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Start here => Free For ALL => Topic started by: Al Swearegen on June 16, 2010, 04:14:45 AM
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Are we sad? Anyone else notice? Anyone care? :asthing:
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I got along fine with her. It's been about a month now... :-\
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Where have you been les? :laugh:
One thing I've noticed is that soph has stopped being a twit and is actually likeable again.
Not that she probably cares, but that's why I took her off ignore.
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didn't notice you'd taken me off ignore.
i have noticed i don't feel like arguing and winding people up now
maybe I should stick to not having friends if I am ore likeable on my own :laugh:
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didn't notice you'd taken me off ignore.
i have noticed i don't feel like arguing and winding people up now
maybe I should stick to not having friends if I am ore likeable on my own :laugh:
But being likable will get you more friends! It's a trap! :evillaugh:
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didn't notice you'd taken me off ignore.
i have noticed i don't feel like arguing and winding people up now
maybe I should stick to not having friends if I am ore likeable on my own :laugh:
Yup. A hell of a lot more likeble. Glad she left and equally glad you stayed. No sarcasm here.
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didn't notice you'd taken me off ignore.
i have noticed i don't feel like arguing and winding people up now
maybe I should stick to not having friends if I am ore likeable on my own :laugh:
Look, I don't really feel like hanging shit on bint. I'm over that shit. But it just seemed like the aspie kid who ends up with the bad influence NT friend that just drags them down.
I'm actually interested in what you have to say these days.
Here's a couple of pictures I took of our new cat today. His name is Korben.
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beautiful 8)
we had two tabbies when I was a kid. i love their noses
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So handsome! :heart: Where did you get him?
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Korben is cute. Bint was fine. Animals and youth deserve more tolerance than the rest.
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maybe I should stick to not having friends if I am ore likeable on my own :laugh:
But you're my friend and you're still likeable. I think that means you should hang out with me more. :green:
Actually, I was telling EBM the other day that I missed you while I was gone. :)
Korben is adorable! :heart:
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So handsome! :heart: Where did you get him?
Freecycle
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Korben is cute. Bint was fine. Animals and youth deserve more tolerance than the rest.
QFT. :agreed:
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Was she Postures and Snazzlestick on WP? Both of those have stopped posting as well.
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No idea. But I'm sure she'll be back before long.
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No idea. But I'm sure she'll be back before long.
I hope you're wrong. I don't think she really is a bad person, but I think this place brought the worst out in her.
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No idea. But I'm sure she'll be back before long.
I hope you're wrong. I don't think she really is a bad person, but I think this place brought the worst out in her.
You are all very nice. I think she was a bad person :zoinks: :viking:
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No idea. But I'm sure she'll be back before long.
I hope you're wrong. I don't think she really is a bad person, but I think this place brought the worst out in her.
You are all very nice. I think she was a bad person :zoinks: :viking:
Yes, but in your case we all know that you are evil. The thing is, you are proud of it >:D
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http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sEke7x4CKSM
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I wonder why she left again? This was maybe her third time she has left.
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She thinks that not hanging out with a bunch of spazzes will sort out her life.
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She didn't need to delete her account for that. She could have just left and come back when she felt ready.
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Yup, that's one way t do it. Another is to simply create a new account every time... ::)
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i think she was pissed off at me ad that's just how she deals with things. deleting i mean. this place is hard to leave whe you're spammy
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i think she was pissed off at me ad that's just how she deals with things. deleting i mean. this place is hard to leave whe you're spammy
:agreed: I should be getting ready for work right now, but you know how it is... :laugh:
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Anyone care?
No. :)
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i think she was pissed off at me ad that's just how she deals with things. deleting i mean. this place is hard to leave whe you're spammy
Very true.
Bint needs some stability in her life. You can't make good decisions when you live in chaos.
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hey being friends with me isn't Living in chaos! :laugh:
i think you're right tho tbh. she said she's gonna go to the university she'd initially planned to go to now, which is good. hopefully things will go well for her
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They won't. She doesn't have the intestinal fortitude to make something like that work.
Just being honest. I know her.
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hey being friends with me isn't Living in chaos! :laugh:
i think you're right tho tbh. she said she's gonna go to the university she'd initially planned to go to now, which is good. hopefully things will go well for her
Yeah I guess I made it sound that way didn't I. Your response made me laugh so hard my eyes teared up. :lol:
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i still think we should be friends tbh. but i am too self centred or something
i have a feeling i wouldn't be welcome if I contacted her again tho
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i still think we should be friends tbh. but i am too self centred or something
i have a feeling i wouldn't be welcome if I contacted her again tho
Forget it man. Shes worthless at the moment. Wait till she grows up enough to be on par with her peer group.
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i still think we should be friends tbh. but i am too self centred or something
i have a feeling i wouldn't be welcome if I contacted her again tho
Can't think it would be a huge loss.
Sorry you are upset over it. I personally see it as a lucky break for you
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i still think we should be friends tbh. but i am too self centred or something
i have a feeling i wouldn't be welcome if I contacted her again tho
Soph, you're one of the least self-centered people I know. So if that was said to you, I would let it go.
This isn't Bint specific, but any friendship that I either bring into my life, or I lose, I always ask myself what does that person bring to my life. If it's good things and it's balanced, then it's a positive step forward for me. If it's negative drama and it's high maintenance then I will let it go. I want to leave room in my life for the good stuff. I've had my cup full of drama as of late. :laugh:
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she didn't actually say I was too self centred, but I think that#s what she meant - and that I was a shitty friend
I think she might have been right but I definitely wasn't being a shitty friend on purpose, which is why it's annoying. if she'd just told me what I was doing wrong then I coulda fixed it and we could still be mates. I wouldn't have met her IRL if I didn't wanna be friends with her
I dunno. it's cool. Just wish I knew exactly where I was going wrong :-\
it's all so confusing, this social stuff :laugh:
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i still think we should be friends tbh. but i am too self centred or something
i have a feeling i wouldn't be welcome if I contacted her again tho
any friendship that I either bring into my life, or I lose, I always ask myself what does that person bring to my life. If it's good things and it's balanced, then it's a positive step forward for me. If it's negative drama and it's high maintenance then I will let it go.
QFT.
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it's all so confusing, this social stuff :laugh:
True. But sometimes people are just all up and down, and nothing you ever try to do to figure them out will be the right answer. Some people just change like the wind (not attacking Bint - I do it myself at times).
All you can do is know you did your best. I know that it would be hard, especially because of other stuff you've been through - you probably don't want to feel you've let a friend down. But CG is right, you do seem to be a very caring person, so I'm sure you did your best.
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I think she might have been right but I definitely wasn't being a shitty friend on purpose, which is why it's annoying. if she'd just told me what I was doing wrong then I coulda fixed it and we could still be mates.
This would make it so much easier for aspies if others would just tell us what we did that was wrong. We rarely figure it out on our own like they expect us to.
That's one huge benefit to dating an aspie. EBM and I just tell each other if something is wrong, or one of us said something out of turn or whatever and there's no drama.
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All the women I like irl tend to be very NT. I always go for the ones I can't have :laugh:
I think I still have a lot to learn about friendship/relationship stuff. but I do try.
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All the women I like irl tend to be very NT. I always go for the ones I can't have :laugh:
I think I still have a lot to learn about friendship/relationship stuff. but I do try.
Everyone in the world, of any age, NT or not, can afford to learn more. :viking:
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All the women I like irl tend to be very NT. I always go for the ones I can't have :laugh:
I think I still have a lot to learn about friendship/relationship stuff. but I do try.
Everyone in the world, of any age, NT or not, can afford to learn more. :viking:
very true
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I'm gonna be going to my AS place again soon. So maybe I will make some aspie friends. no hot girls there tho :(