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Start here => What's your crime? Basic Discussion => Topic started by: Queen Victoria on September 28, 2010, 03:53:45 PM
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I'm sorry. I apologize for my criticism of your post. My post was done in anger and should not have been posted. I will try to keep the hurt I caused you as a lesson in my mind when I comment on posts in the future. Again, I'm sorry.
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you dont have to apologize to me. and im still not taking you off my ignore list
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Why the fuck are you apologising to that retard?
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hahaha. obviously its because she cant live without my amazing posts
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hahaha. obviously its because she cant live without my amazing posts
It's because she cares about other people's feelings.
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well im a heartless bastard. take me to court, if you dont like me
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You're a whiny moron that likes to drink his own spunk.
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:G
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Why the fuck are you apologising to that retard?
I did it because I felt it was the right and fair thing to do. I may or may not like a person or everything he or she does, but I do have to treat them with some kindness and respect. It's not always easy to humble myself, but it's what I do to live with myself.
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certainly, that post is why your still stuck in the 1400's. monarchys suck, its all about themselves :orly:
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I think it took a lot of guts for Weakling to apologize to you like this, Richard.
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well thats fine callaway. i probably would have accepted her apology if she pmed me about it, but im shure her friends will shower her with karma and take away mine for the very noble thing she did. frankly, i dont want to deal with her because i think shes mentally unstable. she thinks shes a queen for fucks sakes
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well thats fine callaway. i probably would have accepted her apology if she pmed me about it, but im shure her friends will shower her with karma and take away mine for the very noble thing she did. frankly, i dont want to deal with her because i think shes mentally unstable. she thinks shes a queen for fucks sakes
Weakling doesn't really think she's a queen, any more than I really think I'm a Weeble, for fuck's sake. ::)
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well thats fine callaway. i probably would have accepted her apology if she pmed me about it, but im shure her friends will shower her with karma and take away mine for the very noble thing she did. frankly, i dont want to deal with her because i think shes mentally unstable. she thinks shes a queen for fucks sakes
richard I assumed that if I was in ignored status that any pm I sent you would automatically be rejected by the computer system. I had considered asking one of the other members here to forward my private apology to you, but I didn't want to put someone else in an awkward position. I really am not looking for karma points in this, just harmony in my life and a way of taking away some of the hurt I caused you.
I won't belabor or drag out this thread. I hope we can be civil with each other, which is my goal now.
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i think we should go our seprate ways. im not gonna go out of my way to make fun of you, or insult you on here so
i just dont want anything to do with you anymore
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Am really a flower.
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Am really a flower.
Er...why yes, of course you are! Absolutely! :zoinks:
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Am really a flower.
aww, i like you. :hug:
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Am really a flower.
A shy flower, quietly sending it's vibrant ray-like petals in an explosion of color.
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:laugh:
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Richard is a wank and rock obsessed dickhead with a penchant for posting like an arsehole. I think he actually combines his favourite two past times (wanking and Rocks) in unhealthy ways.
This could however be a malicious rumour I just made up then.
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certainly, that post is why your still stuck in the 1400's. monarchys suck, its all about themselves :orly:
I have to admit, all the references to royalty etc. has confused me. But I am 33, I should understand pretend play by now. :-\
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We should abolish the monarchy
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hahaha. obviously its because she cant live without my amazing posts
>:(
Hey. Thats it man, i've seen enough.
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Personally I like Richard. He's as spazzy as the rest of the bunch and obviously gets on some people's nerves, but he's not the only one.
/shrugs
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Personally I like Richard. He's as spazzy as the rest of the bunch and obviously gets on some people's nerves, but he's not the only one.
/shrugs
I generally like the guy, but these hissy fits make him seem a lot like duke. The more I see... the more I facepalm.
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Weakling doesn't really think she's a queen, any more than I really think I'm a Weeble, for fuck's sake. ::)
:o
did....did CBC just SWEAR? :jawdrop:
Ah well about time too :zoinks: :plus:
Btw I genuinely do think Im a squid :cthulhu:
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I like him too, very cool guy. Is he leaving? tried to reply in his thread but it's locked ???
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I hope he is not leaving. I like him and his posts (well, not everything, but then, that was never a prerequisite). I know he doesn't get along with some here but it's not my problem.
