all he's done to me has been related to sophie really.
i didn't see it at the time as it was in the mod forum, but he apparently mocked her when she got raped, something about "losing your virginity in the sewer" or something. to be fair, i didn't see that so know little about it. but that's what i've been told and it sounds like the kind of disgusting thing he'd do.
he's never been close to her or been a good friend to her or anything, yet he made that "sophie tribute thread" on wp for her, claiming he's grieving and he's lost a friend. they weren't friends. sophie blocked him on msn and said he was never on anyway (which i'm guessing means he didn't put much effort into this so-called "friendship"). she thought he was arrogant and he thought he was funny and attractive. he said cockney rebel and calico were disgusting, and that's why cockney got de-modded. and he wanted to ban jason because he found him annoying.
^ i have chat logs to prove any of that as well
he said in PMs to someone, that "sopho is partly to blame for this" and that i was never her friend. he said i convinced her to troll wp, when i didn't. so he's been trying to make out to everyone that i poisoned her against him and then corrupted her and forced her to flame his shitty site or whatever. he also says it's my fault she stopped being 'friends' with him. which is crap - when i met her i still liked alex (in my ignorance - i'd only been on wp a couple of weeks).
^ and i have the PMs to prove he said that crap^
his "tribute thread" to her is full of shit. he goes on about how she's a wp member. no, she got banned. a former wp mod. but he doesnt say why she got demodded (for saying "fuck alex" on here). and he said the thread was only for 'positive comments' about her. yet when people started posting askign how she died and crap, he answered them. he has no right to do that at all, as he knows nothing about the situation. what was posted in blogs and news articles about her when she died, was mostly incorrect. so unless someone has spoken to her family about it, or to me or someone else who knows what happened, they have no right to go telling everyone how they think she died or whatever.
and when beetle made a comment about how sophie was "mean", alex was browsing the haven 15 minutes after, so he saw it, yet he never deleted it. i had to wait for gwen to delete it. but when raph and kilroy etc were asking him about why he blamed me, he tried to lock the thread and it ended up deleted or moved to the mod forum. so he lied about how it was only for positive comments about her. he left nasty stuff about her in there, but when it's criticising him he jumps as fast as he can to get rid of it.
he's a hypocrite. when someone posted that no one was to blame, he posted afterwards "i agree", even after he'd said "sopho is partly to blame for this."
he also said "You knew her after sopho changed her from the sweet caring person she was". which is shit. i didn't change her. we both changed together over the summer, but it wasn't me making sophie change, or sophie making me change. and she was ALWAYS sweet. she used to help people even when she was depressed herself, when i was upset, she would try and help me get better and said it was 'heartbreaking.' when people annoyed her on msn, she'd put up with them, or say 'brb' instead of just telling them to fuck off, to save hurting their feelings. when i was depressed once and she thought it was her fault and she was going to lose me, she said she felt like a piece of her heart was missing. how is that not sweet and caring:/? he's a liar.
he said he "knew" he and sophie would sort out their disagreement or whatever and become friends again. how can he claim to know what goes on in her head? i knew her a million times better than he or anyone else on there did and she wasn't planning on becoming friends with him at all.
anyway, i'm rambling. there are other things, but that's the gist of it
