Fast-Penta GalileoAce

[GalileoAce]

Still jumping about in a frock?

I don't wear 'frocks', so no
I'm pleased you find my identity issues hilarious, glad to have brightened your day.

[Callaway]

Nice to see you about

Thanks...But that's not a question!

Are you cleaning up after yourself now?

[Phlexor]

I think you should get into kilts. Solves all your problems from all bases perhaps.

_{(I don't claim my advice acually helps people, online play may change gaming experience).}

[GalileoAce]

Nice to see you about

Thanks...But that's not a question!

Are you cleaning up after yourself now?

Huh? I don't understand.

I think you should get into kilts. Solves all your problems from all bases perhaps.
_{(I don't claim my advice acually helps people, online play may change gaming experience).}

Disclaimer aside, I'm not a transvestite

[Phlexor]

Nice to see you about

Thanks...But that's not a question!

Are you cleaning up after yourself now?

Huh? I don't understand.

I think you should get into kilts. Solves all your problems from all bases perhaps.
_{(I don't claim my advice acually helps people, online play may change gaming experience).}

Disclaimer aside, I'm not a transvestite

Either are most men that wear kilts.

But hang on, I know I'm not fully knowledgeable about all things gender issue/confused, but can one be a woman trapped in a mans body and be happy to be there? Or would that be a man trapped in a woman trapped in a mans body? Now I'm confused.

I guess the real question should be, are you comfortable enough to discuss this in your ask away thread?

[GalileoAce]

Nice to see you about

Thanks...But that's not a question!

Are you cleaning up after yourself now?

Huh? I don't understand.

I think you should get into kilts. Solves all your problems from all bases perhaps.
_{(I don't claim my advice acually helps people, online play may change gaming experience).}

Disclaimer aside, I'm not a transvestite

Either are most men that wear kilts.

But hang on, I know I'm not fully knowledgeable about all things gender issue/confused, but can one be a woman trapped in a mans body and be happy to be there? Or would that be a man trapped in a woman trapped in a mans body? Now I'm confused.

I guess the real question should be, are you comfortable enough to discuss this in your ask away thread?

Not entirely comfortable, given past incidents...and a recent PM on WP, no.

But I'll clear up some terms:

Transvestite is someone who enjoys/feels better wearing the clothing of the opposite gender
Transsexual is someone who feels better in the opposite gender (ie: social role, body, clothing etc)
Transgender is an umbrella term that covers alot of cross gendered behaviour/people
Genderqueer is another umbrella term that is slightly outside transgender.

I don't like the term transsexual, personally.

[Phlexor]

Nice to see you about

Thanks...But that's not a question!

Are you cleaning up after yourself now?

Huh? I don't understand.

I think you should get into kilts. Solves all your problems from all bases perhaps.
_{(I don't claim my advice acually helps people, online play may change gaming experience).}

Disclaimer aside, I'm not a transvestite

Either are most men that wear kilts.

But hang on, I know I'm not fully knowledgeable about all things gender issue/confused, but can one be a woman trapped in a mans body and be happy to be there? Or would that be a man trapped in a woman trapped in a mans body? Now I'm confused.

I guess the real question should be, are you comfortable enough to discuss this in your ask away thread?

Not entirely comfortable, given past incidents...and a recent PM on WP, no.

But I'll clear up some terms:

Transvestite is someone who enjoys/feels better wearing the clothing of the opposite gender
Transsexual is someone who feels better in the opposite gender (ie: social role, body, clothing etc)
Transgender is an umbrella term that covers alot of cross gendered behaviour/people
Genderqueer is another umbrella term that is slightly outside transgender.

I don't like the term transsexual, personally.

Yeah, I pretty much understand that anyway, I guess I'm really wondering where you see yourself in that spectrum. If you can even answer that.

I'll be honest, it does make me somewhat uncomfortable. I don't want to come across as insensitive or offensive over a subject that is very serious. It does make me question how I should relate to you even though it shouldn't matter. It's probably just as confusing to you as it is to those around you, but you have to live with it always until, if ever, you resolve these feelings.

I guess it would also help if you could say what or how you would like others to treat you over this. Do we keep relating to you as we did before?

