How are you feeling right now?

[Mr Smith]

I try, and fail. If I don't fail, I completely embarass yourself. I am envious of most the other females here. They don't have this sort of problem.

O rly?  I loath myself.

Well I don't know you very well, but from what i've gathered the majority of the other female posters don't have this problem. You're also younger than me so it's not really a problem.

[TheoK]

[Blasted]

I try, and fail. If I don't fail, I completely embarass yourself. I am envious of most the other females here. They don't have this sort of problem.

O rly?  I loath myself.

You're also younger than me so it's not really a problem.

Oh how nice 

[TheOtherWindow]

I try, and fail. If I don't fail, I completely embarass yourself. I am envious of most the other females here. They don't have this sort of problem.

O rly?  I loath myself.

Well I don't know you very well, but from what i've gathered the majority of the other female posters don't have this problem. You're also younger than me so it's not really a problem.

 

I'm off to bed, but just wanted to point out that many women, as a whole, suffer from self-image issues and self-loathing, and this goes doubly so for groups of people who've typically experienced bullying, such as aspies. So it would be a safe assumption that many female posters here DO actually experience these problems.

Also, being younger certainly doesn't make the issue any less severe or real.

[TheoK]

Fiono is a fox - and a supp socket! 

[GalileoAce]

I try, and fail. If I don't fail, I completely embarass yourself. I am envious of most the other females here. They don't have this sort of problem.

O rly?  I loath myself.

Well I don't know you very well, but from what i've gathered the majority of the other female posters don't have this problem. You're also younger than me so it's not really a problem.

Yes...Because no one else has any problems their lives are full of rainbows and unicorns... FFS seriously?

[Mr Smith]

I try, and fail. If I don't fail, I completely embarass yourself. I am envious of most the other females here. They don't have this sort of problem.

O rly?  I loath myself.

You're also younger than me so it's not really a problem.

Oh how nice  

The problem is not "loathing yourself".

Sorry if you thought thats what I meant. Loathing yourself is a problem no matter what age you are.  

It's not really something which I feel comfortable making public though, as i'm not sure who to trust.

[Blasted]

I try, and fail. If I don't fail, I completely embarass yourself. I am envious of most the other females here. They don't have this sort of problem.

O rly?  I loath myself.

You're also younger than me so it's not really a problem.

Oh how nice 

The problem is not "loathing yourself".

Sorry if you thought thats what I meant. Loathing yourself is a problem no matter what age you are. 

It's not really something which I feel comfortable making pubic though, as i'm not sure who to trust.

Now that's different 

I'd like to say you could trust me since I could relate to a lot of the things you feel but then again, we haven't had the best track record when it comes to discussions about body issues.  I hope you do eventually learn to trust people more.

[SleepyDragon]

I try, and fail. If I don't fail, I completely embarass yourself. I am envious of most the other females here. They don't have this sort of problem.

Oh yes we do! At best, we might have a bit more experience at pretending that, *ahem* Oh yes! I planned to do that all along! Make a mistake? Moi?

We all screw up at some point in our lives. We all repeat the same errors over and over until we've learned better. If we didn't, we wouldn't be human. A certain amount of self-criticism is inevitable. It helps, also, to see the funny side and to laugh at your own absurdities. If you are depressed, get help; that shit can kill you if it's left untreated.

[Adam]

Most of the women I know have (or have had) pretty bad body issues.
And tbh it's usually the ones who ARE actually attractive.

[Parts]

Anxious

[Adam]

parts, this is the ladies' body issues thread - take your anxiety somewhere else

[Adam]

I'm feeling like I wanna go to the beach. celticgoddess's pics make me wish I lived near a good beach. Goddamm crappy Inglund!

['andersom']

I try, and fail. If I don't fail, I completely embarass yourself. I am envious of most the other females here. They don't have this sort of problem.

Oh yes we do! At best, we might have a bit more experience at pretending that, *ahem* Oh yes! I planned to do that all along! Make a mistake? Moi?

We all screw up at some point in our lives. We all repeat the same errors over and over until we've learned better. If we didn't, we wouldn't be human. A certain amount of self-criticism is inevitable. It helps, also, to see the funny side and to laugh at your own absurdities. If you are depressed, get help; that shit can kill you if it's left untreated.

 

 
being a little forgiving towards yourself, and laugh about absurdities does help.

['andersom']

Itchy, bloody musquitos.