yeah all the high school friends i had were just "friends" really. not real friends
i dunno if there is a historical society here
i only ever go to lectures, library and museum (unless you count buying lucozade in Spar as an opportunity to make friends
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and no one is ever there except people working in the library and families bringing their kids to the museum.
things would be a lot easier if people organised themselves into groups by interest and advertised their interests to me so i knew where to find them
i was ok making "friends" in college as i already knew 2 from school who stuck with me and people who recognised me from classes would add me on myspace and get to know me online first
it's the maintaining friendships part that i suck at, becuase they quickly lose interest with me and they all go to clubs and go out at weekends to places i'd have to get the bus to.