i hate that as well. its the thing thats fucked me up most in my life (apart from maybe depression and AS before it was diagnosed)
i feel neither really, but more male than female
i guess i feel male but not in a way that id want an operation or anything
i dont think it should be anyones business but mine (and i guess on my medical records) what sex i am. if i could, id remove it from all records of me. it pisses me off that i always have to fill in gender when signing up to something, or that i had to wear a different uniform to 50% of the people in my school, just because of a physical difference. i dont understand why other people cant see that thats wrong? its treating people differently and forcing people to act different just because of something they happen to be, or society says that they are. all it did was cause me a lot of confusion as a kid and a lot of depression as a teenager