Incidentally I happen to like a lot of the people who dislike Richard as well. so either I'm crazy or I have no taste. You pick. ;)
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I never particularly disliked him, even though he tended to write a lot of crap. He obviously couldn't take a joke the way some others could, and seemed to chuck a tanti when things didn't go his way. Shit, we all poke shit at one another, and most of us can have a laugh at it.
Strange though how he always replied to those he had ignored. Curiosity must have bitten his Peter.
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I never particularly disliked him, even though he tended to write a lot of crap. He obviously couldn't take a joke the way some others could, and seemed to chuck a tanti when things didn't go his way. Shit, we all poke shit at one another, and most of us can have a laugh at it.
Strange though how he always replied to those he had ignored. Curiosity must have bitten his Peter.
No we don't.
I am with odeon, I like richard. I don't look at his videos, though.
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I quite like him, but the problem is that he says so much bizare stuff it's hard not to respond to it and try and have a laugh with him about it, but he just takes it all too personally.
He'd be a funny guy if he learned to laugh at himself. Sadly I find myself walking on eggshells around his posts. He gets butthurt too easily.
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I'm indifferent to him, but I love taking the piss out of him.
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I'm indifferent to him, but I love taking the piss out of him.
He is a dickhead and an asshat. That is why I don't feel bad giving him shit. He reacts well each time. I don't give a shit that he is an asshat and a dickhead. People are what they are.
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I'm indifferent to him, but I love taking the piss out of him.
He is a dickhead and an asshat. That is why I don't feel bad giving him shit. He reacts well each time. I don't give a shit that he is an asshat and a dickhead. People are what they are.
I would have let it go in another thread if he had not gotten butthurt and stupid about my question regarding why he didn't want Rage fucking him but there was too much to work with.
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Rage, wut?
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Rage, wut?
Yes, that one would have worked too.
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My comment about everyone putting shit on everyone else was more of a generalization, but it does happen. People here do gang up on others, but mostly it's meant to be in fun. Richard obviously couldn't see that, so cracked the shits and went into a hissing fit. The thing PPK is talking about is proof in point.
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Most of us have hissy fits sooner or later.
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and mine is over
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Glad to hear it.
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and mine is over
Want a hug? :hug:
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Most of us have hissy fits sooner or later.
I don't :angel: :angel: :angel:
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Most of us have hissy fits sooner or later.
I don't :angel: :angel: :angel:
That's why I wrote "most of us". :P
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I don't call ever having a genuine hissy fit here. Only a few heated moments and occasional trolling, but that's about it.
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I will refer you to my post, above, regarding "most of us" :P
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Heh, I know, but I'm just saying. :P
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Most of us have hissy fits sooner or later.
I don't :angel: :angel: :angel:
That's why I wrote "most of us". :P
Funny thing is though. I'm prone to the occasional hissy fit in real life, but for some reason I just can't imagine getting too worked up on the interet.
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But teh Interwebs are serious business. :orly:
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But teh Interwebs are serious business. :orly:
The worst thing anybody can do on the net is say something you don't like. There's no way they can do anything that'll effect your life.
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But teh Interwebs are serious business. :orly:
The worst thing anybody can do on the net is say something you don't like. There's no way they can do anything that'll effect your life.
You must be new to the internet. Believe me, people's entire lives can be destroyed by the internet and that's the second worse case scenario. The worst case scenario is that it can spill over into IRL if people are stupid/determined enough, and someone ends up getting abducted, raped and/or murdered, in some cases in that order, srsly. Of course I'm refering to pedos and stalkers as a prime example.
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I have heard of people getting killed from someone online, people getting stalked online and cyber bullied, being outed in real life from online, losing your job over what you do online like posting something on facebook, and people have used information against their ex what they post online. That happened with my friend on WP, his ex was taking all his posts he make and use them against him in court to manipulate the judge. All serious business.
As DW a Mom says, what you post online isn't private and it's there for life unless the forum gets deleted.
Ways to protect yourself:
Never post your first and last name
Make your facebook profile private and don't allow any co workers on your friends list nor your boss
Never tell people in real life your user names you go by online
Always use a different email address than you do in real life
Use a email address to register on forums, not the one you use in real life when you apply for jobs
Use a different user name for each forums/websites you go to (this prevents people spying on you)
Use a different email address for each forum you register on (this prevents people spying on you)
Never tell people your other user names you use at other places
Yep these are tips I came up with but I don't follow them all. I only follow two of them and that is posting your first and last name and saying what your usernames are online. I never do that.
