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Re: Do you talk about your ex's to your partner/spouse?
« Reply #30 on: November 24, 2007, 11:34:28 PM »
I had a girl tell me that I was much better at sex than her ex.  She said she'd thought her sex-life was good before, but I think he just fucked her and didn't do other other stuff.

She still had weird commitments to the ex, though, and was protecting him even though he was a violent, schizophrenic angel fluffy bunnah who hurt her and did crazy things like hide in her house to access her computer and threatened her with knives and cut her and stuff.  I got sick of the stress of it, since she wouldn't let me help, and told her to stop telling me about it.  I broke up with her soon after.

So she preferred drama in other areas other than in the bedroom?  Her loss really.


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Re: Do you talk about your ex's to your partner/spouse?
« Reply #31 on: November 25, 2007, 05:42:11 AM »
Best avoided, talking about exes. I know I don't like to hear about it myself.

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Re: Do you talk about your ex's to your partner/spouse?
« Reply #32 on: November 25, 2007, 07:17:31 AM »
We occasionally talk about exes in passing but it isnt a subject that often has relevance. bearing in mind that we've  been together a long time so it isnt a subject likely to cause any uneasy twinges anyway. and owt since we got together has already been pretty much talked out, where necessary.

QFT, I discussed my ex-gf's with my wife before we got married as an exercise in trust and honesty as she did the same.  16 years later it rarely comes up except as a reference point, as in how lucky I was to dodge those "bullets" and wind up with the woman I have. 8)

Ah yes. Same here. Still, those discussion DID happen,
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Re: Do you talk about your ex's to your partner/spouse?
« Reply #33 on: November 25, 2007, 07:18:01 AM »
i do in the sense that any time i talk about stuff ive done with friends... cause it just happens that pretty much my only friends have been my bfs.  some buys dont mind some do... but i tend to not compare them in any way in conversation.  i dont see a point in that.

Not even the subject of "penis size spectrum"?

not that any of them ever asked about the penis-size of my exes... nope, not even to "gf"s

Hmm...I always ask about that.  :laugh:

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Re: Do you talk about your ex's to your partner/spouse?
« Reply #34 on: November 25, 2007, 08:40:31 AM »
i do in the sense that any time i talk about stuff ive done with friends... cause it just happens that pretty much my only friends have been my bfs.  some buys dont mind some do... but i tend to not compare them in any way in conversation.  i dont see a point in that.

Not even the subject of "penis size spectrum"?

not that any of them ever asked about the penis-size of my exes... nope, not even to "gf"s

Why would your girlfriends know how big your ex's cocks were?
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14:10 - Moarskrillex42: She said something about knowing why I wanted to move to Glasgow when she came in. She plopped down on my bed and told me to go ahead and open it for her.

14:11 - Peter5930: So, she thought I was your lover and that I was sending you a box full of sex toys, and that you wanted to move to Glasgow to be with me?

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Re: Do you talk about your ex's to your partner/spouse?
« Reply #35 on: November 25, 2007, 08:48:24 AM »
I had a girl tell me that I was much better at sex than her ex.  She said she'd thought her sex-life was good before, but I think he just fucked her and didn't do other other stuff.

She still had weird commitments to the ex, though, and was protecting him even though he was a violent, schizophrenic angel fluffy bunnah who hurt her and did crazy things like hide in her house to access her computer and threatened her with knives and cut her and stuff.  I got sick of the stress of it, since she wouldn't let me help, and told her to stop telling me about it.  I broke up with her soon after.

So she preferred drama in other areas other than in the bedroom?  Her loss really.

Yeah, she was quite fond of drama and seemed to actively cultivate it, but was pretty unadventurous in the bedroom.  A few times she told me to stop when she was coming, since she didn't want to lose control and get loud, and she was a bit embarrassed at some of the things I did to her.
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14:10 - Moarskrillex42: She said something about knowing why I wanted to move to Glasgow when she came in. She plopped down on my bed and told me to go ahead and open it for her.

14:11 - Peter5930: So, she thought I was your lover and that I was sending you a box full of sex toys, and that you wanted to move to Glasgow to be with me?

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Re: Do you talk about your ex's to your partner/spouse?
« Reply #36 on: November 25, 2007, 09:40:52 AM »
Best avoided, talking about exes. I know I don't like to hear about it myself.

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Re: Do you talk about your ex's to your partner/spouse?
« Reply #37 on: November 25, 2007, 09:42:32 AM »
I had a girl tell me that I was much better at sex than her ex.  She said she'd thought her sex-life was good before, but I think he just fucked her and didn't do other other stuff.

She still had weird commitments to the ex, though, and was protecting him even though he was a violent, schizophrenic angel fluffy bunnah who hurt her and did crazy things like hide in her house to access her computer and threatened her with knives and cut her and stuff.  I got sick of the stress of it, since she wouldn't let me help, and told her to stop telling me about it.  I broke up with her soon after.

