this is intensity so let me be frank.
i would rather have my girls be gay then end up with a black man. i will explain my reasonings if you'd like.
I am very interested in your reasons.
typically, it seems that the black man has very little confidence in himself. and they have fractured egos which stem from the days of slavery. in my observations of humans, i have concluded that the black man (by and large) have the least respect for women. they seem to not have the confidence, or love for themselves, needed to be in a loving two way relationship. teenage pregancy is a problem for all of the races, but seems to be a particular problem in the black community.
now, i do realize that there are fine black men, however i just do not feel that the odds are in their favor if they fall in love with a black man. generally due to confidence in themselves. and their inability to stop using everything else as their excuses for their behaviours and failures.
if it was a white man i would feel confident that i could counsel him. any other colored man for that matter. but, i would fear that a blackman, no matter my reasoning, would reduce my efforts down to racism. i am tired of it, but it seems like the basic reasoning from the black community is that everybody is racist, and out to get them.
i particularily would not want my grandchild instilled with these values.
we can look at neuroman as a prime example of these values. he is a brilliant man, however he is still dogged by racism (or percieved racism). it exists, yes, but, it seems like black people go out and look for it. he has been held back in his life (in my opinion) not because he is black, but because he uses blackness as an excuse.
sorry, i can elaborate more, but i would need more tough questions regarding this. however, my communication skills require the communication to be drawn out of me.
this will serve as a premise, though.
