Would it matter if I said that you should use whatever means you have at your disposal to achieve your life dreams??
Yes.
I'm not quite sure you mean that literally; for example I've been offered the chance to sleep my way into a game job in the past and turned it down. Would you have had me take it?
But I respect your opinion enough to take it into consideration.
Or would I be sycophantic and a sell out for daring to suggest such a thing.??
Then again, I care and obviously I'm such a fucking sell out and, horror of horrors, moderate and pragmatic. 
I also call myself pragmatic, which is one reason I get so confused by all these compunctions. I'm already a sellout; it's too late to worry about that. I just find it amusing that the path of least resistance, in my case, is to achieve a worthy end through pragmatic means. The values that declare the goal worthy condemn the most effective way of achieving it, and there's something rather backwards about that, which I haven't figured out yet.
