why do you assume my choice of title/avatar/whatever is that much of a reflection of who i "claim" to be?
Why shouldn't I? Everything we do and say is in some fashion a reflection of ourselves.
or one of our personae, fantasy or real.
And such personae, fantasy or real, are also a reflection of ourselves. How does that change what I said?
you said it was i claimed to be. a reflection and a claim are not the same thing.
i suspect you do, all of the time. but there's the jaganari window (or whatever it's called), and no-one gets past that.
Google's not being much help. Care to elaborate?
i may have the name wrong (i often get that wrong, for some reason). it's the four part "window", which refers to what parts of us are able to be seen, and by whom, and runs thusly:
i see, you see. i see, you don't see. i don't see, you see. i don't see, you don't see.
there are only two options where we can see ourselves.