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Start here => What's your crime? Basic Discussion => Topic started by: DukeNukem on March 05, 2010, 01:30:57 AM
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...it turns up a bunch of fat women?
:wanker:
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No, just the one: Beth Ditto. Thanks for suggesting that search; she's cool.
http://www.guardian.co.uk/world/2007/jun/08/gender.pop
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No, just the one: Beth Ditto. Thanks for suggesting that search; she's cool.
http://www.guardian.co.uk/world/2007/jun/08/gender.pop
Yes, very cool!
I have been 130lb as well as 215lb. I have had blond, strawberry blond, green, pink and purple hair, and none of that has ever exempted me from having lewd comments flung at me in the street. This happens to all women, and it can be really upsetting, but we shouldn't feel hopeless about it - I really believe that if men and women start communicating about this, it's something that we can tackle together.
First things first ... we have to stop referring to this as a "catcall". Women aren't cats, we aren't pets, we are just people trying to cross the freaking street to get an ice-cream cone. (Well, in my case, anyway.)
I struggled with this question, asking, "Beth, what would you do?", and then I remembered all the times I've shouted back: "Show us your cock! That's right - let everyone here see how huge it is! Oh wait! What's that? I didn't hear you! You're walking away?!" Using my voice is always my first instinct. In good conscience, though, I know that this kind of harassment happens in varying degrees and that shouting back isn't always appropriate. Harassment can also stir up strong feelings, which can ruin your day. So, taking all that into consideration, I've written a handy list of scenarios and sketched out exactly how to respond!
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Hmm... Still, I think Sir Les Patterson should put "ditto" in his search criteria for fat women on Google.
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Not funny. :-\
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Not funny. :-\
Suck my Balls Of Steel (TM)!
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Not funny. :-\
Suck my Balls Of Steel (TM)!
You are indeed encouraged to try again. You'll get there, I'm sure.