least you aren't a sex maniac. I can't even get into the parking lot of the baseball stadium, let alone hit first base. :orly:
Sorry, I know that must be a bit frustrating. Hopefully things will change in the future for you :thumbup:
It's not really sex that I want. I want a friend to interact with.
That probably makes it slightly easier. Why not enroll at the local college, or get a job, or even try doing voluntary work. Just be as nice as you can to everybody you meet, and hopefully at least one of them will like you.
Don't try and make friends with the most popular or best looking folk. Sometimes it's a better idea to try and make friends with people who seem quiet or withdrawn and that appear to be as lonely as you are.
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im not sure, he should sort sex from friendship,
if his head is like mine was, then sex and closeness and friendship and love etc is all muddled together.
in my experience, if he is offered a female friend, closeness, friendship and love - sex will automatically become an obsession (check WP... )
sort sex out. its mostly squishy meaty stuff anyway.
btw they should show more awkward-sex in movies...
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Sex feels good. Whats the problem?
Dunno. I've got hangups about lots of things. Sex appears to be one of those thiings. I hate having people enter into my personal space.
Well, at least you aren't a sex maniac. I can't even get into the parking lot of the baseball stadium, let alone hit first base. :orly:
Sorry, I know that must be a bit frustrating. Hopefully things will change in the future for you :thumbup:
It's not really sex that I want. I want a friend to interact with.
That probably makes it slightly easier. Why not enroll at the local college, or get a job, or even try doing voluntary work. Just be as nice as you can to everybody you meet, and hopefully at least one of them will like you.
Don't try and make friends with the most popular or best looking folk. Sometimes it's a better idea to try and make friends with people who seem quiet or withdrawn and that appear to be as lonely as you are.
I'm such a recluse, I probably would ignore anyone who says hi to me unless I knew them. My accident from about a year ago made me fearful and paranoid about getting out, when I lost contact with the only friend I ever really had around the same period of time, I have never felt the same. Sure, I have played pool with some people and I have played chess with someone once and talked to a few people at college in the past before the chain of unfortunate events happened to me. Not that I was too happy of a person before, but I hope you get the point.
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I'm such a recluse, I probably would ignore anyone who says hi to me unless I knew them. My accident from about a year ago made me fearful and paranoid about getting out, when I lost contact with the only friend I ever really had around the same period of time, I have never felt the same. Sure, I have played pool with some people and I have played chess with someone once and talked to a few people at college in the past before the chain of unfortunate events happened to me. Not that I was too happy of a person before, but I hope you get the point.
I think you really need to make the effort to get out and about and try to meet new people. The longer you leave it the harder it will get.
I know what you mean about ignoring people because you're too scared to speak to them. I do the same thing myself. I couldn't imagine going out and making new friends by myself. I've had my best friend since I was 4 and she's really introduced me to all the other friends I've ever had. If it hadn't been for her I'd probably have ended up in a similar situation to you.
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Back to the original post the good idea would be sending me massive amounts of money :zoinks: