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Re: Born in the wrong time
« Reply #30 on: December 27, 2007, 10:44:50 AM »
what's really sad is someone who can't accept their orientation.

Same.
in general i dont though, mainly because im atheist and transgendered, so i doubt id manage to fit in too well during most of the times i'd like   :P
I don't recall you saying anything about the transgendered part before.
ive talked about it on wp before and zomg, but i dont do much anymore, too many tossers use it against me when they havent got anything better to insult me with, and my family dont know. so people tend to just assume im gay.

i'd like to hear about your transgenderism. i find it interesting. i think a lot of aspies are transgendered in some ways, but i dunno what you mean when you mean you are transgendered. you mean you're a boy in a girl's body? or maybe between genders?

i feel kind of nebulous about gender. i know i'm a girl and i enjoy girly things but i also enjoy boyish things and i wouldn't mind being a boy. i feel genderless a lot. i exist in my mind. when i exercise i feel more like a girl because i enjoy my girly body. :P
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Re: Born in the wrong time
« Reply #31 on: December 27, 2007, 10:47:23 AM »
in the future people won't be categorized by their genders. i kind of find it offensive we have to tick boxes that say we are girl or boy. what difference does it make? we are individuals and should not be shoved into boxes. they interfere with our growth. they mold us into boringness.
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Re: Born in the wrong time
« Reply #32 on: December 27, 2007, 10:56:33 AM »
i hate that as well. its the thing thats fucked me up most in my life (apart from maybe depression and AS before it was diagnosed)

i feel neither really, but more male than female
i guess i feel male but not in a way that id want an operation or anything

i dont think it should be anyones business but mine (and i guess on my medical records) what sex i am. if i could, id remove it from all records of me. it pisses me off that i always have to fill in gender when signing up to something, or that i had to wear a different uniform to 50% of the people in my school, just because of a physical difference. i dont understand why other people cant see that thats wrong? its treating people differently and forcing people to act different just because of something they happen to be, or society says that they are. all it did was cause me a lot of confusion as a kid and a lot of depression as a teenager

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Re: Born in the wrong time
« Reply #33 on: December 27, 2007, 10:58:02 AM »
and a lot of guilt
and i dont see why people should be guilty of just being what they are, when theyre not doing anything wrong

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Re: Born in the wrong time
« Reply #34 on: December 27, 2007, 11:04:48 AM »
They must THINK that they're doing something
wrong.

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Re: Born in the wrong time
« Reply #35 on: December 27, 2007, 11:07:05 AM »
i dont think im doing anything wrong, although i used to
now i just feel guilty because im not what other people want me to be
i dont think thats wrong though, but it still makes me feel shit

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Re: Born in the wrong time
« Reply #36 on: December 27, 2007, 11:08:15 AM »
Sure. You think that you should be what they
expect. Identifying that is important, I would
guess.

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Re: Born in the wrong time
« Reply #37 on: December 27, 2007, 11:09:56 AM »
i dont think i should though anymore. i think i should just be myself as long as im not harming anyone. but it still doesnt stop me feeling guilty. i dunno what for though. maybe i just felt guilty so long that im just used to it now.

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Re: Born in the wrong time
« Reply #38 on: December 27, 2007, 11:11:45 AM »
Maybe you think that you're harming them?

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Re: Born in the wrong time
« Reply #39 on: December 27, 2007, 11:12:49 AM »
i dont know. i cant think how im harming anyone though. unless just because im not what they want

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Re: Born in the wrong time
« Reply #40 on: December 27, 2007, 11:13:48 AM »
Just that. I don't know.

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Re: Born in the wrong time
« Reply #41 on: December 27, 2007, 11:28:57 AM »
i also feel guilty of not being what others want me to be. even though i deep down know it's not my fault. :( and i should be allowed to be who i am as long as it doesn't hurt anyone.
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Re: Born in the wrong time
« Reply #42 on: December 27, 2007, 11:30:07 AM »
Everything one does or is,
hurts some.

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Re: Born in the wrong time
« Reply #43 on: December 27, 2007, 11:31:08 AM »
who is hurt by my axie avatar?  :P

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Re: Born in the wrong time
« Reply #44 on: December 27, 2007, 11:32:26 AM »
who is hurt by my axie avatar?  :P

Well, at first I had this horrible sick feeling that Lurker was back because it looks like his did, but other than that...   :zoinks:
it is well known that PMS Elle is evil.
I think you'd fit in a 12" or at least a 16" firework mortar
You win this thread because that's most unsettling to even think about.