Should I...

[Kosmonaut]

:drumroll:

[El]

steal her seat, i like that.

Me too:

"That's my seat."
"wanna share?"
 

OK, seriously, if she's been"giving you the eye" then she'll probably not be opposed to you sitting next to her.  She might also be too shy to approach you, if she is indeed interested.

Also, there's always the good ol' "I missed this part of the lecture/I didn't understand this/help me" in order to get to talk to her.  If you time that for right before class, you might not even seem too outright "pls-date-me" for sitting next to her.  (From life experience:  I haven't had someone do that (I don't think so, anyway) but I had one kid sit next to me in a computer lounge and ask me what time it was- thing is, the time was displayed right on his computer screen.  It was pretty funny and I went on about a date and a half with him, so it "worked."  Lol.)

Only other thing I can think of is if you have facebook, you could add her (because it's a college networking thing, it's not too weird to get people randomly adding you, though I'm evil and would outright actually ask guys who added me randomly why they did so- it was usually a very easy guess, lol).

BTW- this doesn't sound like "an aspie thing."  More like normal dating agony.   

[Tesla]

Just remember, nothing wagered, nothing gained. 

This is ALWAYS said. But, nothing lost either.
People try and convince me that there is no
risk in such an action, but there seems a moral
one.

Nothing wagered, nothing lost?  What kind of bullshit is that?  I was trying to encourage him dumbass.  Even inaction is action. 

[odeon]

Just remember, nothing wagered, nothing gained. 

This is ALWAYS said. But, nothing lost either.
People try and convince me that there is no
risk in such an action, but there seems a moral
one.

A moral risk? WTF is that, in this context?

[duncvis]

wtf cal? by acting is he risking a negative date/shag?

jesus fucking wept. if you were any more full of shit you'd need to borrow spokie's nappies.



make your move boy. thats my advice anyway.

[enronh]

Hmm. That would be a good idea, except that nobody sits on either side of me. But I'm glad I asked because I had figured that doing this is just one of those weird aspie things that confuses people and drives them away or whatever. Maybe I"ll try it. Only have two weeks left anyway.

Best of luck with that. 

[maldoror]

He probably meant there's a risk of me selling my dignity for nothing. Don't be so ready to criticize.

[duncvis]

Its up to you what your dignity is worth. If you like her its worth risking your dignity for surely? dignity is overrated (but having said which, I'm common)

[Tesla]

Losing your dignity by making a move on a girl who's been giving you the eye?  I just don't see the logic in that.  What I see as dignified is remembering you've got a set of balls and getting your ass out there to pick up some ladies.

[maldoror]

Oh, yeah, I know, but that's how I interpreted what he said.

[richard]

Carrotguy im shure once she actually knows you are intrested in her she wont want to date your fatass

[maldoror]

Wait.. wait... I hear something.. what's that? Is that not the distinctive sound of a gnat? Thrusting its gnattiness into a conversation where it doesn't belong? Why I do believe so.

[richard]

peaguy go eat some jaffa cakes and make another youtube video of you drinking water every two seconds

[maldoror]

Go lose an argument with every member of the board five times and act like you still have respect. Er, again.

[richard]

 
i just relized you are not the real peaguy looks like i have lost again but i dont care