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Title: hello, from Santiago Chile
Post by: Dayko on February 11, 2009, 11:05:15 PM
Hello everyone:

well i am somewhat new in here,



well my name is Francisco and i am from Santiago Chile, i am 25 years old and well i get in here by a friend that  he  suggested me the site,i have asperger i really the how knew that was very rare, well many years ago i  meet somebody in the internet, we get very good friends and well one day he told me that he could have asperger and that time get shocked, later when researched that i noticed had the same symptoms of asperger and well to me were relieving because there was the explanation of things that even myself i do not understanded, as  avoid eye contact etc etc and many as type of obsessions  too, well  and just  is just great know that am not alone in this, also get a depression too later by some reasons that i even do not know and just  been  in treatment on and off 3 years , about the friend that  made me get awake to the reality i  just keep friendship with this  now 4  years ago and just is wonderful, because not know the reason.lol

well just i just in the time i meet some folks with asperger but not in my home country, i meet thems in USA and just is good and nice too.

well i really do not know how end my introduction, just  everyone if want do questions or whatever i am open to response thems.

greetings scandisk,



Title: Re: hello, from Santiago Chile
Post by: Leto729 on February 11, 2009, 11:11:01 PM
HI:

My friend.

Welcome
Title: Re: hello, from Santiago Chile
Post by: Dayko on February 11, 2009, 11:16:37 PM
LOL thank you
Title: Re: hello, from Santiago Chile
Post by: Leto729 on February 11, 2009, 11:49:42 PM
Also it was a great introduction too. ;)
Title: Re: hello, from Santiago Chile
Post by: Callaway on February 12, 2009, 02:02:28 AM
Hi scandisk.

:welcome:

Title: Re: hello, from Santiago Chile
Post by: punkdrew on February 12, 2009, 02:43:53 AM
Howdy!  :)
Title: Re: hello, from Santiago Chile
Post by: Parts on February 12, 2009, 06:05:07 AM
 :cheese:
Title: Re: hello, from Santiago Chile
Post by: P7PSP on February 12, 2009, 08:17:18 AM
Hi scandisk, you are the first Chilean Aspie I have seen posting on any of the spectrum forums I am at.
Title: Re: hello, from Santiago Chile
Post by: Tristeza on February 12, 2009, 12:34:50 PM
yeah, nice to see a south american around here. 
Title: Re: hello, from Santiago Chile
Post by: SovaNu on February 12, 2009, 01:21:05 PM
oh come on scandisk is totally a bot. who chooses something like scandisk? a bot. a scanner bot.
Title: Re: hello, from Santiago Chile
Post by: Frolic_Fun on February 12, 2009, 03:24:33 PM
Guy picked the wrong place, to be honest.

We'll tear him up alive.
Title: Re: hello, from Santiago Chile
Post by: SovaNu on February 12, 2009, 03:31:04 PM
we should be nicer. come on shleed you can do it.
Title: Re: hello, from Santiago Chile
Post by: Dayko on February 12, 2009, 03:53:41 PM
well about the name here ,just was  because one time many years ago  needed get an mail address and were in an internet cafe and as one of the computers   were  performing scandisk process or  error check so  had the idea of use that name as username in my email and  etc etc lol, am not am bot am a person of flesh and bone and about that pick an wrong place not think that  did any error .also can not judge by names

well about that first south american   aspie thing, happen the follow , in this hemisphere is almost unknown the asperger syndrome here so  that is why.

greetings

Francisco


Title: Re: hello, from Santiago Chile
Post by: Tristeza on February 12, 2009, 04:02:51 PM
yeah, i know it's not a common diagnosis down there. 

have you had a lot of social problems because of having aspergers?  i know south americans are very social people, but they're also very tolerant of people who are 'eccentric.' 
Title: Re: hello, from Santiago Chile
Post by: Frolic_Fun on February 12, 2009, 06:24:53 PM
we should be nicer. come on shleed you can do it.

I AM nice. Just to certain people. :-\
Title: Re: hello, from Santiago Chile
Post by: Dayko on February 12, 2009, 08:22:43 PM
well seem that should left this site then , am just seeing that the environment here is not what i expected
Title: Re: hello, from Santiago Chile
Post by: Dayko on February 12, 2009, 08:35:25 PM

have you had a lot of social problems because of having aspergers?  i know south americans are very social people, but they're also very tolerant of people who are 'eccentric,


well yeah but i think are getting some  wrong information , yeah in south americxa is  not so social  at least in here, but yes  i get troubles in fact in work not almost not talk with anyone, just not have any topic of what can talk if talk something of my interest would just bore to someone so better not talk much.


the people here to whose they perceive, limited, just they take advantage of you , just not like that.

well  before of know about asperger  fighted to myself in do eye contact etc etc and in wonder why some things that not get an answer, now  just i not fight with myself, not worth, just ended accepting that facts .

even when were little boy i get rejected  of schools because not stared at eyes when get interviewed .







Title: Re: hello, from Santiago Chile
Post by: Pyraxis on February 12, 2009, 08:56:33 PM
well seem that should left this site then , am just seeing that the environment here is not what i expected

What environment did you expect?
Title: Re: hello, from Santiago Chile
Post by: DirtDawg on February 12, 2009, 09:12:20 PM
:poop:
Title: Re: hello, from Santiago Chile
Post by: Dayko on February 12, 2009, 09:14:17 PM
no i just expected that  not get confrontation with members just that, but the group i like not know the reason exactly.

of anyway the world is not perfect
Title: Re: hello, from Santiago Chile
Post by: Natalia Evans on February 12, 2009, 09:29:43 PM
Were you expecting this to be a support site? Guess what? It isn't.