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But teh Interwebs are serious business. :orly:
The worst thing anybody can do on the net is say something you don't like. There's no way they can do anything that'll effect your life.
You must be new to the internet. Believe me, people's entire lives can be destroyed by the internet and that's the second worse case scenario. The worst case scenario is that it can spill over into IRL if people are stupid/determined enough, and someone ends up getting abducted, raped and/or murdered, in some cases in that order, srsly. Of course I'm refering to pedos and stalkers as a prime example.
I am quite new to the internet. New to forums anyway.
Of course you're right. It can spill over into real life. Since I've started using the forum my family have totally warned me off meeting anybody, or even giving out my address. They're even a bit pissed off that I give out the town that I live in.
Bit of a shame really, because I had been thinking about trying internet dating, but I've been told not to even think about it. So, if I decide to try it I'm going to have to keep it a secret, which then makes it more dangerous :)
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I have heard of people getting killed from someone online, people getting stalked online and cyber bullied, being outed in real life from online, losing your job over what you do online like posting something on facebook, and people have used information against their ex what they post online. That happened with my friend on WP, his ex was taking all his posts he make and use them against him in court to manipulate the judge. All serious business.
That's the one thing that worries me most. It would not be a good thing where I live. That's why it's a good thing nobody from this site knoows who I am in real life, and that nobody I know in real life(other than my cousin) is likely to read this site.
In a funny kind of way it's like two totally different worlds that I would never want to clash.
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That's the one thing that worries me most. It would not be a good thing where I live. That's why it's a good thing nobody from this site knoows who I am in real life, and that nobody I know in real life(other than my cousin) is likely to read this site.
In a funny kind of way it's like two totally different worlds that I would never want to clash.
Welcome to the internet. :zoinks:
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As DW a Mom says, what you post online isn't private and it's there for life unless the forum gets deleted.
You're very lucky if that happens.
Web archives can sometimes save copies of a dead forum. As the saying goes, the internet never forgets.
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That's the one thing that worries me most. It would not be a good thing where I live. That's why it's a good thing nobody from this site knoows who I am in real life, and that nobody I know in real life(other than my cousin) is likely to read this site.
In a funny kind of way it's like two totally different worlds that I would never want to clash.
Welcome to the internet. :zoinks:
Thank you. Funnily enough I kind of thought I was the strange one thinking like that. I suppose when I think about it, most folks who use these type of forums probably think like that.
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Ways to protect yourself:
Never post your first and last name
Make your facebook profile private and don't allow any co workers on your friends list nor your boss
Never tell people in real life your user names you go by online
Always use a different email address than you do in real life
Use a email address to register on forums, not the one you use in real life when you apply for jobs
Use a different user name for each forums/websites you go to (this prevents people spying on you)
Use a different email address for each forum you register on (this prevents people spying on you)
Never tell people your other user names you use at other places
now im gonna be paraniod. ive broken almost all those rules
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Anonymity is an illusion when using this kind of technology. If you would not say it / do it / feel it IRL, best not to do it at all.
Even on the internet, we still have to live with our actions/consequences.
That is what I tell my son.
Loup
(Butterflies, my dad met my stepmum in online dating and they have been married for 6 years now. They are very happy. Just be very, very aware. :indeed:)
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I do find that your more extreme personality traits become more apparent when you're online, along with being social. The lack of social cues online really is a factor.
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I do find that your more extreme personality traits become more apparent when you're online, along with being social. The lack of social cues online really is a factor.
Mr Schledge I totally agree with the social cues bit. Strangely, I realised that I actually rely more on tone of voice than I thought I did, as I still miss the mark with facial expression and body language occasionally(more than occasionally actually). I have often gotten in to hot water, not intending to, by the lack of tone of voice. And even smileys elude me generally.
I try to be very, very careful. But it can be distressing working this hard. That is why I like to get to know people online as quickly as possible, so I don't fuck up too badly. I am very "dry" at times online, as well as in IRL, but the people that know me, don't get weird about it. ;)
Loup
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Anonymity is an illusion when using this kind of technology. If you would not say it / do it / feel it IRL, best not to do it at all.
