I invented nothing, I merely told the truth.
Whether you believe it or not is your problem, not mine.
Repeating that line over and over doesn't make it true, surprisingly.
The question I am curious about is why go to all the trouble to build up a database of everyone's wrong doings. Its not a normal thing to do, is it?
It is a tad obsessive, I will admit.
If I actually did it, it might have been.
You cant even decide if it is a right or wrong thing? Surely if you didnt do it, why can you not at least say its a wrong thing to be doing? Or just maybe, it is because I figured it out correctly.
However, I didn't.
Really? I am not at all convinced.
I already explained why Scrapheap's avatar from when he was calling himself CallawayChrist was saved on my computer.
You mean why you went to the effort of naming and conveniently locating it as well? The only point in doing that is so you can locate it a few months down the line.
I don't have a dossier on Scrapheap and Hadron's allegation that I keep dossiers on everyone is ridiculous.
Well, I suppose you dont keep one on yourself. Although you do keep one on most other members.
Hadron and Calandale repeating the same lie over and over does not make it true.
If it were a lie then yes. That argument could be applied to you here...
It took a while for me to answer because I took my daughter to school and then shortly after I got home from that, I left to go to lunch with my husband. I answered when it was convenient for me to do so. I am really under no obligation to answer Hadron's and Calandale's ridiculous allegations at all, since it only feeds their narcissistic need for attention.
You mean it took you an age to think of a response. It takes 30 seconds to say "I had it saved from earlier so I could post it elsewhere". But it takes longer to think up a lie.
As for narcissism, I suggest you evaluate how insecure you are yourself, before making allegations at others. This attempt to veneer over your own cowardice is rather pathetic, dont you think?
I think that Hadron's assertion that I must be unintelligent or not have a very good memory because I stay home and raise my daughter rather than earn money is insulting to all the intelligent people here who do not work outside the home for whatever reason. Perhaps they choose to raise their children or perhaps they have difficulty finding work that they can do, given the issues of their AS. This does not demonstrate a lack of intelligence. I think that people who choose to stay home and raise their children often believe that caring for their children themselves is more important than earning more money beyond what they feel they actually need to take care of their families. I have noticed that many people here have had problems finding appropriate work for themselves and a lot of us are grossly overqualified for the work that we do find.
Well it is an internet forum. Aspies who have jobs and the like tend not to spend their days whining about not having jobs. They get on with them. I know this is anecdotal, but I know of quite a fair few aspies who are happily working, in relationships and lead relatively normal lives.
I attended university with a National Merit Scholarship and I have two degrees in Chemical Engineering, and I am a stay at home mom. I feel that I'm lucky to have this very important job, that I am good at.
What use is intelligence if you elect not to apply it? In the UK, your two degrees would count as one undergraduate one.
I do have a good memory (which I have never claimed was eidetic), and I am good at finding things, but I don't keep dossiers.
So you are admitting you dont have such a memory. In which case you either have a ridiculous amount of time on your hands to obsessively dig up dirt on people, or have been keeping a dossier. Either way, it reflects very poorly on yourself.
I believe that the closest thing to a dossier that I have on someone is this: I did save a screenshot when I caught Hadron adminning Calandale the second time, when Hadron was an admin and Calandale was not. The reason why I saved it was because, in my experience, Hadron tends to lie when he is confronted with evidence of something wrong that he has done so I thought I might need objective proof in this case. I never posted the screenshot publicly because I believed that it would violate Calandale's privacy, since it had his IP address in it. I also saved a copy of the screen when Hadron adminned Calandale the first time, which I redacted Calandale's IP address from and posted in my Questions For Callaway thread.
So you could re-admin Scrapheap later and blame myself for it. Very clever, and equally very insane. Ever heard of the phrase "this is just an internet forum"? Thought not...