Title: Re: hello, from Santiago Chile
Post by: Dayko on February 12, 2009, 09:32:52 PM
ok  well is ok  but of anyway will not reply to confrontation  post
Title: Re: hello, from Santiago Chile
Post by: Tristeza on February 12, 2009, 09:33:10 PM
he didn't say he was looking for support. 
Title: Re: hello, from Santiago Chile
Post by: Leto729 on February 12, 2009, 09:36:09 PM
well seem that should left this site then , am just seeing that the environment here is not what i expected

What environment did you expect?
He is learning.
Title: Re: hello, from Santiago Chile
Post by: Tristeza on February 12, 2009, 09:50:25 PM
you've got some good wine down in chile.  it's a country i'd like very much to visit.
Title: Re: hello, from Santiago Chile
Post by: Pyraxis on February 12, 2009, 09:57:22 PM
no i just expected that  not get confrontation with members just that, but the group i like not know the reason exactly.

of anyway the world is not perfect

There are confrontations here. It's not always a bad thing. Part of the point is to speak up for your beliefs and practice arguing.

There are good people here who don't hold disagreements against you.
Title: Re: hello, from Santiago Chile
Post by: Dayko on February 12, 2009, 10:12:49 PM

There are confrontations here. It's not always a bad thing. Part of the point is to speak up for your beliefs and practice arguing.

There are good people here who don't hold disagreements against you.

well is ok, just would  ignore those confrontations and about disagreements is ok but not lt that turn in war, but the group i liked so is ok.

Title: Re: hello, from Santiago Chile
Post by: TheoK on February 13, 2009, 04:47:09 AM
Hola, amigo! I've been to South America, to Venezuela!  :arrr:
Title: Re: hello, from Santiago Chile
Post by: Phlexor on February 13, 2009, 05:14:16 AM
Hi and welcome. It would be nice if you could stick around.

Do you find that being an a country that values people being very social that you are somewhat outcast or picked on for not being so? Here in Australia people are very outgoing and social, especially in the workplace. If you are not social during break times or after work, other workers can give you are hard time and generally make you wish you weren't there.
Title: Re: hello, from Santiago Chile
Post by: Leto729 on February 13, 2009, 06:21:20 AM
I am teaching the ways of this site of Intensity.

I hope You can handle all of this.

You need to post what and who You are and be just Yourself.

For that is the way of Intensity2.

I am not Your daddy, I am just a friend and brother okay.
Title: Re: hello, from Santiago Chile
Post by: SovaNu on February 13, 2009, 10:34:46 AM
we should be nicer. come on shleed you can do it.

I AM nice. Just to certain people. :-\

that's what satan said before god kicked him out. :P
Title: Re: hello, from Santiago Chile
Post by: SovaNu on February 13, 2009, 10:37:49 AM
Hola, amigo! I've been to South America, to Venezuela!  :arrr:

lit you're a freekin racist, how come you like south america? aren't they impure? :P
Title: Re: hello, from Santiago Chile
Post by: TheoK on February 13, 2009, 10:39:11 AM
Hola, amigo! I've been to South America, to Venezuela!  :arrr:

lit you're a freekin racist, how come you like south america? aren't they impure? :P

But they're brave at the same time. :-\
Title: Re: hello, from Santiago Chile
Post by: SovaNu on February 13, 2009, 10:40:04 AM
poor lit, all these paradoxes.

I am not Your daddy, I am just a friend and brother okay.

 :laugh:
Title: Re: hello, from Santiago Chile
Post by: odeon on February 13, 2009, 04:15:30 PM
Welcome, n00b. I really hope you aren't the sensitive type.
Title: Re: hello, from Santiago Chile
Post by: DirtDawg on February 13, 2009, 05:28:43 PM
I am teaching the ways of this site of Intensity.

I hope You can handle all of this.

You need to post what and who You are and be just Yourself.

For that is the way of Intensity2.

I am not Your daddy, I am just a friend and brother okay.

I think you should wear a robe, Brother Kevv.
Title: Re: hello, from Santiago Chile
Post by: Dayko on February 13, 2009, 08:18:31 PM
Hola, amigo! I've been to South America, to Venezuela!  :arrr:

lit you're a freekin racist, how come you like south america? aren't they impure? :P

not think about racism , also well are yours mixing things,    is the central america and south america not mix  to both in an south america,

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Central_America

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/South_America


but about impure i do not think  about that, is just  very racist conceptions , in fact even if were by those conception could say that United States and  England too are impure, England  they too have  tribes also and United States   well too are just only immigrants from Europe that were opposite to their   governments so  i think that    the treatment of impure is a bit  out of focus at all, not have anything against the USA.by the way.

is a shame that in here  we  still treating people by degree of purity, just is an very   stupid argument.


also about Kevv just should be a  specie of joke, lol as yesterday i were  joking about that lol.

But they're brave at the same time

well not know what consider braves, in historic part well were resistance  into the spaniards colonization  but  of anyway   they winned, so do not know what consider brave or impure, hope be in the right with this post.

scandisk....
Title: Re: hello, from Santiago Chile
Post by: SovaNu on February 14, 2009, 05:09:39 AM
it was a joke, jeeze.

why is your name scandisk? you like scanning? you're a scanner? :aff:
Title: Re: hello, from Santiago Chile
Post by: P7PSP on February 14, 2009, 08:34:35 AM
it was a joke, jeeze.

why is your name scandisk? you like scanning? you're a scanner? :aff:
If he starts acting like this we'll know for sure.

(http://i44.tinypic.com/15d4byo.jpg)
Title: Re: hello, from Santiago Chile
Post by: Dayko on February 14, 2009, 09:25:25 AM
no my name is because, lets say the follow, everyone have an  type or obsession to something right?

well i just get that name because i like the computer sciences, just that.

lol well is just ok}

Title: Re: hello, from Santiago Chile
Post by: SovaNu on February 14, 2009, 10:39:09 AM
yeah but it's not a really sexy name, how about killer robot? or just scanner so everyone's afraid of you and thinks you are sexah. :eyelash:
Title: Re: hello, from Santiago Chile
Post by: Dayko on February 14, 2009, 08:13:13 PM
lol  is not sexy but  is  what can remember easily and   what identify me from the rest
Title: Re: hello, from Santiago Chile
Post by: driftingblizzard on March 06, 2009, 03:47:28 PM
lol  is not sexy but  is  what can remember easily and   what identify me from the rest

That's right, stick to your guns my southern born brother.  Don't let these fast talking american girls sway you into losing your name and virginity. identity.
Title: Re: hello, from Santiago Chile
Post by: odeon on March 06, 2009, 04:22:45 PM
Why not if there's sex?
Title: Re: hello, from Santiago Chile
Post by: SovaNu on March 06, 2009, 04:46:29 PM
who's american?
Title: Re: hello, from Santiago Chile
Post by: odeon on March 06, 2009, 04:48:16 PM
Why's that important?
Title: Re: hello, from Santiago Chile
Post by: SovaNu on March 06, 2009, 04:49:59 PM
just wondering. the only girl in the thread the past page was me. ???
Title: Re: hello, from Santiago Chile
Post by: odeon on March 06, 2009, 04:52:00 PM
So, go for the bloke from Chile. You've an advantage.
Title: Re: hello, from Santiago Chile
Post by: Dayko on March 06, 2009, 08:10:47 PM
So, go for the bloke from Chile. You've an advantage.

not understand nothing, somebody could explain me what is the advantage i have?
Title: Re: hello, from Santiago Chile
Post by: Parts on March 06, 2009, 08:56:28 PM
So, go for the bloke from Chile. You've an advantage.

not understand nothing, somebody could explain me what is the advantage i have?


Your the fresh meat nobodies chewed up and spat out yet :P
Title: Re: hello, from Santiago Chile
Post by: Dayko on March 06, 2009, 08:59:36 PM
So, go for the bloke from Chile. You've an advantage.

not understand nothing, somebody could explain me what is the advantage i have?


Your the fresh meat nobodies chewed up and spat out yet :P

lol

but why
Title: Re: hello, from Santiago Chile
Post by: Parts on March 06, 2009, 09:01:51 PM
does there really need to be a reason ???
Title: Re: hello, from Santiago Chile
Post by: Dayko on March 06, 2009, 09:09:35 PM
no no really
Title: Re: hello, from Santiago Chile
Post by: SovaNu on March 07, 2009, 01:04:41 AM
my confuseness is expanding.
Title: Re: hello, from Santiago Chile
Post by: odeon on March 07, 2009, 05:32:23 AM
So, go for the bloke from Chile. You've an advantage.

not understand nothing, somebody could explain me what is the advantage i have?


Your the fresh meat nobodies chewed up and spat out yet :P

lol

but why

Just the way things work. :zoinks:
Title: Re: hello, from Santiago Chile
Post by: Dayko on March 07, 2009, 08:28:48 AM
my confuseness is expanding.

i am too confused
Title: Re: hello, from Santiago Chile
Post by: odeon on March 07, 2009, 01:10:59 PM
I'm confused. Are you confused, too, or are you too confused?
Title: Re: hello, from Santiago Chile
Post by: Parts on March 07, 2009, 02:18:20 PM
my confuseness is expanding.

i am too confused


Now your getting it :zoinks:
Title: Re: hello, from Santiago Chile
Post by: odeon on March 07, 2009, 02:21:36 PM
Getting what? I'm confused.
Title: Re: hello, from Santiago Chile
Post by: driftingblizzard on March 07, 2009, 11:15:55 PM
who's american?

My bad.  I guess women are the same the world over.  Take your name, take your money, take your self esteem and move on to greener pastures.  Can I get a "witness"?
Title: Re: hello, from Santiago Chile
Post by: SovaNu on March 08, 2009, 03:56:57 AM
i've not taken any guy's money, thanks very much. if you marry the wrong type of girls that's your fault. if there's some problem with your nutty NT wife, YOU married her, it's not like we're all like that. it's YOU have bad taste.
Title: Re: hello, from Santiago Chile
Post by: driftingblizzard on March 13, 2009, 07:36:28 AM
i've not taken any guy's money, thanks very much. if you marry the wrong type of girls that's your fault. if there's some problem with your nutty NT wife, YOU married her, it's not like we're all like that. it's YOU have bad taste.

Maybe not YET.  But like most women, you too will change over time and justify your later actions with the proponderance of "he's an asshole, I deserve to do this to him".

So how can any guy have good or bad taste, when what he is choosing will morph over time?
Title: Re: hello, from Santiago Chile
Post by: Tristeza on March 13, 2009, 12:55:07 PM
i've not taken any guy's money, thanks very much. if you marry the wrong type of girls that's your fault. if there's some problem with your nutty NT wife, YOU married her, it's not like we're all like that. it's YOU have bad taste.

Maybe not YET.  But like most women, you too will change over time and justify your later actions with the proponderance of "he's an asshole, I deserve to do this to him".

