Here 'loverboy' means something quite different. Either a joking reference to someone being batshit crazy about someone, or taking the piss out of (male) homos.
And what you describe...that is some fucked up shit. I don't deny that my 'type' is 'spesh as hell', but if I'm with someone, be they aspie or LFA, it's because both she and I WANT to be together, and quite honestly, if someone were to take advantage of a LFA/MR partner of mine, if that was who I was with (currently I'm single), I wouldn't hesitate to let loose with the very worst in me, I look out for anyone I'm with, no matter their abilities or mentality, but if someone is especially vulnerable, then that goes tenfold.
Spesh as hell just happens to be...guess you could look at it as being more attracted to my own kind.