fuck it.
if someone is being offensive then post their pms to you.
post your replies, then their replies.
if someone want to harrass someone else via pm, i suggest we take that safeguard away. but i don't think it should apply to previous abuses. what would that be, ex post facto?
anyways, bring up the subject in the voting booth and start a poll. and there is a function where you can ignore certain people from pm'ing you. i doint know how to do it, but someone else might.
there are options, triste. make the system work to your benefit.