Just remember that I really don't want to be retarded about this. I just type and that happens automatically 

[GalileoAce]

Nice to see you about

Thanks...But that's not a question!

Are you cleaning up after yourself now?

Huh? I don't understand.

I think you should get into kilts. Solves all your problems from all bases perhaps.
_{(I don't claim my advice acually helps people, online play may change gaming experience).}

Disclaimer aside, I'm not a transvestite

Either are most men that wear kilts.

But hang on, I know I'm not fully knowledgeable about all things gender issue/confused, but can one be a woman trapped in a mans body and be happy to be there? Or would that be a man trapped in a woman trapped in a mans body? Now I'm confused.

I guess the real question should be, are you comfortable enough to discuss this in your ask away thread?

Not entirely comfortable, given past incidents...and a recent PM on WP, no.

But I'll clear up some terms:

Transvestite is someone who enjoys/feels better wearing the clothing of the opposite gender
Transsexual is someone who feels better in the opposite gender (ie: social role, body, clothing etc)
Transgender is an umbrella term that covers alot of cross gendered behaviour/people
Genderqueer is another umbrella term that is slightly outside transgender.

I don't like the term transsexual, personally.

Yeah, I pretty much understand that anyway, I guess I'm really wondering where you see yourself in that spectrum. If you can even answer that.
I'll be honest, it does make me somewhat uncomfortable. I don't want to come across as insensitive or offensive over a subject that is very serious. It does make me question how I should relate to you even though it shouldn't matter. It's probably just as confusing to you as it is to those around you, but you have to live with it always until, if ever, you resolve these feelings.
I guess it would also help if you could say what or how you would like others to treat you over this. Do we keep relating to you as we did before?
Just remember that I really don't want to be retarded about this. I just type and that happens automatically 

Status Quo until further notice I suppose. It's the internet, I'm not sure how much could change other than replacing he for she (which anyone can do if they feel so inclined), it's mostly the real world where my issues lie.

On that spectrum I somewhere around transgender.

[Phlexor]

Nice to see you about

Thanks...But that's not a question!

Are you cleaning up after yourself now?

Huh? I don't understand.

I think you should get into kilts. Solves all your problems from all bases perhaps.
_{(I don't claim my advice acually helps people, online play may change gaming experience).}

Disclaimer aside, I'm not a transvestite

Either are most men that wear kilts.

But hang on, I know I'm not fully knowledgeable about all things gender issue/confused, but can one be a woman trapped in a mans body and be happy to be there? Or would that be a man trapped in a woman trapped in a mans body? Now I'm confused.

I guess the real question should be, are you comfortable enough to discuss this in your ask away thread?

Not entirely comfortable, given past incidents...and a recent PM on WP, no.

But I'll clear up some terms:

Transvestite is someone who enjoys/feels better wearing the clothing of the opposite gender
Transsexual is someone who feels better in the opposite gender (ie: social role, body, clothing etc)
Transgender is an umbrella term that covers alot of cross gendered behaviour/people
Genderqueer is another umbrella term that is slightly outside transgender.

I don't like the term transsexual, personally.

Yeah, I pretty much understand that anyway, I guess I'm really wondering where you see yourself in that spectrum. If you can even answer that.
I'll be honest, it does make me somewhat uncomfortable. I don't want to come across as insensitive or offensive over a subject that is very serious. It does make me question how I should relate to you even though it shouldn't matter. It's probably just as confusing to you as it is to those around you, but you have to live with it always until, if ever, you resolve these feelings.
I guess it would also help if you could say what or how you would like others to treat you over this. Do we keep relating to you as we did before?
Just remember that I really don't want to be retarded about this. I just type and that happens automatically 

Status Quo until further notice I suppose. It's the internet, I'm not sure how much could change other than replacing he for she (which anyone can do if they feel so inclined), it's mostly the real world where my issues lie.

On that spectrum I somewhere around transgender.

So basically you want people to treat you like you never said anything about it publicly because you wish you never said anything about it publicly? 

[GalileoAce]

Nice to see you about

Thanks...But that's not a question!

Are you cleaning up after yourself now?