So how can any guy have good or bad taste, when what he is choosing will morph over time?
milla will never change - she'll always remain a sweetheart.  i hope you find someone like her someday.  :)

i think the kind of woman you're referring to - and there are a LOT of them - is the type who initially sizes up a guy as 'having potential,'  meaning they want to change him.  this side doesn't seem to be obvious to most men right away, so when it emerges after a commitment is established, it seems these women have 'changed.'  in reality, their agenda was there all along, just well-hidden (from the man and maybe even from her own self).

there are probably warning signs to watch out for in the initial stages...signs like making critical remarks about you, your preferences/tastes/appearance, your friends or family, etc.  basically if someone isn't going to accept you as you are, you have no need of them and you should run away quickly before you get involved.
Title: Re: hello, from Santiago Chile
Post by: driftingblizzard on March 13, 2009, 01:19:58 PM
That is some great advice, some of the best I heard here.  And you are right, I shouldn't paint with such a broad brush.  It will take me a while to find someone sweet like that and really be able to let my mind relax enough to believe her though. 
Title: Re: hello, from Santiago Chile
Post by: Tristeza on March 13, 2009, 07:17:56 PM
yeah, i understand why you'd be wary.  nothing wrong with that.  good luck with your search.   :)
Title: Re: hello, from Santiago Chile
Post by: SovaNu on March 13, 2009, 07:44:55 PM
aw triz :angel: you just prevented me from ripping him a new asshole

and i hate women like that. i just don't see what men see in them.
Title: Re: hello, from Santiago Chile
Post by: Pyraxis on March 13, 2009, 10:07:22 PM
basically if someone isn't going to accept you as you are, you have no need of them and you should run away quickly before you get involved.

and i hate women like that. i just don't see what men see in them.

Why oh why does everybody consider this such a negative trait? Self-improvement is part and parcel of who I am. I expect as much from my partner, and I would be bored as hell with somebody who did not expect the same of me.

In all the whining of people who feel like they can't be accepted for being themselves, where is the ambition to become something more?
Title: Re: hello, from Santiago Chile
Post by: Tristeza on March 14, 2009, 01:04:42 PM
Why oh why does everybody consider this such a negative trait? Self-improvement is part and parcel of who I am. I expect as much from my partner, and I would be bored as hell with somebody who did not expect the same of me.
i'm the same way.  but everyone's definition of self-improvement is different.  that's why everyone has to decide for themselves how (or if) they want to work on themselves, and their partner should respect their decisions. 
Title: Re: hello, from Santiago Chile
Post by: Pyraxis on March 14, 2009, 01:24:40 PM
Makes sense and agreed. I just get sick of it being paraded around like some hideously offensive faux pas.
Title: Re: hello, from Santiago Chile
Post by: odeon on March 14, 2009, 06:15:06 PM
basically if someone isn't going to accept you as you are, you have no need of them and you should run away quickly before you get involved.

and i hate women like that. i just don't see what men see in them.

Why oh why does everybody consider this such a negative trait? Self-improvement is part and parcel of who I am. I expect as much from my partner, and I would be bored as hell with somebody who did not expect the same of me.

In all the whining of people who feel like they can't be accepted for being themselves, where is the ambition to become something more?

It's not a negative trait in itself, if you're open about it. It can be, if you claim you don't want to change your partner but act based on some change you want to effect.

The only person you actually can change is you.
Title: Re: hello, from Santiago Chile
Post by: Pyraxis on March 14, 2009, 06:23:02 PM
It's not a negative trait in itself, if you're open about it. It can be, if you claim you don't want to change your partner but act based on some change you want to effect.

The only person you actually can change is you.

True. That's a balance I'm still learning, and I'm pretty sure I've caused hurt by coming on too strong. But sometimes, stagnancy runs so deep it needs something strong to force it out of its rut.

Of course, other times, anything strong just drives it deeper, and the only way out is to entice with kindness.

It's a fricking finicky art which I'm guessing you've spent some time perfecting. Or not. I don't really know you.  :zoinks:

But regardless, I think we're looking at the same thing.
Title: Re: hello, from Santiago Chile
Post by: odeon on March 14, 2009, 06:37:17 PM
Yes, I think we are looking at the same thing.

I don't know the art, though. Never did.
Title: Re: hello, from Santiago Chile
Post by: Pyraxis on March 14, 2009, 06:43:41 PM
But you may know the science, which is more than I do...
Title: Re: hello, from Santiago Chile
Post by: odeon on March 14, 2009, 06:50:51 PM
Could be. I think of it as common sense.

But thanks--I choose to read it as a compliment. :)
Title: Re: hello, from Santiago Chile
Post by: Pyraxis on March 14, 2009, 07:03:25 PM
It is. And I hope things work out between you and Vivi. I have some degree of sympathy for her at the moment.
Title: Re: hello, from Santiago Chile
Post by: driftingblizzard on March 17, 2009, 11:34:56 AM
aw triz :angel: you just prevented me from ripping him a new asshole

and i hate women like that. i just don't see what men see in them.

You can still rip me a new one if you like, I hate to have someone feel deprived on my account.  Plus, you probably couldn't do too much more damage then the first two girls that I absolutely adored, and pledged my life too...  and lived for, etc.   
Title: Re: hello, from Santiago Chile
Post by: SleepyDragon on March 17, 2009, 09:47:25 PM
Bienvenido al nuevo miembro de otra nueva miembra.

I'm also new here, but A. English is my first language, and B. Many of the people here are familiar to me from other Asperger's/autism discussion forums. Thank you for your introduction. Soy una mujer canadiense, estoy más de 50 años de edad. Yo vivo en Australia con mi esposo, mis dos hijos y una gata muy querida.

Intensity can be a little confronting for a newcomer, but it is a good place to express an opinion or get into an argument. If there is one thing that Aspies are good at, it is arguing.

Hasta luega. :zoinks:
Title: Re: hello, from Santiago Chile
Post by: Phlexor on March 18, 2009, 12:04:40 AM
Google translate to the rescue.

Where about in Oz do you live?
Title: Re: hello, from Santiago Chile
Post by: SleepyDragon on March 18, 2009, 12:07:16 AM
NSW, in the Illawarra region, not far south of metropolitan Sydney.
Title: Re: hello, from Santiago Chile
Post by: Phlexor on March 18, 2009, 12:14:36 AM
NSW, in the Illawarra region, not far south of metropolitan Sydney.

