Do you get a headache after socialising all day?

[ALLDAYGLOWRANDY]

Here is mine (blanked a few things out  ):

That is very considerate blanking out your therapist, psychology is not an exact science, people can make mistakes, and it can cost them a significant portion of their jobs.  Stupid people without apparent disabilities jump to conclusions about certain things, messes it up for the rest of us.

I only get confused when I read your posts.

Stress, so much, you just wouldn't believe, its no wonder that their are errors confusing you.  I am sorry.

[GalileoAce]

Here is mine (blanked a few things out  ):

That is very considerate blanking out your therapist, psychology is not an exact science, people can make mistakes, and it can cost them a significant portion of their jobs.  Stupid people without apparent disabilities jump to conclusions about certain things, messes it up for the rest of us.

I only get confused when I read your posts.

Stress, so much, you just wouldn't believe, its no wonder that their are errors confusing you.  I am sorry.

"their are"?

[P7PSP]

Yes, socializing gets on my nerves after a while.

[Natalia Evans]

My mother told me I needed to work more on my social skills by getting real life friends. I need to stay with my family and talk to them, not run off to the computer. I told her I have always been that way. I would eat and then go back to doing my own thing, playing with my toys or watching TV. Now it's computer. I think it's boring to listen to people talk about things you aren't interested in.

Does it bug her I do that? No, she says she understands.

She thinks I'm isolated and lonely. So, I'm fine with that. I have my boyfriend.

[duncvis]

I think its hard for a lot of 'normal' people to understand that some of us like being isolated.

[Phlexor]

Or need to be isolated.

[enronh]

I think its hard for a lot of 'normal' people to understand that some of us like being isolated.

Yeah thats true. They think 'fixing' is required.

I like my alone time. When there's no one around to get the wrong end of the stick.

[DirtDawg]

There are reasons why spaying and neutering of animals are commonly known as "fixing."

[DirtDawg]

Or need to be isolated.

Amen, brother. Roger, that!

[Natalia Evans]

I think its hard for a lot of 'normal' people to understand that some of us like being isolated.

Yeah thats true. They think 'fixing' is required.

I like my alone time. When there's no one around to get the wrong end of the stick.

What exactly is fixing?


What I see is someone having an operation. Now that's fixing.

Everyone has things they need to work on. If fixing is where you are working on something to be a better person, then everyone needs fixing.

[odeon]

I think its hard for a lot of 'normal' people to understand that some of us like being isolated.

QFT

Or need to be isolated.

QFT

[Lucifer]

I think its hard for a lot of 'normal' people to understand that some of us like being isolated.

QFT

Or need to be isolated.

QFT

it's nice to have a choice, though.  "the grass is always greener", etc., but i haven't got family and friends to call on when i need not to be isolated.

[DirtDawg]

I think its hard for a lot of 'normal' people to understand that some of us like being isolated.

Yeah thats true. They think 'fixing' is required.

I like my alone time. When there's no one around to get the wrong end of the stick.

What exactly is fixing?


What I see is someone having an operation. Now that's fixing.

Everyone has things they need to work on. If fixing is where you are working on something to be a better person, then everyone needs fixing.

Think about some of the people you know. I think we all know some control freaks who are constantly trying to make things around them fit their personal molds.
If I was such a control freak or co-dependent type, I would not be satisfied to allow you to live your life your way. I could not feel good about myself, until I "help you get better."  I would have to make you act or live just "like me" or at least the way I expect you to act, so you can be "fixed."  If you are not exactly like I expect you to be, then I must "fix"  you.
I fucking hate people like that!

There is quite a difference in actually helping people and "fixing"  them. Helping someone is about the person who needs help. Fixing someone is about the person doing the "fixing."

[odeon]

I think its hard for a lot of 'normal' people to understand that some of us like being isolated.

QFT

Or need to be isolated.

QFT

it's nice to have a choice, though.  "the grass is always greener", etc., but i haven't got family and friends to call on when i need not to be isolated.

True, too.

I realise that isolation is not always a choice one makes, but in this company it's often voluntary.

[enronh]

I think its hard for a lot of 'normal' people to understand that some of us like being isolated.

Yeah thats true. They think 'fixing' is required.

I like my alone time. When there's no one around to get the wrong end of the stick.

What exactly is fixing?


What I see is someone having an operation. Now that's fixing.

Everyone has things they need to work on. If fixing is where you are working on something to be a better person, then everyone needs fixing.

Naa not an operation. Like what DD just said. Freaks with no understanding of the situation butting in where they don't belong, trying to control everyting aound them. Thats all.