Huh? I don't understand.

I think you should get into kilts. Solves all your problems from all bases perhaps.
_{(I don't claim my advice acually helps people, online play may change gaming experience).}

Disclaimer aside, I'm not a transvestite

Either are most men that wear kilts.

But hang on, I know I'm not fully knowledgeable about all things gender issue/confused, but can one be a woman trapped in a mans body and be happy to be there? Or would that be a man trapped in a woman trapped in a mans body? Now I'm confused.

I guess the real question should be, are you comfortable enough to discuss this in your ask away thread?

Not entirely comfortable, given past incidents...and a recent PM on WP, no.

But I'll clear up some terms:

Transvestite is someone who enjoys/feels better wearing the clothing of the opposite gender
Transsexual is someone who feels better in the opposite gender (ie: social role, body, clothing etc)
Transgender is an umbrella term that covers alot of cross gendered behaviour/people
Genderqueer is another umbrella term that is slightly outside transgender.

I don't like the term transsexual, personally.

Yeah, I pretty much understand that anyway, I guess I'm really wondering where you see yourself in that spectrum. If you can even answer that.
I'll be honest, it does make me somewhat uncomfortable. I don't want to come across as insensitive or offensive over a subject that is very serious. It does make me question how I should relate to you even though it shouldn't matter. It's probably just as confusing to you as it is to those around you, but you have to live with it always until, if ever, you resolve these feelings.
I guess it would also help if you could say what or how you would like others to treat you over this. Do we keep relating to you as we did before?
Just remember that I really don't want to be retarded about this. I just type and that happens automatically 

Status Quo until further notice I suppose. It's the internet, I'm not sure how much could change other than replacing he for she (which anyone can do if they feel so inclined), it's mostly the real world where my issues lie.
On that spectrum I somewhere around transgender.

So basically you want people to treat you like you never said anything about it publicly because you wish you never said anything about it publicly? 

I don't regret having said anything... Though I regret the venue and Peaguy's response. I'm hardly going to request everyone refer to me in feminine terms, especially here for obvious reasons.

[Callaway]

Nice to see you about

Thanks...But that's not a question!

Are you cleaning up after yourself now?

Huh? I don't understand.

I think you should get into kilts. Solves all your problems from all bases perhaps.
_{(I don't claim my advice acually helps people, online play may change gaming experience).}

Disclaimer aside, I'm not a transvestite

I meant are you cleaning up after yourself when you make messes?

I thought if a guy likes to wear skirts sometimes, then he is a transvestite.

Is that incorrect?

[Pyraxis]

I don't regret having said anything... Though I regret the venue and Peaguy's response. I'm hardly going to request everyone refer to me in feminine terms, especially here for obvious reasons.

Why not? I would refer to you as female if you asked. It doesn't matter either way to me.

[RageBeoulve]

I don't regret having said anything... Though I regret the venue and Peaguy's response. I'm hardly going to request everyone refer to me in feminine terms, especially here for obvious reasons.

Why not? I would refer to you as female if you asked. It doesn't matter either way to me.

Yeah dude. I don't care either. Whatever works for you is fine with me.

[GalileoAce]

Nice to see you about

Thanks...But that's not a question!

Are you cleaning up after yourself now?

Huh? I don't understand.

I think you should get into kilts. Solves all your problems from all bases perhaps.
_{(I don't claim my advice acually helps people, online play may change gaming experience).}

Disclaimer aside, I'm not a transvestite

I meant are you cleaning up after yourself when you make messes?
I thought if a guy likes to wear skirts sometimes, then he is a transvestite.
Is that incorrect?

I try.

That's simplistic but accurate, the term doesn't apply to me, they're mutually exclusive.

[El]

I thought if a guy likes to wear skirts sometimes, then he is a transvestite.

Is that incorrect?

I'd think that was only correct if the base assumption was "Guys don't wear skirts."  Hence why kilts were brought up earlier- those are societally normed "skirts" that men "can" wear.  In a venue where it's not abnormal for a man to wear a skirt, a man wearing a skirt would no longer be transvestitism, because it would no longer be him wearing "women's" clothes.