Sorry  :evillaugh:

Melbourne lad here.  :green:
Title: Re: hello, from Santiago Chile
Post by: SleepyDragon on March 18, 2009, 12:25:14 AM
Melbourne, you say? Poor bugger. >:D

Our part of the country was badly affected by the Black Christmas bushfires of 2004, but we seemed to have escaped unscathed from the recent flooding, cyclones, fires, etc. that everyone has been copping to the north and south of us. Probably only a matter of time till the fuel loads here are back up to dangerous levels, though.
Title: Re: hello, from Santiago Chile
Post by: SovaNu on March 18, 2009, 06:03:15 AM
basically if someone isn't going to accept you as you are, you have no need of them and you should run away quickly before you get involved.

and i hate women like that. i just don't see what men see in them.

Why oh why does everybody consider this such a negative trait? Self-improvement is part and parcel of who I am. I expect as much from my partner, and I would be bored as hell with somebody who did not expect the same of me.

In all the whining of people who feel like they can't be accepted for being themselves, where is the ambition to become something more?

i didn't mean it like that. like ode said you can only change you. and you, general you, imo should accept your partner as they are if they don't want to change, it's a take it or leave it deal with people most part. people should change for themselves anyway, not for someone else or it's not real.

of course you should be honest with your partner if you wish them to make changes or want to encourage them and otherwise it'll just fester beneath the surface. but it sounds like blizzard's women just wanted the idea of him and not the real him, or wanted to use him. he said they wanted to take his money etc. as a strong independent woman you surely object to that? :P
Title: Re: hello, from Santiago Chile
Post by: Phlexor on March 18, 2009, 06:17:59 AM
Melbourne, you say? Poor bugger. >:D

Our part of the country was badly affected by the Black Christmas bushfires of 2004, but we seemed to have escaped unscathed from the recent flooding, cyclones, fires, etc. that everyone has been copping to the north and south of us. Probably only a matter of time till the fuel loads here are back up to dangerous levels, though.

Get your marshmellows ready
Title: Re: hello, from Santiago Chile
Post by: Pyraxis on March 18, 2009, 06:37:30 AM
of course you should be honest with your partner if you wish them to make changes or want to encourage them and otherwise it'll just fester beneath the surface. but it sounds like blizzard's women just wanted the idea of him and not the real him, or wanted to use him. he said they wanted to take his money etc. as a strong independent woman you surely object to that? :P

LOL, yeah, I'm not trying to defend the character of blizzard's women.

It can fester under the surface when your partner isn't willing to encourage you as well. Like if whenever you try to do something new, they complain that you're not spending enough time with them anymore or something.
Title: Re: hello, from Santiago Chile
Post by: SovaNu on March 18, 2009, 06:42:06 AM
true enough. like you said it's all about balance.
Title: Re: hello, from Santiago Chile
Post by: driftingblizzard on March 18, 2009, 09:34:11 AM
These post are great!  Brought a smile to my face and even a laugh.

I'm all for imprvovement, both that of myself and my partner.  But when it came down to it, I guess it was easier for them to switch partners than to work on evolving.  (New partners are less demanding and much more forgiving and giving.).  I just got tired of being a doormat/ATM/babysitter/etc.
Title: Re: hello, from Santiago Chile
Post by: Tristeza on March 18, 2009, 01:22:24 PM
those new partners won't be forgiving and giving for too long, either.  everyone gets tired of being used after awhile.

i love that saying "no matter how hot they are, someone else out there is sick and tired of their shit."
Title: Re: hello, from Santiago Chile
Post by: Phlexor on March 18, 2009, 05:43:05 PM
That's why you have to set the ground rules from the start.
Title: Re: hello, from Santiago Chile
Post by: driftingblizzard on March 20, 2009, 10:48:14 AM
That's why you have to set the ground rules from the start.

Oh my poor dissillusioned, idealistic bastard.   What have they done to your brain?

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Title: Re: hello, from Santiago Chile
Post by: driftingblizzard on March 20, 2009, 10:50:13 AM
Rules are for people who plan to lose.
Title: Re: hello, from Santiago Chile
Post by: Tristeza on March 20, 2009, 11:49:21 AM
according to the current issue of Psychology Today, here are the top five complaints men and women have about each other.

men's complaints about women:

- the silent treatment
- bringing up things he's done in the distant past
- being too hot or too cold
- being critical
- being stubborn and refusing to give in

women's complaints about men:

- forgetting important dates, like birthdays & anniversaries
- not working hard at his job
- noisily burping or passing gas
- staring at other women
- being stubborn and refusing to give in

lol at how stupid most of the women's complaints are.
Title: Re: hello, from Santiago Chile
Post by: driftingblizzard on March 20, 2009, 02:06:14 PM
according to the current issue of Psychology Today, here are the top five complaints men and women have about each other.

men's complaints about women:

- the silent treatment
- bringing up things he's done in the distant past
- being too hot or too cold
- being critical
- being stubborn and refusing to give in

women's complaints about men:

- forgetting important dates, like birthdays & anniversaries
- not working hard at his job
- noisily burping or passing gas
- staring at other women
- being stubborn and refusing to give in

lol at how stupid most of the women's complaints are.

I could stop burping for the right girl.
Title: Re: hello, from Santiago Chile
Post by: SovaNu on March 20, 2009, 02:07:04 PM
i burp loudly a lot. :)
Title: Re: hello, from Santiago Chile
Post by: TheoK on March 20, 2009, 02:23:10 PM
After all your beer. :toporly:
Title: Re: hello, from Santiago Chile
Post by: Tristeza on March 20, 2009, 02:23:24 PM
I could stop burping for the right girl.
don't do it - holding in gas is dangerous.  :P

i wouldn't give up burping and farting for anyone.
Title: Re: hello, from Santiago Chile
Post by: Phlexor on March 20, 2009, 11:13:29 PM
That's why you have to set the ground rules from the start.

