By creating problems you just make it harder for yourself, and doing it because you are bored is even more disturbing. You don't sound so well. Yes, he has gotten cancer, but as it seems like it right now, so does most people. Sure, it is a tough thing to handle but it has nothing to do with self esteem and happiness (other that happiness might shrink VERY much).
You have no idea how I will handle things when "reality shows"? All I am saying is that instead of being insecure about my body and my everything is that I just feel great about who I am, nothing anyone can say will change it, and trust me people have tried. For all my life I've heard that I'm ugly and stupid, but I don't think so, and that is what really matters.
No, for most people that is on the internet it's either killing time (instead of creating problems for you), meeting new people or just simply job. Or learning something new. If you seriously think that most people isn't well and that's why they are in a forum, then WHY are you hear? What message are you sending to us?