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Offline Al Swearegen

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Re: Can Aspies go to parties and be married?
« Reply #180 on: February 28, 2008, 01:55:34 AM »
actually, sir les if you would read the thread from start to finish you would find that i didnt embaress myself at all and just gave my opinion.

what happend was, you and everyone else felt threatend because i said you (they) didnt have arseburgers.

and i still dont

Really? Holy shit I was too busy laughing at you to register that I felt threatened. I have the diagnosis and the signed off paper from a psychologist to "verify" but firstly he may have it wrong (and you are right - worth a giggle in itself) and secondly if he has it wrong and I am just your average everyday fuckwit, I would be none the wiser and would not give a shit any way.

At which point do I feel threatened? If so by what? Asperger's? Arse Burgers? You.....Please don't seriously say I am threatened by you?  :LMAO:

Where was I? Oh yeah the owning thing. I admit I did not read it from start to finish. I was not too emotionally invested in the argument.
You were deluded into thinking everyone was in a clique because they liked each other and not you? You had some kind of a beef with Odeon or DirtDawg? You had burgers on your arse? I dunno?

It did not look like it was going to get anymore interesting by seeing more of your posts in it. So I admit I may have lost a little in translation. That"owning everyone" bit I may have missed. I am sure it was a sick burn that devastated the membership.....or not.

As for not embarrassing yourself? I feel your pain. The inability to feel embarrassment when you ought to is a tough one. May be a comprehension thing.

Good luck with your Burgers...hope some hemorrhoid cream will fix it.
« Last Edit: February 28, 2008, 01:59:42 AM by Sir_Les_Patterson »
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Re: Can Aspies go to parties and be married?
« Reply #181 on: February 28, 2008, 02:08:46 AM »
actually, sir les if you would read the thread from start to finish you would find that i didnt embaress myself at all and just gave my opinion.

what happend was, you and everyone else felt threatend because i said you (they) didnt have arseburgers.

and i still dont

You still don't what?

comminicate well?

i think he meant embarass himself.

I think he meant "use apostrophes".
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Re: Can Aspies go to parties and be married?
« Reply #182 on: February 28, 2008, 02:45:47 AM »
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Re: Can Aspies go to parties and be married?
« Reply #183 on: June 25, 2008, 04:02:41 AM »
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Can Aspies go to parties and be married?
I don't see any reason why they can not get married and go to parties. I think the main difference is that they usually won't feel as comfortable doing it as the average NT.

I do have a partner and we live together as if we are married. The main reasons we are not married is because I don't see any benefit to it and I *really* don't want to have a wedding party. I am sure the family would do their best to surprise us with all kinds of funny wedding "thingies" *  :'(
(* sorry, I have no idea what the correct English word would would be). 

Another reason is that I just don't like to do "official" things and will avoid it if I can. I would marry my partner if she would insist though (but luckily she doesn't, phew!!)


I go to parties, some because I want to, but most because my partner wants me to go. Some parties are horrifying (chit chat parties with little booze and people I only know vaguely), some are fun. The fun parties are usually the ones with people I know well, and of course where there's lots of booze and snacks ;-)