Hale Bopp is on WP as I type this. I don't know her at all so I'm not going to send her a PM.
Cade, I think is not too taken by McJ.
I sent a PM to Cheesecheese on WP, inviting her.
I think she'd do okay here, in fact, I think people have been more polite here than on WP, which is why I'm still here after 4 days