Oh my poor dissillusioned, idealistic bastard.   What have they done to your brain?

Okay then, everyone who's happily married put their hand up. Thought not  :green:
Title: Re: hello, from Santiago Chile
Post by: SovaNu on March 21, 2009, 01:53:48 AM
I could stop burping for the right girl.
don't do it - holding in gas is dangerous.  :P

it causes farting. :P
Title: Re: hello, from Santiago Chile
Post by: driftingblizzard on March 24, 2009, 10:10:04 AM
I could stop burping for the right girl.
don't do it - holding in gas is dangerous.  :P

it causes farting. :P
When I have to, I have to.  But I don't do either very much.  My tolerance from a girl doing it is proportional to her hotness.  tbh.
Title: Re: hello, from Santiago Chile
Post by: TheoK on March 24, 2009, 10:13:54 AM
This girl is beautiful enough to fart in my face while giving her a rimjob.  :P

(http://partmule.com/blog16/wp-content/uploads/2007/11/elin-grindemyr-3.jpg)
Title: Re: hello, from Santiago Chile
Post by: SovaNu on March 24, 2009, 10:18:48 AM
oh thank you, i was needing some boobage. :P
Title: Re: hello, from Santiago Chile
Post by: TheoK on March 24, 2009, 10:20:21 AM
She's a Swede! :toporly:
Title: Re: hello, from Santiago Chile
Post by: Dayko on March 25, 2009, 02:41:22 PM
are getting involved with psychology, that is a harsh road to get involved
Title: Re: hello, from Santiago Chile
Post by: SovaNu on March 26, 2009, 09:13:44 PM
(http://pix.motivatedphotos.com/2009/3/8/633721399819624760-lesbians.jpg)
Title: Re: hello, from Santiago Chile
Post by: renaeden on March 27, 2009, 05:21:08 AM
Lower back problems?
Title: Re: hello, from Santiago Chile
Post by: Eclair on April 05, 2009, 09:02:58 AM
lol  is not sexy but  is  what can remember easily and   what identify me from the rest

Don't worry about them. Francisco is a sexy name. I'll combine the two because it makes you sound cute....

Scandisko Francisco  :-*

Welcome.

Title: Re: hello, from Santiago Chile
Post by: SovaNu on April 05, 2009, 09:21:25 AM
i was only trying to help. ::)

there's another twat with a mechanical bot name. scandisko should ask out key stats, they seem to have similar interests. :P
Title: Re: hello, from Santiago Chile
Post by: Dayko on April 05, 2009, 09:29:50 AM
why always seeing the  side B or the tape?

is not and i am not any bot i am an human of flesh and bones not an computer the  o in the final was  an typing  error, why always  see the B side of the things, why not just enjoy the life and stop of    annoy to people with lateral  thoughts
Title: Re: hello, from Santiago Chile
Post by: Eclair on April 05, 2009, 09:30:43 AM
i was only trying to help. ::)

there's another twat with a mechanical bot name. scandisko should ask out key stats, they seem to have similar interests. :P

You just want to see boys kiss...I know your game  :laugh:
Title: Re: hello, from Santiago Chile
Post by: Eclair on April 05, 2009, 09:33:24 AM
why always seeing the  side B or the tape?

is not and i am not any bot i am an human of flesh and bones not an computer the  o in the final was  an typing  error, why always  see the B side of the things, why not just enjoy the life and stop of    annoy to people with lateral  thoughts

Yes, post a photo so us ladies can make sure you are of flesh and bone x
Title: Re: hello, from Santiago Chile
Post by: TheoK on April 05, 2009, 11:45:25 AM
Is he a bot or is he not?  :borg: :tinfoil: :arrr:
Title: Re: hello, from Santiago Chile
Post by: SovaNu on April 05, 2009, 07:57:15 PM
ya got me, eclair. :laugh:

i like this b side analogy, very technical for a human being. ;)
Title: Re: hello, from Santiago Chile
Post by: Dayko on April 05, 2009, 09:46:47 PM
(http://farm4.static.flickr.com/3088/3363981801_8a72cf148c_b.jpg)

that it is me

sorry i am not an bot or computer ladies

Title: Re: hello, from Santiago Chile
Post by: Callaway on April 05, 2009, 10:19:54 PM
Nice picture, Francisco.

 :plus:
Title: Re: hello, from Santiago Chile
Post by: Tristeza on April 05, 2009, 10:24:36 PM
great to see you, francisco!   santiago's lookin' good, too.  ;D
Title: Re: hello, from Santiago Chile
Post by: TheoK on April 06, 2009, 12:19:13 AM
Nice. Looks like Venezuela.  8)
Title: Re: hello, from Santiago Chile
Post by: Eclair on April 06, 2009, 03:06:28 AM
Now, if I could just get everybody to post the pics I would like to see, that would be awesome  8)

Thanks Francisco...I knew you weren't a bot.

Title: Re: hello, from Santiago Chile
Post by: TheoK on April 06, 2009, 03:11:11 AM
I just send face pics in mails.  8)
Title: Re: hello, from Santiago Chile
Post by: Dayko on April 06, 2009, 09:12:12 PM
can i ask where seen that  look as Venezuela and   second  what pics you was seeing?

Title: Re: hello, from Santiago Chile
Post by: SovaNu on April 07, 2009, 03:31:28 AM
why's there a roadsign pointing to colorado?
Title: Re: hello, from Santiago Chile
Post by: TheoK on April 07, 2009, 04:24:38 AM
why's there a roadsign pointing to colorado?

There are places called Colorado in South America too. It's a Spanish word that means "red coloured". Colorado in the US was originally Mexican.  :asthing:
Title: Re: hello, from Santiago Chile
Post by: Dayko on April 07, 2009, 03:15:58 PM
Hello, well Colorado is an spanish word that mean Red,  well that roadsign  say Cerro  Colorado, Colorado Mountain , but there is an street  with that name, that mean that the out to the Cerro Colorado  street is there where the  arrows indicate.

Title: Re: hello, from Santiago Chile
Post by: SovaNu on April 08, 2009, 06:17:49 AM
color reddo :zoinks:
Title: Re: hello, from Santiago Chile
Post by: Eclair on April 08, 2009, 06:24:32 AM
I just send face pics in mails.  8)

You posted a face pic on here already.

Title: Re: hello, from Santiago Chile
Post by: TheoK on April 08, 2009, 07:00:19 AM
 :lol:
Title: Re: hello, from Santiago Chile
Post by: McGiver on March 03, 2010, 10:35:58 PM
Hello everyone:

well i am somewhat new in here,



well my name is Francisco and i am from Santiago Chile, i am 25 years old and well i get in here by a friend that  he  suggested me the site,i have asperger i really the how knew that was very rare, well many years ago i  meet somebody in the internet, we get very good friends and well one day he told me that he could have asperger and that time get shocked, later when researched that i noticed had the same symptoms of asperger and well to me were relieving because there was the explanation of things that even myself i do not understanded, as  avoid eye contact etc etc and many as type of obsessions  too, well  and just  is just great know that am not alone in this, also get a depression too later by some reasons that i even do not know and just  been  in treatment on and off 3 years , about the friend that  made me get awake to the reality i  just keep friendship with this  now 4  years ago and just is wonderful, because not know the reason.lol

well just i just in the time i meet some folks with asperger but not in my home country, i meet thems in USA and just is good and nice too.

well i really do not know how end my introduction, just  everyone if want do questions or whatever i am open to response thems.

greetings scandisk,




hope everything is well with you and your family.
Title: Re: hello, from Santiago Chile
Post by: Callaway on March 04, 2010, 09:13:26 AM
Me too.  Have you heard from him since the earthquake, Kevv?
Title: Re: hello, from Santiago Chile
Post by: renaeden on March 05, 2010, 11:55:19 PM
He hasn't.

I hope scandisk is ok.
Title: Re: hello, from Santiago Chile
Post by: Dayko on March 08, 2010, 10:35:17 AM
Hello everyone:
 
well first at all want to say thank you to everyone that posted here showing  their concern about what been happening in my country, well will do an little introduction to everyone new members,  my name is Francisco and i live in Santiago, Chile the country capital.
well will say about my experience with the earthquake happened in Chile  the saturday february 27 at 3 am had an duration of 7 minutes.if the moderator of the group let me do that.
well i woked up because my family  felt the earthquake at first time started of soft way was of wave the expansion  of the quake later increased the strength and well my house is of two floors and had to get between the output of the bedroom and was my hands holding between the frame of the door and the stair banister , and tried of quiet to my family  because if we were in the stair  with our total weights and the strenght of the quake the stair would colapsed  for lucky  that does not happened, later when the quake stopped  we going to the first floor and i was the first in go  downstairs to see what happened the kitchen the furnitures was in the floor glasses broken bathroom all the things in the floor broken but the appliances do not was destroyed, maybe because the furnitures were was the ampliances had wheels so just get moved with the shake and well we activated our  emergency  plan  the radio powered with batteries i turned on  and tuned in the first station  that were broadcasting the incident.
Chile is an Country that occur  earthquakes so  we my family atleast was ready to start our emergency plan  have  an defined area safe in our patio etc etc.
we were awake that day all night long  we just wanted that appear the sunlight and well the second night we going with the matress in the first floor for sleep   in case of shakes we can evacuate inmediatelly the house.
and well my  house do not had any structural damage our neighborns  brick walls  is 3 in my street that are in risk of colapse is with some wood bars to try of avoid that and with an yellow line that say danger , the power and water supply  was cut the water supply get restored on sunday afternoon, the power supply was restored on friday but just because  my mom use an bipap machine for an sleep apnea  and  i called to the municipality of my town for report on wednesday that,at first they do not wanted enter my report so i pushed and get my report entered, at the two hours get an call to the fixed line  phone the manager of the electric company asking me an dumb question, " if i had power supply, i answered no and she said that my area was  now in the priority list, the thursday with the desperation i saw some areas  of my town nearest to home  with power supply  at 50 meters of distance 0.0310 miles  so on night  took my cell phone and took an picture showing the contrast between my area without power supply and the area with power supply and sent via email  with my cell phone the picture to the only radiostation that was broadcasting non stop everything and  saying all the truth about  what were happening and were allowing that the people   get touch with them to  report problems due the quake,  locate to an relative or family member that is in the southern area   from the regions of Libertador Bernardo O Higgins till the region of the los rios, regions= states to us.also i was on monday to the power supply company office to  put my report  but had to lie to the person that was giving the numbers of attention to an assistant  and  of that way  could report to the office directly  about the situation, if i said the truth the guy would told me that should wait because not were the only. ok agree but my case was very special

we later of the  quake we  collected water in some pails before that the water supply was cut, the next day i were called from my work to  help to fix the showroom i work as stocker and study at same time in the college and was shocking see everything in the  floor gondolas  that was completelly broken etc etc, i just did my best for try of accomplish with my citizenship duty in emergency settings.
 
i saw in my work that the gondolas are empty  i work for an biggest chain of supermarkets  that now were purchased or merged with wall mart  and the trucks from central warehouse  just essential things but are not enough in fact are just trading things from Argentina because the industry too  some their mchinery are broken and the airport and ports  are seriously damaged and for trade new machines or repair replacement  will be in one or even more than two months.
 