Even on the internet, we still have to live with our actions/consequences.
That is what I tell my son.
Loup
(Butterflies, my dad met my stepmum in online dating and they have been married for 6 years now. They are very happy. Just be very, very aware. :indeed:)
That's pretty cool. I've read success stories on the dating sites, but I've always just assumed them to be BS. I've never actually known of anybody who's had a marriage from an internet dating site. My best friend, who lives with me is hassling me to go on a dating site to meet guys. She says she'd go with me to make sureeverything goes OK. She still thinks I'm straight though :). Obviously I don't want to meet guys.
I want to do it to meet girls but my aunt and uncle have warned me off doing that. Given my limited social life, and the small town mentallity of the place I live, the chances of meeting a gay woman in real life who's single and with whom there's a mutual attraction seems at best remote.
I think my only realistic chance of having a relationship is probably through the internet, but the thought of doing it scares the crap out of me, and it means going against my family. One day I'll probably pluck up the courage to do it though :viking:
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I do find that your more extreme personality traits become more apparent when you're online, along with being social. The lack of social cues online really is a factor.
I find being social on the net far easier than real life. I probably appear almost passable socially on the internet. IRL I just go to pieces if someone I don't know tries to speak to me.
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I met my husband from a forum. Not really a dating site because I met him from a forum instead. I guess that be BS. :LOL:
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I met my husband from a forum. Not really a dating site because I met him from a forum instead. I guess that be BS. :LOL:
No. If you say you met your hubby through a forum then I believe you and wouldn't say it's BS. What I meant was when I read the testamonials on any dating site I don't really know if they're real stories or just the site making up BS to try and persuade people to use their site.
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I find it easier online. I think I can be normal online. IRL i come across as shy and boring. And maybe a bit thick.
Bint has met me irl though and she said I talk fine. I have a weird voice though
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I find it easier online. I think I can be normal online. IRL i come across as shy and boring. And maybe a bit thick.
So do I. Exept I come across as more than a bit thick. I seem to appear subnormal. I have a habit of saying stupid sarcastic things that I think are funny, and then everyone assuming I was serious and that I'm just really thick. I've done it once or twice online here recently aswell :-[
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I met my husband from a forum. Not really a dating site because I met him from a forum instead. I guess that be BS. :LOL:
No. If you say you met your hubby through a forum then I believe you and wouldn't say it's BS. What I meant was when I read the testamonials on any dating site I don't really know if they're real stories or just the site making up BS to try and persuade people to use their site.
Ah I see. Those advertising stories, not personal ones.
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I met my husband from a forum. Not really a dating site because I met him from a forum instead. I guess that be BS. :LOL:
No. If you say you met your hubby through a forum then I believe you and wouldn't say it's BS. What I meant was when I read the testamonials on any dating site I don't really know if they're real stories or just the site making up BS to try and persuade people to use their site.
Ah I see. Those advertising stories, not personal ones.
Yeah. It would be a bit stupid of me to call people liars because they say they met their partner over the net. I doubt if anyone would lie about that.
It's the same when I read agony aunt columns. I'm never sure if it's real people with problems, or if the agony aunt has just made up questions so that they've got something interesting to write about.
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I do find that your more extreme personality traits become more apparent when you're online, along with being social. The lack of social cues online really is a factor.
Yes, the lack of cues as well as time to think before response makes a big difference.
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I met my partner through a work intranet board, and we have been together for about 10 years. Took us awhile to get together, as we both live on the other side of the country.
IRL I'm probably not much different to here.
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I'm the same online as I am offline, I think. I don't hide shit. Well... any more than I do offline. :green:
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I met my partner through a work intranet board, and we have been together for about 10 years. Took us awhile to get together, as we both live on the other side of the country.
IRL I'm probably not much different to here.
She is gorgeous too mate. Tell her i SAY "Hi"
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I met GalileoAce on the internet. We had a disagreement about Star Trek. Then we got to know each other and I travelled across to Melbourne to meet him and we had a great time.
Those are some good points that you posted, Kit. :plus:
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I started out apologizing to Richard and this thread got turned into a matchmaking service. Sheesh.
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I started out apologizing to Richard and this thread got turned into a matchmaking service. Sheesh.
All roads lead to love. It's nature's way! :dancers: