I don't think it's the smartest thing in the world, but I was 32 when I had my son, so in hindsight I can say I see the wisdom in having kids when you're young.
Marriage I don't think matters, my ex wasn't there much anyways, and half the time it probably would have been better if he wasn't, he was a bigger child and alot harder to take care of than my son has ever been. :lol: