What do people who believe in this stuff think that is?
I mean if I die at the age of 20, and someone I know dies when they're 30 (but they were 20 when I died), would I meet them there and see them as I remembered them before I died, or would they look like they did when they died? That way I wouldn't recognise them.
I don't believe in this stuff so I don't know why it bothers me, I honestly don't believe it at all. But what do people who do believe in it think happens here?
Would you have to die at roughly the same time that the person you care about dies, for you to be able to be with them there/? Or does it all depend on the individual people? Otherwise you could wait for ages and when you die, they'd never recognise you.
I don't believe in all this, but if it were true I'm guessing you would see each other as you remembered each other? And the same would go for other people there?
I know this is a gay queation btw, it's just something that has been bothering me
And I know I didn't phrase it well