So she preferred drama in other areas other than in the bedroom?  Her loss really.

Yeah, she was quite fond of drama and seemed to actively cultivate it, but was pretty unadventurous in the bedroom.  A few times she told me to stop when she was coming, since she didn't want to lose control and get loud, and she was a bit embarrassed at some of the things I did to her.

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Re: Do you talk about your ex's to your partner/spouse?
« Reply #38 on: November 25, 2007, 10:11:24 AM »
i do in the sense that any time i talk about stuff ive done with friends... cause it just happens that pretty much my only friends have been my bfs.  some buys dont mind some do... but i tend to not compare them in any way in conversation.  i dont see a point in that.

Not even the subject of "penis size spectrum"?

not that any of them ever asked about the penis-size of my exes... nope, not even to "gf"s

Why would your girlfriends know how big your ex's cocks were?

they didnt... internetloser is just trying to have some imaginitive off-getting
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Re: Do you talk about your ex's to your partner/spouse?
« Reply #39 on: November 25, 2007, 10:18:18 AM »
i do in the sense that any time i talk about stuff ive done with friends... cause it just happens that pretty much my only friends have been my bfs.  some buys dont mind some do... but i tend to not compare them in any way in conversation.  i dont see a point in that.

Not even the subject of "penis size spectrum"?

not that any of them ever asked about the penis-size of my exes... nope, not even to "gf"s

Why would your girlfriends know how big your ex's cocks were?

they didnt... internetloser is just trying to have some imaginitive off-getting

I was? When was that, Cuntrona?

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Re: Do you talk about your ex's to your partner/spouse?
« Reply #40 on: November 25, 2007, 11:02:15 AM »
i do in the sense that any time i talk about stuff ive done with friends... cause it just happens that pretty much my only friends have been my bfs.  some buys dont mind some do... but i tend to not compare them in any way in conversation.  i dont see a point in that.

Not even the subject of "penis size spectrum"?

not that any of them ever asked about the penis-size of my exes... nope, not even to "gf"s

Why would your girlfriends know how big your ex's cocks were?

they didnt... internetloser is just trying to have some imaginitive off-getting

I was? When was that, Cuntrona?

youre oh so clever... im gonna go cry now
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Re: Do you talk about your ex's to your partner/spouse?
« Reply #41 on: November 25, 2007, 11:10:33 AM »
i do in the sense that any time i talk about stuff ive done with friends... cause it just happens that pretty much my only friends have been my bfs.  some buys dont mind some do... but i tend to not compare them in any way in conversation.  i dont see a point in that.

Not even the subject of "penis size spectrum"?

not that any of them ever asked about the penis-size of my exes... nope, not even to "gf"s

Why would your girlfriends know how big your ex's cocks were?

they didnt... internetloser is just trying to have some imaginitive off-getting

I was? When was that, Cuntrona?

youre oh so clever... im gonna go cry now

Blubbering vagina.

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Re: Do you talk about your ex's to your partner/spouse?
« Reply #42 on: November 25, 2007, 02:34:53 PM »
I had a girl tell me that I was much better at sex than her ex.  She said she'd thought her sex-life was good before, but I think he just fucked her and didn't do other other stuff.

She still had weird commitments to the ex, though, and was protecting him even though he was a violent, schizophrenic angel fluffy bunnah who hurt her and did crazy things like hide in her house to access her computer and threatened her with knives and cut her and stuff.  I got sick of the stress of it, since she wouldn't let me help, and told her to stop telling me about it.  I broke up with her soon after.

So she preferred drama in other areas other than in the bedroom?  Her loss really.

Yeah, she was quite fond of drama and seemed to actively cultivate it, but was pretty unadventurous in the bedroom.  A few times she told me to stop when she was coming, since she didn't want to lose control and get loud, and she was a bit embarrassed at some of the things I did to her.

This sounds excellent.....sounds like it was a good idea you parted ways.

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Re: Do you talk about your ex's to your partner/spouse?
« Reply #43 on: November 25, 2007, 02:35:44 PM »
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Re: Do you talk about your ex's to your partner/spouse?
« Reply #44 on: November 25, 2007, 03:43:24 PM »
i do in the sense that any time i talk about stuff ive done with friends... cause it just happens that pretty much my only friends have been my bfs.  some buys dont mind some do... but i tend to not compare them in any way in conversation.  i dont see a point in that.

Not even the subject of "penis size spectrum"?

not that any of them ever asked about the penis-size of my exes... nope, not even to "gf"s

Why would your girlfriends know how big your ex's cocks were?

they didnt... internetloser is just trying to have some imaginitive off-getting

I was? When was that, Cuntrona?

youre oh so clever... im gonna go cry now

Blubbering vagina.

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