i think that as pushed so much  get results  in my favor, my mother  can not live without the BIPAP machine on night.and had to do something  because of other way would still without electricity supply in fact are many areas of Santiago and others regions affected with the quake  that still without power supply , now i knew that lack transformers  because many transformers was burned and have to be imported because is not even industry that manufacturate transformers or one that have capacity of manufacturate the enough devices to the 6 regions and thousand of devices.is right now shortage of basic things like tea,coffee,milk,flour,candles,batteries, water in bottle,etc etc essential  things.also are speculating with the products  values in little business  even the bread from an value of 1.5 dollars  upper to 3 dollars the kilo and others business near of home was selling the bread by piece   but to an highest value. we currently are just purchasing now bread in the supermarket.
 
 
now well  i have to say that this earthquake will never be erased of my memory  destroyed houses,buildings killed people by the not quick action of  our government and  not accomplishing the anti seismic laws of build houses and buildings.
 
 
well my doctor that i visit was called also by the army to help to the area affected by the quake.
 
sorry if the  post is not well structurated just am nervous because  still having quakes of lower strenght.
 
well one more time  thank you  by  the concern shown by the members here.
 
the friday get restored the power supply during that time i had my cell phone turned off for preservate energy in my battery  because the networks were  just not working was continously looking up network and  well better was turned off for save energy and just turn on  for emergency calls.

take care

Francisco

Title: Re: hello, from Santiago Chile
Post by: Parts on March 08, 2010, 10:57:37 AM
Glad your okay.  Your post unstructured?  I'd hate to see what mine would look like after going through that good work :plus:
Title: Re: hello, from Santiago Chile
Post by: odeon on March 08, 2010, 01:04:09 PM
Glad you're OK.
Title: Re: hello, from Santiago Chile
Post by: 'andersom' on March 08, 2010, 04:27:38 PM
Glad your okay.  Your post unstructured?  I'd hate to see what mine would look like after going through that good work :plus:

Indeed.

Good to see a sign of you Francisco.
Title: Re: hello, from Santiago Chile
Post by: SleepyDragon on March 08, 2010, 04:37:14 PM
Good to hear from you, and well done giving the electricity company a bit of a push to restore supply to your area.  :thumbup:
Title: Re: hello, from Santiago Chile
Post by: Osensitive1 on March 08, 2010, 04:58:31 PM
Pleasure to meet you. Good to read you're okay.
Title: Re: hello, from Santiago Chile
Post by: Scrapheap on March 08, 2010, 05:12:43 PM
Good to hear you're OK.

Why the fuck did you guys build your country right next to a major Subduction Zone?? ?? ?? ?? ??
Title: Re: hello, from Santiago Chile
Post by: Parts on March 08, 2010, 05:43:45 PM
Your should get some deep cycle batteries and an adapter for the BIPAP once things are okay they see them here
Title: Re: hello, from Santiago Chile
Post by: Callaway on March 08, 2010, 09:32:02 PM
I'm glad that you and your family are OK, Francisco.
Title: Re: hello, from Santiago Chile
Post by: Leto729 on March 08, 2010, 10:14:03 PM
Glad You are okay. Been worried a lot.
Title: Re: hello, from Santiago Chile
Post by: Dayko on May 14, 2010, 11:42:46 PM
Good to hear you're OK.

Why the fuck did you guys build your country right next to a major Subduction Zone?? ?? ?? ?? ??

who knows we should to ask that to the spaniards

Title: Re: hello, from Santiago Chile
Post by: Scrapheap on May 15, 2010, 01:27:01 AM
Good to hear you're OK.

Why the fuck did you guys build your country right next to a major Subduction Zone?? ?? ?? ?? ??

who knows we should to ask that to the spaniards



The Spanish control plate tectonics??

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=P1iBbBL1040

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XnS49c9KZw8
Title: Re: hello, from Santiago Chile
Post by: Dayko on May 15, 2010, 09:47:19 AM
Good to hear you're OK.

Why the fuck did you guys build your country right next to a major Subduction Zone?? ?? ?? ?? ??

who knows we should to ask that to the spaniards



The Spanish control plate tectonics??

lol,  when the spaniards come to those lands to mostly take the  resources of Chile, they just wanted do that and send those resources extracted to the kingdom of spain, but for unknown reasons  they stayed in the country, while Pedro de Valdivia started the colonization of cities the first of them was Santiago,  he named at first as Santiago de Nueva extremadura in honor to his home city in spain, and of that way started the foundation and wars by colonize the country, the ones that wanted be controlled by spain,and those who wanted be independient of spain.

those times nobody knows about earthquakes and such events or natural catasthrophes




http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=P1iBbBL1040

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XnS49c9KZw8
Title: Re: hello, from Santiago Chile
Post by: DirtDawg on May 29, 2010, 01:41:47 PM


Go away, Chile.
Title: Re: hello, from Santiago Chile
Post by: odeon on December 24, 2014, 02:08:12 AM
This was an unlikely thread for necrobumping.
Title: Re: hello, from Santiago Chile
Post by: Gopher Gary on December 24, 2014, 07:14:23 PM
This guy's birthday is in a few days.  :orly:
Title: Re: hello, from Santiago Chile
Post by: Genesis on December 24, 2014, 07:40:30 PM
 :hyke:
Title: Re: hello, from Santiago Chile
Post by: odeon on December 25, 2014, 02:14:49 AM
 :flyingbat:
Title: Re: hello, from Santiago Chile
Post by: Hannah on December 29, 2014, 09:11:57 AM
beyond being confused at the recent posts...welcome to our crypt...we don't bite (much)  :laugh:
Title: Re: hello, from Santiago Chile
Post by: odeon on December 29, 2014, 11:38:27 PM
You should probably check the dates of the posts you read. Just sayin'.