indeed. i'm a complete scruffbag, and i'd love to be used to spending someone else's money.
It's not all it's cracked up to be, because then other women (and some men) resent you and say nasty things about you. Lucifer, you may be a strong and confident enough woman not to give a damn, but I never was. All my solid and enduring friendships have been with women considered to be stylish and attractive. All of my negative experiences with females have been with women who resented my body and my financial/marital situation. Add my cognitive and attention problems into the mix, and voila...a spoiled little blonde bitch. They had no problems putting me down every chance they got. Many even displayed an air of entitlement about it...righteous indignation, I'd say.
"All people are cruel...some more, some less." Ok, rant over.
