tired. I stayed up WAY too late this morning (3:30 and got up at 7:00.) Will go to bed soon.
cbc - congratulations on the good work.
Celticgoddess - If you'd really like to piss him off, smile and say "thank you" in the same sweet tone of voice for everything that upsets you. I did that with someone at work and it drove them bonkers until they left me alone. but then your ex is probably better at pushing your buttons than that person was.